December 3, 2005
Hi! I'm 24 years old and I'm one of the women endowed with bombastic
inner labia and a pretty obvious clit. Like many others, I used to
feel a little uncomfortable about the size and looks of my private
parts, but only until I reached this site. Just when I was in the most
blissful mood, I found another site which almost made me lose my newly
gained self confidence; it talks about how women can improve their
vaginal beauty by reaching a normal standard down there, and it even
dares to call our puffy lips abnormal , ugly , unappealing , not feminine etc. Check it out:
It's no longer frustrating to me, why should it be to them?! OK, if some people find it unappealing, FINE!, but how dare they call it abnormal, when it's about diversity, after all??! Their tone insinuates that all of us who have this shape MUST feel horrible about ourselves and therefore we should all do something to correct our shortcomings . I even read some messages posted (by men - should I add the inverted commas?) on the forum and they were almost totally against large sizes:
I don't buy their stuff about big lips being abnormal/freakish/whatever, but I sure find their comments and suggestions insulting. What's the real percent of men who prefer big lips to small lips? I hear that most men whether like them big, or don't like them; I don't get it! Please clear my mystery!
Lots of love to all the large labia fans out there!
P.S.: Congratulations for your classy and educational site; I was a little dazzled when I saw some of the images here - I thought somebody took pictures of me and posted them on the net. lol ;P
Dear Little Tigress,
Back in April there was another girl who had a similar experience like yours. She was just feeling good about her pussy until she discovered a site called vaginainstitute.com. The site you talk about is run by the same guy who owns "The Vagina Institute". Please read my response to her letter. He is just a dude who wants to make some money on the internet by tapping into women's feelings of insecurity. Ironically he also owns a site that advocates labia stretching. He claims he has secrets to enlarge the labia... only available for a certain price of course!
Btw, I don't think there exist any figures or percentages about men's labia preferences. Its' probably safe to assume that the majority of men doesn't care whether they're small or big—they enjoy them just the same. The rest is divided into two groups, one that has an outspoken preference for large labia, and another one that prefers girls with a child-like pussy. That last group is actually a little scary if you think about it...