Unchanged

Sony,  While reading your note here, it becomes pretty obvious that the real problem is not your labia, nor your ability to understand how valuable your labia is to your future joy and happiness.  You seem to grasp the factual situation, but only for a time, after which you fall back into a false emotional view, rather than a known factual view of your labia.  You have only to read all the letters on this site to understand how sexy your labia are, and how many women have found happiness while getting support on this site.  As long as you remain determined to disparage yourself, to malign your body, you will never be happy.  All the while, your labia are valuable, they are extremely sexy, and are desired by many, probably including your previous boyfriends, who were fine with them, as you say, no doubt enjoyed them, while you "remained uncomfortable".  I assure you that no man is going to turn down any cunt, large or small.  The only thing better than a wet cunt is more wet cunt.  Besides, the size of your labia has nothing to do with the size of your cunt.  Your problem, my dear, is not between your legs.  The problem you face is between your ears.  I do hope this is helpful to you.  Give it some serious consideration.

Id eat that large pussy evey day

What?!?

Stop the damn presses!

At 18 years old (you haven't experienced much yet, trust me), you've come to the conclusion that because your pussy doesn't look like everyone else's (or at least what YOU think everyone else's pussies look like), you believe now the only alternative is surgery?!?

Let me be the first to tell you here. . .I don't WORSHIP large labia, and I don't dislike large labia -- large labia is just that, large labia.

Nothing wrong with it, or right with it.  It is what it is, just like other pussy (and believe me I've been "around the block" before I got married -- even my wife called me a man-whore when she found out how many women I'd been with before her.  Of course she was joking, and didn't really mean it.).

Pussy is just pussy, period.

It doesn't matter what it looks like babe, and eventually (and unfortunately), it's going to take a man to make you believe that for sure, but trust me, you'll find one who will rock your world, and tell you that your pussy is just as sexy as ANY other pussy out there, and not to just because he wants to make you feel good, but because it is a FACT.

I could run down the list of my favorite porn stars who have thick sexy pussy lips, that turn me on just like the chicks with small pussy lips.

Unfortunately, a common misconception among boys your age (REAL men know better) is that big pussy lips means the girl has "been around the block", which is complete bullshit, and has no basis in fact.

Now, when I tell you that certain things are a fact, allow me to elaborate on that. . .

We can agree that the Earth orbits the sun, and that the moon orbits the Earth right??  Good. . .moving on then. .  

There are still people on this planet (believe it or not) who don't believe that the Earth orbits the Sun, and that the moon doesn't exist.

So what's the point you ask?

The point is. . .it doesn't fucking matter what they believe, the truth is the truth no matter what.

Regardless of what they believe, the moon is still in orbit of the Earth, and the Earth still orbits the fucking Sun, and it's been scientifically proven and established, and people who believe otherwise are looked upon as (for lack of a better term) idiots, morons, or complete fucking idiots!

That said. . .there have been studies with REAL men, and with REAL women with thick pussy lips, and thin pussy lips, and GUESS what the common consensus is from those studies?!?

Men do NOT give a SHIT about how a woman's pussy looks (well, aside from hairy/non-hairy, where women with less hairy pussies appeared to be more "attractive" to men in the studies) in terms of the size of the labia.  They found the women in to be just as sexy, or the results were "inconclusive" because the numbers were just about equal.

So there you have it. . .don't worry about what your friends say, and stop being your own worst enemy.  You ARE "normal" (what ever you define that as), regardless of what your pussy looks like, and you always have been.

So do yourself a favor, take care of your pussy.  Pamper it, wax it (just my personal preference, since my wife does it, and hers looks extremely sexy after a wax), and take care of it, because some lucky guy is going to lick your pussy really good one day, and fuck your lucky stars, and when he does, you'll realize what all the other women with big pussy lips have realized -- you are just as sexy as the next woman.

As far as your friends go, some chicks will be bitches about it, others won't -- whip your panties off one day in front of them, and ask them what they think about your pussy.

There are really only 3 outcomes that can go down in that case if you think about it:

1) They'll be bitches about it, in which case you put your panties back on and say (with confidence): "Fuck you.  You broads don't know shit about pussy anyway." and you continue on your merry little way, and then maybe try to fuck one of their boyfriends down the road at some point (and trust me one of their boyfriends will DEFINITELY fuck you, because you ARE sexy, despite what you might believe).  Then you can say: "Who's got the best looking pussy now bitch?  You're boyfriend thinks I do!"

2) They won't be bitches about, and will tell you that you have nothing to worry about it, and you're a sexy ass mama, which you are.  Then you laugh about how much of a fool you were for even thinking they'd "freak out" about your pussy (sometimes other women can be VERY supportive about concerns you might have about your body, and might even tell you concerns they have about their own bodies -- it's really rhetorical since most women are innately sexy, but have a tendency to believe otherwise because of social stigmas our society has created).

3) They'll find your immensely sexy and want to jump your bones on the spot, and you'll end up having a giant "girl orgy"!  That will give you an incredible boost of confidence, and will make you realize your sexy as you are -- just the way you are.

Now, in reality, the outcome being 1 is a possibility, as it the outcome of 2 being a possibility, so it's a 50/50 chance that it could go down either way.  The outcome being 3 is very small possibility (statistically < 1-2% of a possibility), and is more of my mind working its own magic.  Still the possibility exists however, because heterosexual women tend to be more open about finding each other attractive than their male counterparts who are of the same heterosexual orientation (again another social stigma).

So given the odds, I'd take my chances if I were you. . .you'll be fine, especially since statistically (given your age group), women tend to have their own issues about their bodies, and will likely be more supportive.  Women get more supportive of each other as they get older (statistically).  You could be hanging out with a bunch of immature friends, but again, if I were in your shoes (and I've been there, with an "uncut" cock in the locker room in high school, and sexually feeling inadequate with women until I realized women find "uncut" cocks just as sexy as "cut" cocks), I'd give it a try, and see what happens.

There I've said my piece. . .I hope the sun shines in your face, and you frigging realize how sexy you are, and that this post made your day, because I intended it to! =0)

Take care.

