To all concerned

tempest_driver

November 17, 2009

I hope this makes sense, I have a lot on my mind.

Lately a few of us here at Sexylabia have embroiled in a heated debate. toes were stepped on, accusations were tossed about, and a few feelings were hurt. for my part in this I am truly sorry, it all began with the best of intentions, but you know what they say about good intentions.  

In the midst of this was the statement that some of us men were essentially preying upon some of you ladies who have come to this site seeking validation. And it was also stated that photos were emailed at the request of quite a few men, and some ladies too, although there was a bit of shame in doing so, but the photos were sent nonetheless in a desperate act to have someone tell them that they were not freaks, that they were beautiful, just to find some acceptance.

regardless of the opinions I have about much of what was hurled at me, this got to me. It was never my intention to cause any of you any anguish over this, and the idea that I may have has caused me to lose sleep.

Am I a perv? I think that there are only two types of men in this world, men who are pervs, and men who lie about it. We all have some pervish tenancies, so yes I am a little bit perv-ish. I personally love women, I love everything about them, the way they look, taste, feel, smell, everything. If I were to be completely honest with myself, I'd say that I'm also quite a bit jealous too, I mean you ladies get to carry around all of my favorite things with you all the time. I'm serious between your pussies and your boobs, if I had some of your equipment I'd be too busy playing with my toys to ever leave the house. Instead all I have is this dumb old penis. I must say that I completely get lesbians. If I had to make the same choice, I'd at least be bi, I just love women too much to give them up.

Obviously at the heart for my love of women is an absolutely undying devotion for the vagina. I love it so much that I have actually spent some time studying it. you know that little fish symbol you see all over the place? you turn it 90 degrees so that it's standing on its tail and it becomes the Yoni, which is an ancient symbolic representation of the vagina which was worshiped as the source of all life. And the Spartans sacked Troy over 1 woman. nothing in history has had the power to be the source of life, and at the same time end entire civilizations. such a thought is awe inspiring, thought provoking, maybe even terrifying. there are theories that part of the agenda of the Council at Nycea was to remove the idea of power women or their sexuality from the bible so that the men could control them. I know that many here will say that that is ridiculous, but look at the climate wherever women are subjugated, from the genital mutilations, to those cultures that will tell you that women are for children, and men/boys are for pleasure. all the way to the ladies here who have been told by some insecure little man that their succulent labia are ugly or otherwise undesirable.  

Yes you could say I'm a fan. In fact I would never have found this site had I not Googled "big sexy labia". once I got past the visual smörgåsbord of femininity that Labi had set out before us, I found the forum. And there I found a virtual community of men as devoted to the beauty of the vagina as I am. As well as many many women with large sexy labia, some were proud of their attributes, but most were ashamed. This had a profound impact on me, I was previously unaware that there were women who did not know how lovely their pussies were. OK call me stupid, I knew of labiaplasty, obviously there had to be women getting it done, sometimes I miss the big picture. I guess I assumed that everyone felt as I did, and I literally can't remember a time that I didn't think that pussies were beautiful.

As time progressed I began to see a pattern, many of the women were gratified to know that they weren't freaks, and liked knowing that there were men who loved pussies, even the big sexy ones. but most still weren't completely sold. One lady actually said to me, "I know you haven't seen a pussy as big as mine", Obviously my first reaction was, "YUMMMMMMM", but then I realized, it was as if she was saying to me, "I know that you love long luscious labia, but mine are like 'circus huge' and even you wouldn't like them". Well there's obviously only way to prove once and for all that yes I do love them all, even yours. just give me a peek, and I'll tell you what I think, then you'll know once and for all, that your pussy is as beautiful and unique as you are. And I will say that the photos I have received to date go a long way toward proving the existence of God to me, each and every one of them has been a breathtaking work of art, and every time that I opened my Email to find a photo of one of you lovely ladies I was like a kid on Christmas morning. And hopefully, each of you ladies who took us up on our offers to "evaluate your naughty bits" has left the experience Knowing that there are men who think you're sexy.  

If there are ladies who've felt traumatized by some of us "perverted, no class" guys Who've "cheapened this site" by asking to see your pussies. contact me. in public or private, I'll take it either way, and I'll publicly apologize to each of you.

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love~my~pink~bits

November 17, 2009

I dont think you've said anything that needed apologizing! from what I've read from the messages, you have been nothing but up front and honest and dished out alot of good support and advice-no harm in that;)) Just got to accept the fact you cant please everbody;p they'll get over it !!! Cheers;))))))

Eric

November 17, 2009

Tempest. . .

** LOUD CLAPPING **

I could not have annotated what you just said any better than you did!

You are the MAN!

You kick ass. . .and all that good stuff! =0)

- Eric

Amanda

November 20, 2009

Tempest, that was so beautifully written that I just got incredibly turned on!

I don't know why you worry so much about people who could possibly be thinking badly of you. You know who you are and that's enough. You sound absolutely lovely. Nobody needs to justify who they are. Whether they're lovely or not.

tempest_driver

November 21, 2009

I appreciate all of the kind words from everyone who has responded to this thread, both in public, and in private. I guess that the ladies here aren't the only ones who need some encouragement once in a while. all the support means a lot to me.

bluegirl

November 21, 2009

I have no idea what your on about cos I havent been here in ages......but I have to say

I too am a perv

I love womans pussys and lips.....



haha send all pics love looking at them

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