WHY ME??

Hi AJ,

You have nothing to be ashamed of. Large labia is genetic and not a bad thing. Personally I love large labia and so do a lot of other people - I also like bondage and a really nice firm butt. This is my preference and the next guy may be totally different.

What you must remember is that you're not the only woman with this gift of large labia, lots of other women have it too. Respectively lots of men want their gf or wife to stretch their labia so it actually become larger and hangs lower - well thats what me and my gf do. We use a pussy pump and weights to enlarge her lips. She loves it and I can't get enough.

If a guy is mature enough and has had some sexual experience you never know, he might go down on you and not come up :) or he may not like large labia. Either way if he makes a big (negative) deal about your lovely lips then it seems safe to say "bye bye" to him.

Embrace your large lips - send me an email if you like we'll chat more.

I second "noodles" comments here.  You are gifted with large labia.  Be proud of them, enjoy them, make good use of them.  Stay away from the immature or rude people who would make negative or stupid comments.  You have absolutely no reason to be ashamed of your appearance.  Learn to understand the benefits of it, and make good use of it.

Aj, are you sure you haven't been inside my head lately? That is almost exactly how I've felt my entire life! I only recently stumbled upon this amazing site and am still coming to grips with the fact that I'm not a "monster". You are beautiful, inside and out. Your long, large labia is a beautiful part of you, but it's not what should define you or dictate who you can have a relationship with. Please don't have surgery. It's disfiguring. Stay strong and keep your head up. You are perfect as you are. :)