Think for a while about these two posts above Sony, especially Eric's line, "Stop being your own worst enemy." Applies to many of the troubled girls here btw. (are you listening, K...?)

Wow... Eric, you intended for that to make my day, and it honestly did. It made me smile, laugh out loud, and consider thinking of myself as fully sexy for once instead of "sexy in certain places". Thank you so much for writing that, I can't imagine how long it took to type all that out! As for the three options my friends have after they see my pussy? I'm pretty sure option 3 has a higher percent then 2! Girls tend to be a bit bi-curious. ;)


(Oh and as for you being "un-cut", I prefer guys not being circumsized(sp?) It makes it way easier to give handjobs cause you don't need lube! ;) Young girls can be just as naive as young boys! )


Labi - I've thought about the line, "Stop being your own worst enemy" many times before, and it definitely applies in this situation. I psych myself out way too much when it comes to something as simple as the look of a pussy. I truly do believe that if you feel sexy, you'll be seen as sexy. My problem is that I get really nervous after hearing crude comments about "gross meaty pussies" and such from teenage boys, even adults sometimes. Then again I've heard nasty comments about a wide range of topics, people can be cruel.  


Anyways, I really do appreciate this site. It helps calm me down and comfort me when I need it most. Hopefully in the future I'll learn to fully accept my body, but right now I'm in the learning stage.

Wow... Eric, you intended for that to make my day, and it honestly did. It made me smile, laugh out loud, and consider thinking of myself as fully sexy for once instead of "sexy in certain places". Thank you so much for writing that, I can't imagine how long it took to type all that out! As for the three options my friends have after they see my pussy? I'm pretty sure option 3 has a higher percent then 2! Girls tend to be a bit bi-curious. ;)  

** Good!  Mission accomplished!  When you laughed out loud, I hope you really did realize it's not that fucking serious!  Your pussy is just as sexy as the next one, trust me.  And yes, thinking of yourself as "sexy" period is more profound way of changing the main issue at hand which is your self-esteem, and how you feel about yourself.  Unfortunately young women have this tendency (shit, I'd be bold enough to say ALL women to some degree) to associate their self-esteem with things on the "outside" and advice from the "outside".  They evaluate themselves by the standards of OTHER people, instead of evaluating themselves by the standards of the ONLY person's opinion that matters anyway -- YOUR OWN!!  I say fuck the world.  Pay them no mind.  Or as T.I. says in "Live Your Life", "Nevermind what haters say, ignore 'em 'till they fade away. . .".  It's so true.  The shit-talkers always disappear.  As do the idiots, morons, and other "waste of space" dwellers of our planet.  You're job isn't to change the fucked up people of the world who believe stupid shit like "gross meaty pussies", your job is to create the world around YOU that YOU see fit for you.  That includes knowing beyond a reasonable doubt that at least 8 out of 10 men in a room will find your pussy just as sexy as any other pussy (me being one of those men -- I'd be the one bold enough to show you just how sexy I find your pussy to be. . .I won't elaborate any further, but your self-esteem issues would go right out the window, and I'm sure I'd fuck you up permanently for other guys by "raising the bar" too high for most of them to reach! *WINK*).  It also includes being a more confident, sexy you.  In this Universe, like attracts like (as if I needed to tell you that).  Keep being who you want to be, and soon you'll attract a man who will accept you just as you are.  My wife has large labia like this page:

www.sexylabia.com/pic40_flappy-cunt-lips.htm

You would think after 9 years it gets boring, but fuck that!  She's 25, and I'm 30 now (just turned 30 a few weeks ago), and I still cherish her pussy as much as I did the first time we had sex!  We still fuck like dogs in heat (she likes it rough), and are looking for new ways to make it even crazier.  The same could happen to you (and it will as long as you keep exuding that sexiness about you. . .).

(Oh and as for you being "un-cut", I prefer guys not being circumsized(sp?) It makes it way easier to give handjobs cause you don't need lube! ;) Young girls can be just as naive as young boys! )

** Ha!  A woman I could enjoy the day with!  Well, done and done.  What you say is true for sure.  I think the biggest concern women have about uncut guys is that they have a tendency to not be as "clean" as a "cut" guy. . .which isn't true at all.  A guy who is cut can be just as "dirty" as a guy who is uncut.  It's all about how you take care of yourself as a man.  Period.  But when I was young, I used to believe what people "thought" and viewed myself through the eyes of the world.  That is until I met a girl named Shayla when I was 16 (she was 18) who fucked me up for the rest of the female population by giving me the best damn BJ's I had ever had in my life up to that point, and showing me that my cock was just as "good" as the next guy's.  She even made it a point to tell me that I was above average size too (which I didn't know up to that point -- I didn't know how big the average size cock was [5 inches]).  She actually measured my cock [8 inches], and told me how it felt inside her. . .shit just thinking back about it now, I'm pitching a bit of a tent.  She also told me it wasn't just about the length, but about the girth too!  Something else I didn't know at the time.  She told me she liked the way I "filled her pussy up".  That pretty much fucked me up for the rest of the female population, because I then compared other women to her, and if they didn't fuck as good as her, or give as good head as she did. . .I would just wash, rinse, and repeat with a different chick -- which is what contributed to me being with so many women when I was younger.  I've been with chicks who lay there, versus chicks who "fuck back", all the way to the chicks who like "to ride".  Asian chicks, spanish chicks (my wife is spanish too), black chicks, white chicks, you name it (redheads still remain my personal favorite).  After all was said and done, I can say now that I've discovered my sexuality as a man, and I appreciate it, accept it, and embrace it.  You as a woman will need to do the same.  If you find a man who doesn't accept you, or your pussy, or anything else about you, just go right back to the pond, throw him back, and yank out a different one.  You may end up getting the same/similar one twice, but you'll have success with most (remember that 8 out of 10 thing??).

Labi - I've thought about the line, "Stop being your own worst enemy" many times before, and it definitely applies in this situation. I psych myself out way too much when it comes to something as simple as the look of a pussy. I truly do believe that if you feel sexy, you'll be seen as sexy. My problem is that I get really nervous after hearing crude comments about "gross meaty pussies" and such from teenage boys, even adults sometimes. Then again I've heard nasty comments about a wide range of topics, people can be cruel.

