Robert
November 24, 2005
Sincere thanks to the creators of this beautiful site. Clearly, this
site shows the difference between erotic and pornographic pictures.
These are beautifully erotic and truly "fantastic" in the real sense
of the word.
I married my ex-wife when we were 20 (in the
'60s) and we knew next to nothing about real sexuality. We had been
married 5 years before I first went down on her. With my lips, I found
hers, the inner ones loose and about an inch long. I could alternately
suck and lightly blow on them, forcing them into and out of my mouth
rapidly, a sensation she loved. I would then intermix this with a few
licks directly on her clit. We even did a 69 once, and I recall the
thrill of feeling her lick me more passionatly each time I found her
most sensitive place. I, in turn, would speed up my licking each time
her toungue found my most sensitive spot. This beautiful exploration
and manifestation of our love came to an abrupt end when our church
declared oral sex forbidden. (Then, we were cowed into obediance;
today I would tell them "none of your 'fucking' business what happens
in our bedroom.")
While my new wife has very small labia, she
has good orgasms almost every time we have sex. What really matters,
more than the size of her labia, is the woman's state of mind and her
opinion of herself as a sexual being. If a woman feels sexy, she will
respond to physical lovemaking, and it is that response, the firm
nipples, the bucking hips, the soft moans, the desire to deep kiss,
the scratching of fingernails on the man's back; these are the things
that make sex so exciting for a man. (In fact, I usually climax only
if my wife does, I find her orgasm that erotic.) If these signs of
arousal are present, then large labia are just more frosting on the
cake.
What this and other similar sites are accomplishing is
to show that human sexuality is a huge (I'll argue the most important)
component of our being. It is nothing to hide and nothing to feel
ashamed about. Equally important is the education about the human body
and the endless variety of ways people express and explore their
sexuality.
Viva le labia!
Dear Robert,
Wow, what a collection of wisdom and truths in your letter! Definitely one to revisit once in a while.
I am against any religion that tries to dictate people's behavior in
the bedroom. If there is a god then he or she is the one who blessed us with
the capacity to experience these fantastic sensations of love and of
sexual ecstasy. They go hand in hand. Trying to outlaw either one is like a slap
in god's face. Just imagine the irony of it, a priest forbidding you to have
oral sex with the woman you love, while an hour earlier he might have
forced his alter boys to give him blowjobs in the church basement!
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