Hi Jenna,
It is true that some guys don't like big labia but
is also tru that some guys do like them. Personally I had small-ish
labia when I was about your age and then I met a guy when I was 22
and he loved big labia and told me how he liked to suck on them and
pull them to make them bigger. I loved this and basically just opened
my legs for him :)
You dilemma sounds quite different though
due to college and peer pressures. All I can say as support and
advice is to be confident about your body (all aspects). You have a
pussy like all other girls and your labia is bigger like some girls
labia are smaller and maybe even bigger than yours!!!
At the
end of the day, from my own experience, if you are confident and love
yourself and your body then this will certainly rub off on your
partner (sex buddy).
Have fun, enjoy sex and be safe - don't
let guys just slip it in. Look after yourself.
I hope all
goes well xxxxxxx
Asian Provocateur