** Again Sony, fuck them (not literally obviously).  What do they know anyway?!?  Immature boys, turn into immature adults, so you can't expect the apple to fall far from the tree.  And yes, people can be cruel as you know.  Welcome to Planet Earth.  If I was an alien, I would not visit this fucking rock at all!  I would think to myself: "Wow, those fuckers have a LONG way to go!  They still make fun of pussy and kill each other over stupid bullshit, like land (Palestine and Israel are the perfect example).  They can't figure out how to live past 150 years old, but they have over a million fucking ways to end life sooner than necessary!"  I mean wouldn't you feel the same way??  If we're not in the Universe by ourselves, and I tend to think we're not because of the immense number of galaxies that exist besides ours, we're probably like the fucking laughing stock of the galactic community.  But that's another conversation.  Whatever.  Bottom line??  Fuck what people say.  You are you, and that's all that matters.  You're perfect just like every human being is.  And yeah, I know what you thinking, but yeah, even a fuck-knob like Hitler was "perfect" in the most basic sense of being a human being.  It's just that his self-esteem was so fucking low, he decided he had to try and kill the people who made him hate himself in the first place.  They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. . .well apparently that asshole Hitler didn't get that memo.  Instead of imitating the people he most wanted to be like (Jews), he tried killing them instead.  What a dumb ass!  You did get the memo luckily. . .so find the woman who you consider to be the SEXIEST human being on the planet, and then imitate her.  You may even find that you don't have to (which is EXACTLY the case), but it'll help you get to that point in your level of confidence if you're not there already.  You'll eventually start to realize the person you consider to be the most SEXIEST on the planet is YOURSELF!  You'll find a million ways to make yourself even sexier (and no, I'm not talking about bullshit like plastic surgery, where already beautiful women believe they have to "modify" something about themselves to fit into our social system more efficiently or.. ..what's the word. . ."normally").  Breast implants are un-necessary, as are nose jobs, and every other possible plastic surgery option.  I like tiny titties just like I like big titties.  It's all the same to me.  I like big asses, just like I like little asses (well, not really, since I'm an "ass man".  But usually chicks with little asses, have something else that I like instead, like a nice pussy, or sexy legs, or nice eyes.  Just like chicks with tiny titties usually have nice asses, or sexy legs, or both, or many different traits).  What you start to notice about the world is that MOST people are fucking beautiful and attractive (and I say "most" loosely, because generally people's attitudes weight heavily on there appearance to others.  Ever notice the pretty girl with the "shitty" attitude?  Once she opens her mouth, she becomes an ugly bitch doesn't she?  Or how about the "not-so-cute" girl who opens her mouth, and you think wow, she's such a beautiful person. . .).  I think I've made my point.  Just like you can be "your own worst enemy", you can also be "your BIGGEST cheerleader" too. =0)

Anyways, I really do appreciate this site. It helps calm me down and comfort me when I need it most. Hopefully in the future I'll learn to fully accept my body, but right now I'm in the learning stage.

** I think you may have already started doing that. . .just keep doing what you're doing.  Do what feels right to you.  If it don't feel good don't do it.  Your emotions are there to guide you.  To let you know if what you're doing is sending you down the "path" that you want to be on.  Doing what feels good to you, should not feel like a rote routine or anything, it should come naturally.  And when it does, you'll start to notice you get more compliments. . .people tell you how sexy you are. . .they'll compare you to others, and so forth.  If all else fails. . .come knock on my door. LOL! =0)

Eric... you're just too great! Keep writing these letters of yours and I'll be streaking across football fields in no time! I think I really am starting to realize how silly it is for worrying about all this though. If a man finds me sexy with my clothes on, chances are he's not going to run out of the room when I take them off! If there's one thing I've learned from watching  and talking with my guy friends, it's that they really are just horny boys who will do anything for pussy!  


It's great that you and your wife still like to get crazy! I think I'm on the same page as she is when you say she likes it rough. I love a man who isn't afraid to take charge and do things his way, nothing sexier (Well, except for an 8 inch cock, that's always a plus! Your wife is extremely lucky! ;))


"Asian chicks, spanish chicks (my wife is spanish too), black chicks, white chicks, you name it (redheads still remain my personal favorite)."


Hah, I'm a redhead. Confidence booster #2! I've got the whole irish/swedish look going for me. Freckles, light complexion, auburn hair, although I must say I've gotten a little too much sun this summer, I'm much darker then usual...  


I think the problem lots of people have (Mainly women) is that they look at all the flaws in themselves instead of focusing on the hundreds of positives they may have! For example, I think I have an amazing ass, but I wish my boobs were bigger. And I love the color and shape of my pussy, but obviously wish it was smaller, etc. If more people focused on the positives instead of all the negatives, I think many would find themselves feeling better about themselves day by day, and it would definitely help them accept other peoples flaws. I wish I thought like that, but alas it's easier said then done. In fact sometimes I wish I saw a flaw on me that was visible, such as a giant mole on my face, that way people would know what they were getting into beforehand and it wouldn't a be a huge surprise. Oh well, people just have to live with what they've got I suppose.


"What you start to notice about the world is that MOST people are fucking beautiful and attractive (and I say "most" loosely, because generally people's attitudes weight heavily on there appearance to others."


I DEFINITELY agree with you here. I can't even begin to describe how many times I've thought someone was good looking at first, and then discovered that when they opened their mouth I just wanted to wire it shut. Personality is a big part of attraction!


Ahh, my boytoy just called me, I'm going to meet him at the park for a quicky, haha. We've never even hooked up before, but you know what? Oddly enough I don't even care. I'm just gonna walk on over to him like I'm Megan Fox and get what I want!

Just a little update... I met with that boy today and when we eventually ended up having sex I felt sexy as hell. I didn't even worry about it! He didn't seem phased at all when he saw my pussy, and I can tell you that he definitely enjoyed it.

Whoo hoo, I'm finally coming out of my shell!

Im listenin, im listenin...

