For Shawna. . .
Eric
April 1, 2009
Shawna, Shawna, Shawna. . .
What can I say?? I read
some of your earlier messages, and you'll see I don't post messages
on the site unless I see something that really catches my eye -- like
this message just did (letter
2338).
Let me point some things out to you,
and hopefully you'll feel better about whatever direction you decide
to go in.
First, I am a happily married 29 year old male,
just so you know, I'm not young and immature (at least by some
standards anyway). . .
You for some reason believe that it
will take for you to let some surgeon cut what you have, when in
reality, you see yourself through the eyes of the rest of the world,
instead of seeing yourself through your own eyes.
You know
why I know this?? I'm one of those "uncut" guys you refer to,
that you apparently hate (isn't that such a strong word?).
I
can tell you from experience, that it is purely inexperience speaking
when you talk. . .just as it was when I spoke when I was 18 (at least
10 years ago).
I used to be one of those guys who "hated"
large labia, and thought it was gross (at first anyway), because I
was seeing the world through the eyes of people I knew, and my
friends, who were just as foolish and immature as I was.
There was a girl I used to make fun of that had large labia, but
in a secret way, I actually liked her, but just really made fun of
her because my friends did the same thing, and I wanted to be "cool"
like them.
Boy, oh boy do I see the world differently now.
I ended up having sex with that girl a few years later (we
were both seniors in high school by that time), and my god was it one
of the best experiences I've ever had.
The girl paid
attention to every detail, and I most importantly learned that all
pussy feels the same exact way, no matter what it looks like -- of
course girls with larger labia make for a "smoother" ride if you know
what I mean. . .but besides that, it all feels just as good.
I at the time was also self-conscious myself, because I was (and
still am) uncut, even though I considered getting circumcised at one
point about 6 years ago, but quickly scrapped the idea, after being
told how "nice" my cock, and how good it felt was by a sexy girl I
had a few trysts with, who later went into the porn business [she now
does porn films for Zero Tolerance], and I figured if ANYONE knows
about good dick, it would be her!
But I quickly found that
once I stopped looking at the women I encountered through the eyes of
everyone else, and instead through my own eyes only, I find women,
and the "tools" they come with more attractive then I ever did in my
life.
I find that personality means something, and isn't
just a word that people use to describe differences.
I've
"been around the block" as some would say, and have been with all
kinds of women, from asian women, to redheads (my favorite), Latinas
(another favorite of mine), black chicks, blondies, brunettes, all
with varying degrees of labia length, and different pussy types, and
I can honestly say without even thinking about it that they all had
SEXY pussies.
Have you seen Cindy (YummyMama.com)??
She's got a nice one. So does Andie Valentino (Porn Star).
If you haven't I suggest you look up Andie Valentino,
because she's not just a porn star, she's a BIG porn star, and she
just EXCUDES sexiness.
Here's a pic I found of her on Google
(snatch PROUDLY hanging out too!):
www.babes2night.com/galleries/2007/4/penthouse_andie_valentino/
penthouse_andie_valentino_015.php
She's so sexy, I'd
drink her bathwater!
Maybe for some guys on this site, it's
her pussy lips that make her sexy, but for me (I first saw her in
Penthouse Magazine), it's just the fact that she's really confident,
classy, and even raunchy sometimes. Here big pussy lips, are
just an added plus if you ask me.
Some guys on here say they
love to suck larger pussy lips, and so on, but I'll be honest, I like
to eat pussy no matter what the size of the lips are, simply because
I believe in giving as much as I receive! =0)
About being
"uncut", I actually have a pretty interesting story about that, as
I'm sure you will eventually be able to say once you run into the
right man who calls you sexy, makes you cum like you've never come
before, and treats you like a rockstar -- no matter what your pussy
might look like.
Anyway, I was with a woman at one point in
my life, who like you told me (before we actually got to boning each
other) that she didn't like guys who were uncut.
Long story
cut, I was 20 at the time, and she was 19, still living with her
parents (her name was even close to yours, it was "Shayla").
This chick was a cute little brunette. She had black
hair, and blue eyes (I'm such a sucker for dark hair and light eyes),
like Megan Fox, only shorter.
It was pretty dark, but after
I licked her good for about 10 minutes or so, she came at least twice
(I had to cover her mouth, so she wouldn't wake up her parents), and
by the time I whipped my cock out, you know what she said to me when
she actually laid eyes on my uncut dick?
She said, and I
quote: "Wow, that's nice."
She grabbed it, jerked it a few
times, and pulled me closer so she could put it inside her, and when
she did she loved it!
I tried to give it to her doggy style,
but she couldn't take it for too long, and came real fast.
She was too spent to finish me off, but told me that she felt bad
for leaving me hanging, after she came like 3-4 times.
I
told her that it wasn't a big deal, and that she was so damn sexy, it
didn't even matter to me. . .I was just happy to be laying all sweaty
next to her.
After a little while, she climbed on top of me,
and rode me until I eventually started to come, and then like the
sexy chick she was, she jumped off right before I came, and jerked me
until I did.
Her words afterwards?
"There goes my
whole theory about 'uncut' guys not being right for me."
I
asked her why does she say that? She said. . ."are you kidding
me with that?!"
Some guy out there will say the same thing
after he's been with you.
And not because your pussy is
different from the other women, but because you truly rocked his
world.
Don't be shallow. . .you owe it to yourself to not be
shallow.
The only way you couldn't have the pick of the
litter is if you allow yourself to believe you can't.
My
wife of 3 years now, whom I have two beautiful daughters with also
has large labia. . .and she's another one. . .she just exudes
sexiness (and I'm not just saying that -- even other women tell her
that she's sexy, and that she's so confident).
So before you
look at yourself through someone else's eyes, try looking at yourself
through your eyes first, and see how beautiful and deserving you are
of someone who accepts you for who you are, no matter what your
"downstairs" looks like.
It is what it is. . .
Your
Mr. Perfect couldn't have been perfect if he has a girlfriend and kid
-- that just means he belongs to someone else.
As soon as
you stop looking for Mr. Perfect, you're find Mr. Right, and remember
the words I said here to you today..
Take care and please be
proud of yourself, and who you are as a young woman -- you deserve
it. =0) *smile*
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