Just enjoy sex But make sure your foreplay is long and that you are horny. Try sucking and leaking instead of penetration. You may send ma a mail and what about some good photos og yous labia
Beth
May 19, 2010
This site has always helped boost my confidence when I felt down
about my large labia. So thank you for that!
However i'm writing
in now, as I have just recently become sexually active I have found
that my labia get irritated quite easily and sore when i'm doing
foreplay or having sex.
Looking through some other comments
however, it seems that some women like me sometimes get extra
pleasure from their larger labia rather then it being sore.
Is
there anyway to overcome the discomfort?
Comments would be
appreciated.
Kwaadjie
May 20, 2010
Just enjoy sex But make sure your foreplay is long and that you are horny. Try sucking and leaking instead of penetration. You may send ma a mail and what about some good photos og yous labia
KnowLips
May 20, 2010
Beth
I have a girlfriend with a very tiny clit.The first
time we got together i sucked it for a very long time.It grew to a
size she could realy notice.She was so happy,I had to take photos she
could not stop looking at.Every time we get together now we do the
same and it now grows to a much larger size.I spend about 20min
sucking and licking her pussy.She also has lovely large lips.I make
sure that her lips are realy wet before any fore play.She has never
mentioned any dscomford.
Hope this helps.Fell free to
E-mail me
Regards
Jack
May 21, 2010
My girlfriend has very long thin rose petals, over 1.5 inches. We find it is more enjoyable for her if she gets very wet before penetration and spreads her juices on the outside of the petals, then she sticks them to her by spreading them outward, they now are out of the way for a while. It gives her a more "open" appearance which is very erotic to me as well. Eventually they loosen with our motion and conform around me as I get wet from her which adds extra pleasure for both of us. If you are dry by nature try using KY on your petals, it works pretty well.
Jessica
May 22, 2010
Beth,
Please read my reply to Liese, letter
2921.
Despite the
popular belief that first-time sex is awesome, women usually don't
enjoy sex at the beginning because it takes time to learn what feels
good, and there is the expectation that the physical contact is going
to magically feel good.
Before I became sexually active I
always heard how much enjoyable sex was so my first time I was
expecting it to automatically feel good and when it didn't and
actually hurt, I was very disappointed. After faking it the first
couple of times, i thought I was either a lesbian or sexually
dysfunctional. I couldn't relax and properly get aroused and sex was
uncomfortable. It took me almost a year to learn to enjoy sex.
K
May 22, 2010
Beth,
My labia/clit are very sensitive too which can make oral
sex kind of irritating at times.. It definately helps to get really
really wet before doing anything ESPECIALLY penetration.. If my
boyfriend tries to touch my clit before its wet, its like a really
annoying pain... If youre comfortable enough with ur guy, ask him to
like stroke your hood gently, between his finger and his thumb.. its
a nice way to get nice n wet without irritating ur clit.. also.. it
helps if you tell them to not focus on the same area for long periods
of time..Like, start with the hood, then maybe pull on or suck on the
lips and hood as a whole, then maybe one at a time and every so often
lick or suck the clit.. then maybe some finger penetration.. Hm..that
sounds really nice right about now actually...... Anyway..to sum it
up, if youre experiencing pain/irriation on ur labia during sex or
foreplay just have him switch it up and not focus on the same
spot for too long and remember to be wet first and if you dry
up try having him do something not so stimulating but that will still
turn u on and get you wet again.. like sucking on ur inner thigh or
nipples or something...
rod
May 23, 2010
K,
Thanks for the extremely informative message.
You've given me and I suspect all appreciators of the female
form some very good advice to not 'go like a bull at the gate' as the
saying goes, straight for a ladies clit. Excellent advice and
suggestions - and more than a little hot too!
What a
great forum this site is - we all have something to learn here.
Thanks,
Rod.
Eric
May 23, 2010
Beth,
The ladies really gave you the perfect advice!
Try having your man lick your clit through the hood if it's too
sensitive, as that will likely help in making you wet without
irritating you (I just had sex with a woman recently who liked it
this way too).
If he's going to use his hands to stimulate
you before sex, have him wash his hands first (I find this helps
too), and put some lotion on them (it'll help his hands to be a
little "softer and smoother".) -- and then instead of diving right
in, have him spread your lips, and maybe put a single finger inside
you slowly, and then use the "moistness" from your pussy to stimulate
your clit a little, and then repeat the process when the air dries
his finger out a little. I find the best way to do this is to
have the woman sit on top of me with her legs spread open so I can
put my hands on her and rub her thighs, her pussy and her whole body
-- major turn on for me too and probably for your man as well since
he won't be able to SEE your whole body since your back will be
against him, but he'll be able to feel your body with his hands.
It's especially nice if you rest your head on his shoulder so
he can kiss your neck and shoulders while he works magic on your body
with his hands. Eventually, if he does this right and for long
enough you'll be VERY moist down there, and it'll start to feel
really good. Especially if he uses one hand maybe to rub the
rest of your body, your nipples, and maybe your neck, and then uses
the other hand to stimulate your clit and/or your labia.
And
if you don't want him to lick your pussy, or like lots of foreplay
before sex and prefer to get right into it, then make sure you use
plenty of lubricant which you can buy over-the-counter from a local
pharmacy. There are even special kinds which make the sensation
a bit different even.
Just make sure you enjoy yourself, and
the wetness will likely come naturally, but if it doesn't there's
nothing wrong with a little lubricant to help your already natural
female lubricant.
- Eric
Beth
May 26, 2010
thank you so much for the replies everyone.
they were really
helpful :)
i guess communication with my boyfriend will probably
go a long way too.
i usually start off very wet but then it seems
to dry up which confused me. i'm still quite novice to sex at the
moment so i wasn't sure if this was normal.
it seemed because i
had bigger lips, it seemed was harder to lubricate my entire vulva
naturally. i guess i will have to...erm...keep working on it ;)