Eric... you're just too great! Keep writing these letters of yours and I'll be streaking across football fields in no time! I think I really am starting to realize how silly it is for worrying about all this though. If a man finds me sexy with my clothes on, chances are he's not going to run out of the room when I take them off! If there's one thing I've learned from watching  and talking with my guy friends, it's that they really are just horny boys who will do anything for pussy!  

** Well, now you know. . .and I'm glad that you know.  Also, before you run across any football field, do be sure to e-mail me and let me know what day, and what channel so I can tune in! =0)  And yeah, as you can clearly see. . .horny boys, turn into horny men.  'Nuff Said.

It's great that you and your wife still like to get crazy! I think I'm on the same page as she is when you say she likes it rough. I love a man who isn't afraid to take charge and do things his way, nothing sexier (Well, except for an 8 inch cock, that's always a plus! Your wife is extremely lucky! ;))

** You little vixen you. . .yeah, wifey tells me all the time she's lucky to have me, and naturally being the mush monster that I am, I reciprocate and tell her the same.  And yes, I do take control, and roughhouse it up.  She loves it.  She likes her ass smacked, and her hair pulled too.

Hah, I'm a redhead. Confidence booster #2! I've got the whole irish/swedish look going for me. Freckles, light complexion, auburn hair, although I must say I've gotten a little too much sun this summer, I'm much darker then usual...  

** What?!?!  When were you planning on telling me this?!?  I'm such a sucker for redheads, it's unbelievable.  Tell me your eyes are green or light brown, and you'll have me thinking about becoming a polygamist -- I shit you not!  Yeah, the freckles drive me nuts. . .they look like cinnamon sprinkles!  And there ain't no such thing as being "darker than usual". . .as long as you got those tan lines where it counts. . .mmmmmm-hhmmmmmm. . .okay had a little daydream there.  I'm done now.  I've only been with 3 redheads in my lifetime, and they blew my socks off (one of them did it literally too).  The first one was a chick I met in Brooklyn (I'm originally from New York) on the 4 train going up-town (can you tell I remember it like it was yesterday??), and I was on my way to work (I worked at a cell phone store at the time), and wouldn't you know it, she got off at the same stop as me, and asked me about my cell phone (I was one of the first people with the Nokia 8860 back when AT&T had a contract with Nokia to produce the phone solely for AT&T subscribers for like the first 3 years [aka "The Matrix" phone] -- funny how history repeats itself, they did the same shit with the iPhone), and I explained it to her, and we got to talking and such.  I flat out told her I thought she was dime.  Her response??  "Well, you're pretty cute too.  You got a girl?"  I did, at the time (bad, Eric, shame on you), but I lied and said "no" of course (give me a break, I was young and immature).  I asked her if she wanted to give me her phone number so we could get together later after I got off work.  She said yes. . .well later came and went, I called her, and she didn't answer her phone.  Of course I thought to myself: "Shit. . ." -- she was sexy too.  Wearing a little cream trenchcoat, and had her hair in a ponytail, with glasses on.  She resembled like a librarian, or a schoolteacher.  Just when I thought I had been blown off. . .I got a call from her later that night (it was late too -- around 10 or 11 at night.  I had called her at 5 when I had gotten off work).  She asked me what I was doing, and asked me if I wanted to meet her somewhere to hang out for awhile, of course you know I went.  What I didn't know is that where she wanted me to meet her (a subway station stop in Brooklyn -- I lived in Queens at the time) was a block from her place.  When I got there (almost an hour or so later), she was wearing the same trenchcoat and you could see underneath she had pajamas on (the pajama pants where showing from the bottom of the trenchcoat), and slippers.  So seeing her like that, I asked where we were going.  And she said in a real quiet voice, "Back to my place."  I told her she didn't even know me and that I could be a serial killer, and she laughed and said that's a chance she was willing to take.  We went back to her place, sat on her couch, and watched a movie.  Eventually she laid down, and put her legs across my lap.  I started to massage her feet, and work my way up her leg. . .I didn't even need to "coax" my way to her pussy, she grabbed my hand, and put it there herself.  She was SOOOO wet too.  I almost melted like butter when by thumb rubbed against her clit, cause I could FEEL how moist she was.  So I played with her clit a bit, and her pussy kept making "noise" (you know the noise a pussy makes when it's super wet), and it turned me on so badly. . .I lifted her up, pulled her pants off, laid her on the carpet, and proceeded to eat her out like I was a starving kid from another country.  She didn't give me head, which would have been a plus that night, but we did bone like crazy, and like 2-3 times that night.  It was GOOD.  I was just amazed that I had just met this girl that morning, and that a few hours later, here she is riding me like a Harley Davidson in the summertime!  We kept having "booty calls" pretty regularly for the next few months after that.  Eventually we killed everything, because we had an agreement with each other that if either one of us started to have "feelings", that we would kill it altogether.  That started to happen, not just with her, but with me too.  She told me that she would have my children if I asked her to!  So we ended it, on Valentine's Day of all days too!  Probably not such a good idea, thinking back on it now.  But the reason why we had the agreement was because the relationship started out purely sexual.  I think we could have been "together", but like the fool I was back then, I didn't tell her that, because my pride held me back.  But what's done is done.

