My large labia- what will others teenagers think?

Ashamed, you are so very young, and you are just starting to learn about sex yourself, much less the attitudes of others.  As you say, your partners have gone down on your pussy, played with those beautiful large lips of yours, and given you fabulous orgasms.  How bad is that?  With your wonderful large, hanging lips, and that large clit sticking out, your body is screaming that you are ready for sex.  You will find many, many people who's greatest desire is to suck on those lips, and to play with that beautiful big clit.  I know that people your age are extremely concerned with how others see them, but I promise you, the reviews will all be very positive, as long as you are seeing people who are worth while, and not someone who is so shallow that they think some scrawny model is the ideal of female beauty.  You state that your partners so far have been quite inexperienced.  You state that one of them was very shy.  That's all quite normal at that age.  Don't worry so much.  From the sound of things you have a fabulous, sexy body.  Just continue to make good use of it.  The more you do, the more you will experience the benefits of your large lips and clit, the more you will come to understand how valuable they are, and how blessed you are to have them.

I totally feel you on every single thing you just said. Its so hard to make people who dont go through what we go through  understand.  All I can say is maybe you'll be lucky enough to find a girl who is made just like you :)

Dear Ashamed

Please email me, I would love to chat with you.  Please take pity on  
the poor guys like me who cannot find a women with a clit large enough.  You are sooooooooooooo  hard to find.  I promise only the most positive response you have ever heard.  Lets share our secret together.

dear ashamed and all other lovelies,
your destiny on this earth is not to be troubled guests.
you are invited.
you have been endowed with the magic bliss body.
and a magic flower of consequence.
the mighty rose does not worry she should be queen ann's lace.
may i recommend the dvd from annie sprinkle, how to be a sex goddess.  
there have always have been lesser minds, let them not contaminate your joy stream, only you can choose.
only you can choose the self respect you need to love yourself. then all the rest will fall away.
find good sane friends who are wise and accepting. shun others.
if you are inclined to read about a good therapist perhaps try alexander lowen, "pleasure", or "love sex and your heart."  
blessed be, be in light, -b

Hi,

People on this site will keep telling you how blessed you are with your large labia but in the real world you will come across thse people who won't understand anatomy or won't have experience in that area. So really some people may react negatively - however, there just as many people out there that love large labia.

There are so many people out there that keep their love for large labia/clits a secret because they may think they are weird.

My gf had labia that didn't really protrude at all. After a few months I spoke to her about my fetishes and stuff and told her that I want to play with her lips and suck on them etc... I even told her that I want to hang weights on them to stretch them and purchased a pussy pump to show my commitment :D

She's the best and said "yeah sure break a leg" - they now protrude by about 2cm . So what I'm saying is that beven men want women to have large labia but don't always speak up.

I actually create pop art-type pictues of erotic photos like legs, feet, breasts, and pussy pics - people love them. Send me an email and I'll send you a few.

Take care of your lips...they're sacred :)

Dear Ashamed. . .

I suggest you read the letter I wrote to "Shawna" a young woman who like you, was feeling a bit "strange" about her most prized possession. =0)

Here it is:

www.sexylabia.com/letters/msg2345_for-shawna.htm

I'm sure it'll change your perspective about yourself.

- Eric

Wow, thank you for your responses, you all speak honestly and I appreciate it.  

I guess everything should be fine as long as I don't get with obnoxious, disrespectful people- decent people would never judge someone on the size of their sexual organs- I know I never would.  

I wish every single person could see this site so that they'd understand how normal large labia are.  

<3

you and me both, woulnt it be great if that fear could just be completly elliminated. well guess what hun, it can. Guys DONT care!! they joke because they hear other guys jokeing. those guys are joking because they heard guys jokeing. and so on. in the end the whole thing was prolly made up by some unexperienced shallow girl. i say that because from all the guys ive been with, all the guys who know, its always me they come to. but girls are cruel and shallow (no offence girls not all but some are >.<) so honestly, dont worry about it too much. if they didnt say anything about it than i wouldnt worry... and if all else fails. ask.