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Hi K
Go back through the letters and gather some email addys specially  the males,send them a pic of your Labia and wait for the replies,I would be surprised if you get any negative responses.Yes I am curious and would love to see them.They will be beautiful I am sure.
Torsguy

K, Your petite size just makes those lovely, large, thick labia that much more exciting due to the contrast.  Outstanding.  Your beautiful lips are such a sexual attraction.  The more lip you have hanging down between your thighs the better.  Try playing with them more, getting more excitement and pleasure out of them.  If all you're doing is looking at them in a mirror, they aren't doing you much good.  Try my earlier suggestions regarding your usual dressing habits, wearing skirts and dresses and going without underwear.  I know it's not your thing, but give it a try and see if it's more comfortable.  It's certainly more sexy.  Use some oil on your lips to keep the lips slippery and smooth so they don't get caught on the seams of pants or on the elastic thigh bands of your underwear if you must wear it.  Finally, share some photos with some of the contributors here in order to get some direct opinions regarding your luscious lips.  All the men, and most of the women here admire what you have, and feel you are blessed.  The one thing you shouldn't do is to get them cut off.  Feel free to contact me if you want to discuss your feelings any further.  I urge you to put off any thoughts of surgery.  I assure you, your lips are a great asset, and once they are gone, gone forever.

Thank you guys. I really appreciate your concern and advice. However, firstly, i dont know if i'd be comfortable sending pics of my labia over the internet. Plus, even if you guys like them, its only gonna go so far in building my confidence because you guys have fetishes for them, and most guys dont :/ I do play with my labia and I appreciate them during that time, but beyond that.... they just dont offer me much other than worry, stress, and pain. About the clothing, i cant possibly wear skirts and dresses all the time, and i refuse to do so without a tan anyway (which i am definately not tan). I like to wear jeans, tight fitting, cute jeans, and it pinches soooo bad, especially while sitting/driving. I dont really want surgery because for one, ive seen before and after pictures and, the after pictures still dont look "normal". And for two, the pain and loss of sensation associated with it. But STILL. .. sometimes, i catch myself thinking its gotta be better than this. Even if its a little smaller, that should help with the pinching... I dont know.. im at a loss, and im just tired of it all... i shouldnt have to think about this... girls have enough to worry about with their bodies, and i of course DO worry about everything.. but this is by far the most embarassing one..... fucking sucks..... i just wish it was more common..... Thanks again though .. for your concern.

K, I promise you that the desire for larger, thicker, longer labia is not restricted to the men who comment on this site.  Almost every man I know appreciates them.  Sorry about the clothing issue, but if that's how you want to dress, then it becomes a matter of finding ways to make the tight jeans and shorts more comfortable for you.  Keeping the labia wet with oil is one suggestion I have for you, making them easier to slip around the clothing as you move.  Another is to try spreading your lips as you dress, keeping the crotch seam in the middle to rub against your clit as you move about, while the lips are not in a position to get caught and pinch.  You are quite right about the surgery, there are just too many negatives, and I promise you would be eternally sorry afterward.  I am sorry for all of your frustrations.  Please keep us informed of your progress working some of this out.  I have to think that the women on here have some answers and guidance for you, and I am disturbed that some of them have not made some helpful recommendations to you.   There certainly have to be answers which will work for you and help you.  Best Wishes.

I think another reason why my labia bothers me is that.. its not just my labia that are large/thick. Its more so my clitoral hood than the actual labia. So instead of being large lip"s" that the men on here tend to talk about, its one big..... i dont even  know what to call it other than "thing".  I guess i dont really know how to explain it. If i had to choose pics on this website that remind me of it, i would have to say pic #'s 9,12, and 41 are all similar in that they have large clitoral hoods which make the labia seem like more of one unit than two separate lips and also make me feel more like i have a freakin penis. Especially from the view of someone looking at me in the standing position.   :/

K, if your pussy looks like the ones in the photos you list, you are a very, very lucky girl.  How stunning!  Truly beautiful.  To my mind, and that of many men and women I know, you possess the absolute ideal.

It is truly a great shame that you are never going to be happy with yourself, we are what we think we are, you take a little time to convince yourself to be happy for no one else can do that for you.

Mr "S"