The next chick was a girl that I sort of "knew" but not really.  She was more of an acquaintance I guess you could say (she was the girlfriend of a guy who's cousin I was friends with).  Well, somehow or another we ended up with each other's AOL screen names (I forget the reason why, but the reason was totally legitimate at the time).  So we start talking online, and what not, and we started talking about chicks online and she asked me what I thought about HER.  Of course I was blatantly honest, and told her I thought she was very pretty, and that Brad (her boyfriend was lucky).  Well, she used me as a sounding board that night to explain all the reasons about why Brad was an "asshole" and what not, and that she wanted to end it with him.  Of course, I couldn't be in the middle of that, and I told her that me, Brad and William were all cool, and that it would be fucked up, if I was in the middle of all that.  So she agreed to not talk to me about it anymore. . .but slowly but surely, I found myself listening to her berate this guy again.  So finally, I just told her, so why don't you break up with him then?!?  She said that she had tried, but he didn't accept it, or some shit like that (I guess it can be hard to break up with somebody).  She said she needed to make him understand by having him catch her with someone else.  Then she got kinda quiet.  Now, of course, I suspected what she was thinking, but I wasn't gonna confirm or not.  She didn't say anything about it while we talked online.  A few days later when we all got together to go ice-skating, she had mentioned to me that she wanted me to show her how to ice-skate, since I was the best out of all us, and had my own skates.  So I asked Brad if he was cool with it, and he said, as long as I didn't let her fall, he was fine with it.  So we started holding hands, and skating around.  Then she tells me she thought of someone she could cheat on him with.  I asked her who, and she just smiled, and gave me this dirty little look, and I told her I didn't want to fuck things up between the 4 of us.  So she said she wouldn't tell him, and that it would just allow her to experience someone else.  So like the horny fuck I was, I agreed, especially since she was VERY sexy.  She was a "shorty".  She was 5'3" or maybe 5'4" and weighed 130 lbs or so.  Now if you know about weight, you know on a girl that short, the extra pounds distribute to her thighs and ass.  The amazing thing was, she wasn't fat at all. . .she was more like a "thick" girl.  She had really sexy thick legs, and a nice ass (small tits, but I was not complaining).  She had green eyes, red hair, and the freckles you spoke about. . .only on like her face and shoulder area though. . .they dispersed further down her back, and she has this cute little mole right in the area between where her pussy and leg met.  So yeah, the next night. . .we fucked. . .in Brad's bed of all places.  That went on for about 2-3 months before Brad started to wonder why she wanted to hang out with me all the time.  That stupid girl eventually told him why she was hanging out with me all the time!  But whatever, it was fun while it lasted.  She let me cum on her face, swallowed, gave amazing head, and LOVED doggy style.  One time she told me to come inside her and I did.  It felt good, but damn was it scary afterwards!  She was on the pill though, and I was SO relieved when I found out she was!  But in between Brad finding out, I just used to think to myself, when I'd watch him kiss her and stuff, like damn, she my cum on her lips just a couple hours ago.  It was the most entertaining fucking thing ever!

The next one I met in Philadelphia.  As it turned out she was just there visiting, and lived in New Jersey.  So we exchanged numbers, and got together eventually.  She became my girlfriend, and was my girlfriend for like 7 months or so, until I fucked up royally and told her that I wanted to be single again.  That left her crying, and me feeling like an asshole for like the next couple months.  That was when I decided that if I found a girl again who I had a good relationship with, I would lock her down, and marry her.  That is how I came to be married to my wife of 9 years.

I think the problem lots of people have (Mainly women) is that they look at all the flaws in themselves instead of focusing on the hundreds of positives they may have! For example, I think I have an amazing ass, but I wish my boobs were bigger.

** Would you send me some pictures dammit?!?!  You can't sit here and tell me that you're my favorite (a redhead), and that "you have an amazing ass", and then NOT send me some pics of you!!

And I love the color and shape of my pussy, but obviously wish it was smaller, etc. If more people focused on the positives instead of all the negatives, I think many would find themselves feeling better about themselves day by day, and it would definitely help them accept other peoples flaws.

** Yeah, I bet I'd love the color and shape of it too!  Have I mentioned you should send me pics (you should send me pics)??  Well, stop wishing it was smaller. . .there's no reason to think that way anymore. . .you opened a can of worms now.  You've started to realize how sexy you are. . .there is no "proverbial" turning back at this point.  You can only go forward babe!  The only reason people focus on negativity in the first place, is because unfortunately, as human beings, we define our lives, and substantiate our presence in the world by how much we've suffered, not by how much we've enjoyed (well some of us do it by how much we've enjoyed).  It's okay to notice the negativity around you, since it shows you contrast to realize how much is out there that you can actually ENJOY!

I wish I thought like that, but alas it's easier said then done. In fact sometimes I wish I saw a flaw on me that was visible, such as a giant mole on my face, that way people would know what they were getting into beforehand and it wouldn't a be a huge surprise. Oh well, people just have to live with what they've got I suppose.

** What?!?  From what I can see, you've ALREADY been thinking like that.  You've made some made strides since this thread started, correct me if I'm wrong.  People don't need to "know what they're getting into with you beforehand".  To say that would be to say that something about you is "different" or that you've maligned the person in someway by not mentioning to them that you have thick pussy lips.  Pussies are as unique as cocks.  Ever notice that some cocks bend a certain way, and other bend another way.  I'm SURE there are men out there that think to themselves: "Well, ho hum, if only my dick was bent this way, I'd feel much better about myself", but the majority of us (and correct me if I'm wrong here fellas), just don't give a fuck.  All we can think of is how much of it we can fit into the nearest pussy.  Women should and could have the same attitude.  Don't think to yourself: "Oh, I need to let this dude know what he's getting into. . .", instead look at him, and say to yourself, "I wonder how long he'll last when I my pussy gets hold of his cock!"  I'd even go as far as saying (if I wore your shoes): "My pussy is gonna milk this fucker's cock like no other pussy he's ever had."  Know why?  Your pussy works exceptionally good on that.  The lips are bigger, and wrap the dick better.  This isn't to say that chicks with smaller pussy lips can do the same job. . .it's just that it would be easier for you since your lips are larger.  It's analogous to a man who's got a long thick cock, compared to a guy who has a long thin one.  Some women would enjoy the long thin one, and the long thick one, but most women (and correct me if I'm wrong ladies) would prefer the long thick one, since it has a higher propensity of hitting certain spots to make them reach orgasm easier.  So if you summed that up with women, it would be similar.  I've had many a thin pussy, and many a thick pussy, and I can see beyond a reasonable doubt that the thick pussy definitely has an advantage in making me come, however, it also is something that the woman that pussy is attached has to know how to use to her advantage.  It's like a guy with a long thick cock, that has no idea how to use it.  Or like having no a cheeseburger with no cheese.  A hot dog with no ketchup.  Peanut butter with no jelly.  You get the point.  It's just not a good thing if you don't know how to use it, regardless of what kind of pussy / dick you have.

