clits

her

November 25, 2009

is having a big clit normal im young and im scared of rejection

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brer

November 26, 2009

hi her,
clits are great. some men might be intimidated if its larger than they are, but other than that, no problems. more to play is more sensation, any good lover can make great hay with that. If they can't or won't then fergetaboutem. the more time you spend with a guy beforehand getting to know and to find out what kind of person they are and how experienced they are the better. like lots of time, months of time. best of luck with your great clit. blessings, -b

shaver77

November 26, 2009

Her,
Dont worry about the size of your clit. The bigger the better in my man books . As Brer ...much more to play with .
Enjoy

Keith

The Marquis

November 26, 2009

Not to worry.  As the responses here show, your attributes are admired and desired.

Gerry Gillespie

November 26, 2009

Hello Her
Fear not. Clits    ----like labia and penises   ----- come in all shapes and sizes. If the men you meet have the identical mentality as the men who post on this site, then you will NEVER be rejected.
Check out the clit of Nikki Rio   post dated 29 october 09, entitled "Big Clits" (msg2646) ---Isn't it a beautiful work of art? Do you seriously any man in his right mind would reject such a beauty?
Cheers
Gerry

Eric

November 27, 2009

Yes, it is normal.

Don't be afraid of rejection. . .

Most of the boys your age will be blown away at the mere site of your pussy, let alone the mere site of you naked.

Don't sweat it. . .most boys will NOT reject you.

The ones who might, probably represent less than 1% of the boys you will come into contact with, and of that 1%, the entire 100% of them are either misinformed about what labia "should" look like (not that there is any standard to follow), and will likely attribute larger labia to a female being "promiscuous" which is just flat out stupid, and not true; the others will likely try to identify social stigmas which will ultimately make them more acceptable to their peers, and will try to "fit in", which will just cost them more pussy than they can imagine.

In either case, you will be fine. =0)

- Eric

Rod

November 27, 2009

Given that it is damn difficult to find some women's clits and even more problematic trying to nibble on them - the bigger the clit, the easier it is to send a woman into orbit.  

Her, a word of advice, most men find confidence sexy - be proud of your body, if the person you are with is shallow enough to express something negative, you haven't chosen someone who is caring in the first place.

tempest_driver

November 30, 2009

Her,

I really hate using the term Normal in relation to a woman's body. Each of you has a body that is unique and should be celebrated for that.

As far as clitorises go, I personally love a big clit that I can really get my lips around, and I'm secure enough in my manhood to admit that without fear that such a thought will invade my head and turn me gay, or fear that others will call me gay for it. Unfortunately I suspect that I'm less common that I ought to be in this respect, Not here of course, but in general.

Having a large clitoris doesn't have to be a bad thing. as some of the women here will probably tell you, it can bring you immense pleasure if you let it. unfortunately, there are men who will reject you for it, and will probably do so publicly. I'm not trying to turn you off from men, I'm just stating the truth as I see it.

If you fear rejection so much, don't be in a hurry to have sex. If you find someone you're interested in, steer the conversation in that direction, find out what his thoughts about women built like you are. If he doesn't like what you have, you don't have to give it to them, he doesn't even have to ever know why he can't get any from you. When you Find the person who really appreciates a woman's body the way it was meant to be appreciated, and who makes you feel good about being you, dive in completely and enjoy the ride.

Take care. t_d

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