December 9, 2005
I have a big full pussy, and I have had many sexual partners. However I'm still emmbarassed of my large labia. And very intimedated when a man goes down on me for the first time. Its so uncomfortable for me, but seeing all the beautiful women on your site with genitalia similar to mine makes me feel less freakish. I was considering surgery but looking at this site has helped me to accept my lush puss. My ex still wants oral sex with me, now I get the whole sexy turn on part. He won't have intercourse with me but he wants to just go oral. I'm so afraid of letting him go because I might not find another man who will enjoy my pussy like he does. Its so good to know that men find full labia sexy, I need to let go of the ex, and move on. I feel better about moving on just by experiencing your site and hearing from men who love women like me. Thank you
Your ex doesn't want the emotional intimacy of the actual intercourse — the "love" making — yet he still wants the self-gratifying sexual thrill of digging his face into your pouty pussy lips. Who can blame him! But that's obviously not enough for you so it's time to go on and make him officially your "EX".
You say you're usually very embarrassed when a man gives oral sex to you. I wonder, could that have caused some of your previous partners to feel uncomfortable as well while being down there? And as such they could never let themselves go and show you how much they enjoyed your pussy? Men get turned on by the looks of a hot body and luscious pussy... but also by a woman's sexual confidence and sexual response.
I've heard from guys who've shagged extremely hot looking women but were turned off by their continuous worries about their imaginary imperfections. Instead of enjoying the sex they would worry about how ugly their belly must look when it makes a fold while they have their legs up to their ears. "And what must he be thinking when he sees that crease at my hips when my legs are spread... Will he think I'm fat?" Stuff like that. When a woman feels ashamed or embarrassed during sex it is difficult for a man to show his appreciation for what he has in front of him.