I DEFINITELY agree with you here. I can't even begin to describe how many times I've thought someone was good looking at first, and then discovered that when they opened their mouth I just wanted to wire it shut. Personality is a big part of attraction!  

** Yes, big time!  I remember this one girl who was gorgeous.  Christine.  Blonde, big titties (natural D's), nice firm round ass, really tall long legs, and dressed real skanky (just how I like 'em).  She was a total bitch to the people around her though, because she was pretty, and it made me feel strange because the people she would be bitchy towards were people that knew I was a cool guy, and that I wasn't like her.  Of course, I had to stop hanging out with her (after I fucked her of course.  You know I had to hit that!) =0)  So wasn't worth it though.  She was one of those I mentioned above, that had the right "tools" (she didn't have thick pussy lips though. . .she had thin pussy lips) but just laid there and moaned.  I turned her over, because she started to annoy me, hit it doggy style (she couldn't handle it, and got REALLY loud), and came all over her ass (she had a tramp stamp, so it was VERY enjoyable).

Ahh, my boytoy just called me, I'm going to meet him at the park for a quicky, haha. We've never even hooked up before, but you know what? Oddly enough I don't even care. I'm just gonna walk on over to him like I'm Megan Fox and get what I want!

** You kick ass.  I see that one went well.  The first of many to come I'm thinking, now that you know the truth.  As they say, "the truth shall set you free".  And yeah, Megan Fox is hot as shit too.  Totally my type of chick.  I like dark hair, and light eyes too, but not more than I like redheads.  So worse case scenario, you can be my own personal Megan Fox. =0)  Take care, and talk to you soon my little "Chimp"!

Sony, let me just add my to bits. I think Eric has given you the straight goods. I mean I could not add or disagree with anything he has told you. Well expect one. I actually think the big full lips are unbelievably sexy. BUT-that's my opinion. :) Let me put it this way; If this was one of the old Star Trek episodes and you were one of two beautiful android chicks standing before me naked. The two of you were identical in every detail except you had large pouty lips and the other android had a little playboy slit. Hmm, guess what? Hands down I would go for you. And here's a new flash. So would most guys!  

I hope that made you smile. Don't know how to drill that into your head.

Sailor - It definitely made me smile!~ Gosh, I remember watching the old star trek episodes at dinner when I was much younger, I got a good laugh out of that reference. Although I'm not an android, I still feel sexy in my skin thanks to the many men who post on this site (including you!). I'm still not completely sure of the fact that "most men" prefer large labia, although that may become more true as I age. It seems that men in there late 20s early 30s finally begin to realize the beauty of a larger, meaty labia.  



Eric! I'm just going to do it your way, it makes things easier.


*You little vixen you. . .yeah, wifey tells me all the time she's lucky to have me, and naturally being the mush monster that I am, I reciprocate and tell her the same.  And yes, I do take control, and roughhouse it up.  She loves it.  She likes her ass smacked, and her hair pulled too. *

Uhg, I wish there were more men like you. To me there's nothing sexier then doggy style with a man that isn't afraid to grab my hair with one hand, hold onto my hip with the other and give the occasional slap on the ass. Mm, definitely one of my favorite things, especially if it hurts a bit because the man is packing a bit too many inches, hehe.


*What?!?!  When were you planning on telling me this?!?  I'm such a sucker for redheads, it's unbelievable.  Tell me your eyes are green or light brown, and you'll have me thinking about becoming a polygamist -- I shit you not!  Yeah, the freckles drive me nuts. . .they look like cinnamon sprinkles!  And there ain't no such thing as being "darker than usual". . .as long as you got those tan lines where it counts. . .mmmmmm-hhmmmmmm. . .okay had a little daydream there.  I'm done now.  I've only been with 3 redheads in my lifetime, and they blew my socks off (one of them did it literally too).*


Hehe, I'm glad you like redheads, I enjoy being one for sure, I think we're sexy as hell. My eyes are actually kind of an auburn color, they match my hair. You could call them light brown, although they tend to have a tint of redish gold. I only have freckles on my shoulders and face, not all over my body like some gingers. And yes, it looks like I'm wearing a pale bikini because I always tan in one, hah. You've been with three redheads? Jesus, I don't even think I know three redheads! You must be pretty experienced ;). From personal experience, as far as what I like and what I've heard, redheads tend to be pretty freaky. Is that why you like them?



*Would you send me some pictures dammit?!?!  You can't sit here and tell me that you're my favorite (a redhead), and that "you have an amazing ass", and then NOT send me some pics of you!!*


Hahah, I may one of these days. I've been pretty busy lately though, I just got back from a cabin with 11 of my friends up on a mountain which is why it took me awhile to respond. And yes, I LOVE my ass. It's definitely a male handful. ;)



*Yeah, I bet I'd love the color and shape of it too!  Have I mentioned you should send me pics (you should send me pics)??  Well, stop wishing it was smaller. . .there's no reason to think that way anymore. . .you opened a can of worms now.  You've started to realize how sexy you are. . .there is no "proverbial" turning back at this point.  You can only go forward babe!  The only reason people focus on negativity in the first place, is because unfortunately, as human beings, we define our lives, and substantiate our presence in the world by how much we've suffered, not by how much we've enjoyed (well some of us do it by how much we've enjoyed).  It's okay to notice the negativity around you, since it shows you contrast to realize how much is out there that you can actually ENJOY! *


Exactly, gosh you have a great way of wording my thoughts haha. I've started looking at life in a new way as of late. It's so much easier to focus on the negatives in life, but a bit of effort and you could have a positive outlook on life in no time. The same goes for my self confidence. I just have to realize everything I like about the way I look, and if i can just do that then a guy isn't going to notice the few insecurities I have unless I point them out.



*What?!?  From what I can see, you've ALREADY been thinking like that.  You've made some made strides since this thread started, correct me if I'm wrong.  People don't need to "know what they're getting into with you beforehand".  To say that would be to say that something about you is "different" or that you've maligned the person in someway by not mentioning to them that you have thick pussy lips.  Pussies are as unique as cocks.  Ever notice that some cocks bend a certain way, and other bend another way.  I'm SURE there are men out there that think to themselves: "Well, ho hum, if only my dick was bent this way, I'd feel much better about myself", but the majority of us (and correct me if I'm wrong here fellas), just don't give a fuck.  All we can think of is how much of it we can fit into the nearest pussy.  Women should and could have the same attitude.  Don't think to yourself: "Oh, I need to let this dude know what he's getting into. . .", instead look at him, and say to yourself, "I wonder how long he'll last when I my pussy gets hold of his cock!"  I'd even go as far as saying (if I wore your shoes): "My pussy is gonna milk this fucker's cock like no other pussy he's ever had."  Know why?  Your pussy works exceptionally good on that.  The lips are bigger, and wrap the dick better.  This isn't to say that chicks with smaller pussy lips can do the same job. . .it's just that it would be easier for you since your lips are larger.  It's analogous to a man who's got a long thick cock, compared to a guy who has a long thin one.  Some women would enjoy the long thin one, and the long thick one, but most women (and correct me if I'm wrong ladies) would prefer the long thick one, since it has a higher propensity of hitting certain spots to make them reach orgasm easier.  So if you summed that up with women, it would be similar.  I've had many a thin pussy, and many a thick pussy, and I can see beyond a reasonable doubt that the thick pussy definitely has an advantage in making me come, however, it also is something that the woman that pussy is attached has to know how to use to her advantage.  It's like a guy with a long thick cock, that has no idea how to use it.  Or like having no a cheeseburger with no cheese.  A hot dog with no ketchup.  Peanut butter with no jelly.  You get the point.  It's just not a good thing if you don't know how to use it, regardless of what kind of pussy / dick you have. *



Right again. I shouldn't need to "warn" someone, because obviously that would mean it's a problem and not something that they'll eventually worship. And yes, I prefer a long thick cock because I love the feeling of being completely filled up, not just "good enough". I've heard that bigger pussy lips feel better for the guy, although obviously I can't say for sure because I don't have  a dick! All I can say for sure is that it feels damn good to be eaten out, and I love being fingered. I'm not sure if I would enjoy it more then a girl with a smaller pussy, but I can definitely assume. Some of my girl friends were telling me the other day that they don't like to be eaten out. My jaw almost hit the floor. I couldn't understand how they didn't enjoy it, unless the guy didn't know what the fuck he was doing, because for me it was heaven.


*You kick ass.  I see that one went well.  The first of many to come I'm thinking, now that you know the truth.  As they say, "the truth shall set you free".  And yeah, Megan Fox is hot as shit too.  Totally my type of chick.  I like dark hair, and light eyes too, but not more than I like redheads.  So worse case scenario, you can be my own personal Megan Fox. =0)  Take care, and talk to you soon my little "Chimp"! *


Oh yes, it went very well. We fucked in a school field that was surrounding by trees and a canopy of branches. It was hilarious because it was about 10 meters away from a main rode, so we heard people going by. One lady was even out for a jog and ran right by us. I had to bite my tongue, I tend to be rather loud when I have sex. Hehe. Oh, Megan Fox is by far the sexiest woman alive. If I was a man (or a lesbian) I would hit that fer sure, haha.


Good to hear from you Eric, keep it coming.

Sony, you are so lucky to be blessed with big lips.   There is nothing better than the feel of a woman's lips in my fingers or in my mouth, I dream about it all the time.   A woman with a slit and no meat is so boring,  who would just want a hole with no character and no extra meat?  only a child molester would prefer such a thing.  To help boost your confidence  check out this awesome website dedicated to big lips.   I would die to suck on any of the woman featured here.   http://pussyxxl.com/

Sony,

Sorry for the late reply. . .went away for the weekend!

Anyway. . .

Hehe, I'm glad you like redheads, I enjoy being one for sure, I think we're sexy as hell. My eyes are actually kind of an auburn color, they match my hair. You could call them light brown, although they tend to have a tint of redish gold. I only have freckles on my shoulders and face, not all over my body like some gingers. And yes, it looks like I'm wearing a pale bikini because I always tan in one, hah. You've been with three redheads? Jesus, I don't even think I know three redheads! You must be pretty experienced ;). From personal experience, as far as what I like and what I've heard, redheads tend to be pretty freaky. Is that why you like them?

** Yeah, I like it when redheads have freckles on their faces, I think that's really cute.  I'm also glad that you wear a pale bikini, because NOTHING, and I do mean NOTHING, looks better than a woman in her "birthday" suit, especially when she looks like she wears a "pale bikini".  My wife wears a pale bikini too, and I really enjoy it when she asks me to "shave" her pussy for her, because I get to enjoy it in more ways than one (and like a kid in a candy store, I can't keep my hands off the goods for too long -- I got a mouth full of shaving cream once for being a bonehead!).

Hahah, I may one of these days. I've been pretty busy lately though, I just got back from a cabin with 11 of my friends up on a mountain which is why it took me awhile to respond. And yes, I LOVE my ass. It's definitely a male handful. ;)

** Well, you continue to turn me on, because I'm sure you're UBER-HOT, and I'd love to see a nice pic of your face (your eyes especially!), your ass, and that cute little pussy you got.  But I guess I have no choice but to wait and be patient (I'll try not to drool).  Shit. . .maybe you could even take some posing shots for me! (am I reaching too far here??)

Exactly, gosh you have a great way of wording my thoughts haha. I've started looking at life in a new way as of late. It's so much easier to focus on the negatives in life, but a bit of effort and you could have a positive outlook on life in no time. The same goes for my self confidence. I just have to realize everything I like about the way I look, and if i can just do that then a guy isn't going to notice the few insecurities I have unless I point them out.  

** Well. . .have you seen the movie "The Secret" (no, it's not some porn cult film)??  If not, go get yourself a copy of it.  There is also a book if you like to read.  It was on Oprah, and a few other talk shows, and it will TOTALLY change your perspective on life -- it definitely changed mine.  You can see what it's about it at thesecret.tv/movie/trail r.html

Right again. I shouldn't need to "warn" someone, because obviously that would mean it's a problem and not something that they'll eventually worship. And yes, I prefer a long thick cock because I love the feeling of being completely filled up, not just "good enough". I've heard that bigger pussy lips feel better for the guy, although obviously I can't say for sure because I don't have  a dick! All I can say for sure is that it feels damn good to be eaten out, and I love being fingered. I'm not sure if I would enjoy it more then a girl with a smaller pussy, but I can definitely assume. Some of my girl friends were telling me the other day that they don't like to be eaten out. My jaw almost hit the floor. I couldn't understand how they didn't enjoy it, unless the guy didn't know what the fuck he was doing, because for me it was heaven.  

** They DEFINITELY feel better.  I speak from experience.  And if you like some long, thick cock, you should definitely look up my wife and I one day.  We'd rock your world.  I'd fill ya up like you've never been filled up before, and I'd eat your pussy good too.  You wouldn't want to leave when I was done! =0)  You like being fingered too?  Well, let me ask you another question. . .(if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to answer). . .can you squirt??  My wife does after I finger her for awhile, or when we do doggy style.  I agree too, if a woman says she doesn't like to be eaten out, it's almost ALWAYS because the man didn't know what he was doing.

Oh yes, it went very well. We fucked in a school field that was surrounding by trees and a canopy of branches. It was hilarious because it was about 10 meters away from a main rode, so we heard people going by. One lady was even out for a jog and ran right by us. I had to bite my tongue, I tend to be rather loud when I have sex. Hehe. Oh, Megan Fox is by far the sexiest woman alive. If I was a man (or a lesbian) I would hit that fer sure, haha.  

** Well, I'm glad it went well. . .I have to admit, picturing this scenario in my head gave me an INSTANT BONER.  Judging by your measurements. . .(meters as opposed to feet) I'm guessing you don't live in the United States.  Now please don't tell me you're a "BRIT" too.  That would TOTALLY kill me, since I think British accents (and Italian accents [on women only]) are ridiculously sexy.  I'd swim "across the pond" if you tell me you British!  Anyway, holler back when you can.  You know how to find me babe!

Much Love,
- Eric

Hehe, sorry for the late response as well, I've been pretty busy myself.


Sorry to disappoint but I was born and raised in Cali, and I live in Oregon now, but I agree with the whole accent thing. Accents just give-in to my whole sexy, mysterious and untamed craving. Italian and Swedish accents are by far my favorite, although just about any of them will send shivers down my spine.


I really need to get some pictures for you... I swear I've been thinking about it,  but like I said I've been busy and just got my monthly reminder that I'm NOT pregnant, which is good and annoying at the same time. I'll wait for that to pass before I take some sexy shots for you. ;)

Bah, I just got a text from a friend telling me to meet at her house in 30, so I gotta go get ready (It's my birthday today). I'll e-mail you soon I promise. :) *Smooch*

-Sony

Hey Sony,

Good to hear back from you babe! =0)

Hehe, sorry for the late response as well, I've been pretty busy myself.

** No sweat. . .things happen.  As humans we're all pre-occupied.  It's what we do best!  Evolution is something that USED to happen to us.  Now we've grown so used to "doing things" (spinning our wheels) and "doing them quickly", we've completely lost track of the fact that we're supposed be evolving into higher consciousness.  But oh well. . .don't want to go off the deep-end here. =0)

Sorry to disappoint but I was born and raised in Cali, and I live in Oregon now, but I agree with the whole accent thing. Accents just give-in to my whole sexy, mysterious and untamed craving. Italian and Swedish accents are by far my favorite, although just about any of them will send shivers down my spine.

** I'm not the least bit disappointed.  You're a Cali girl, and there's nothing wrong with that -- it wouldn't make you any LESS sexier in my opinion.  I like British accents.  Italian accents, and Greek accents are really sexy too on women I think.  I actually used to have a client who was rather good looking, and she was a Brit.  She used to yell at me a lot and complain about little bullshit and was a royal pain in the ass most times when she was the cause of most of her problems, but BOY did her accent drive me up the walls!

I really need to get some pictures for you... I swear I've been thinking about it,  but like I said I've been busy and just got my monthly reminder that I'm NOT pregnant, which is good and annoying at the same time. I'll wait for that to pass before I take some sexy shots for you. ;)

** Cool. . .listen at the end of the day, I'm a total stranger, and if it makes you even SLIGHTLY uncomfortable to send me some cute little shots of your sexy self, just let me know.  I want to make sure I come across very straight-forward, because it's the way I am.  Like I said, you don't know me from a can of paint, so I can (and will) understand if it "weirds you out" at all, and you change your mind or anything.  But I have a fascination with redheads, and latin women, and would love to see how you look (especially your eyes, ass, and pussy lips!).  I'll even send you some pics of me if you prefer (even though, if you're creative enough, you'll know how to get pics of me without me sending them to you *wink*), just let me know babe.  But yeah, if you're cool with it, I'd absolutely LOVE to see some sexy shots of you soon! =0)

Bah, I just got a text from a friend telling me to meet at her house in 30, so I gotta go get ready (It's my birthday today). I'll e-mail you soon I promise. :) *Smooch*

** Happy Birthday babe!  It might sound kinda crazy, but our birthdays are EXACTLY 30 days apart. =0)  Mine was today last month!  I turned 30.  Ha, that's kinda funny. . .you gotta meet your friend in 30, our birthdays are 30 days apart, and I turned 30, just 30 days ago!  That's a whole lot of 30! =0)  Talk to you soon babe!

Hey Sony.  Remember me and our very long talks about our labia on the luscious labia site?  I have come to truly love my large lips and am very thankful for them.  I know that when I meet the right man, he will love them too...mainly because if he is the "right" man...he will love them because he loves who they are attached to.  I would LOVE to meet a man who already appreciates a well-endowed woman.  Anyway Sony, my point is this, I agree that YOU have to love yourself first.  If YOU love how you were created, then you will project that.  Email me if you ever want to chat.  I look back and wonder what I was thinking when I thought about getting labia reduction surgery.  There is NO way I would ever do it now.  No way.

Deb