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First off, how did that conversation manage to come up? Did he just randomly say one day, "Hey you know what? I think larger labia are disgusting"?  
And if you have this 'most amazing, incredibly intense connection' with him then he's not going to care if you have larger labia or not. If you actually go back through the site and read some more stories you'll see that some of these men who LOVE larger labia are with women who don't possess this curse/gift whatever anyone wants to call it, the important part of all that is that they don't care! Yes they'd love it if their ladies had larger labia- but they love their lady more than their ladies' "lady" got it?
Pussy is pussy, it's like their cardinal rule after bro's before hoes. :)

K, Little Miss understands us perfectly.  As someone on here commented some time ago now, men love pussy.  The only thing better than pussy is more pussy.  Forget the remarks, which may have been made as a bad joke, and get with this guy if you think so much of him.  My bet is that he'd instantly change his viewpoint.

Well, you know my opinion right??

Honesty is still the best policy.

You should come right out and tell him. . .

"Listen, I have thick pussy lips, and the comment you made the other day offended me.  Up until this point, I felt like our chemistry has been amazing, and I've even considered having sex with you, but you're making me feel uncomfortable with your comments."

Then whatever his reply, say the following:

"Do you want to see my pussy??"

If he doesn't instantly sprout a boner, then he's probably a transvestite or a girl dressed as a man.

That one statement is usually enough to send ANY man reeling of the edge. . .

And no. . .I'm not being sarcastic either.  Do it.

Tell me what happens.

I expect you to say you had the best sex ever that night you took my advice and followed it.

And I of course agree with LittleMiss.

The list is something like this:

1) Bros Before Hoes. . .
2) Pussy is pussy. . .
3) Rule #2 outranks Rule #1 since you can hang out with your lady AND fuck her too.  Can't do that with your bros. . . =0)

I dunno... I'm not really sure how to handle the situation. Ive already told him that i dont want to have sex for like 6 months and hes agreed to that. What we have is so awesome that i dont want sex to ruin it or be the focus of it. So i dont reallly see the need to tell him right now, but at the same time its non stop in the back of my mind and im tired of thinking about it and what hes going to think. But, i know if i tell him, and hes okay with it, im gonna end up having sex with him. And i really dont want to do that at this point....

Well you seem like you've already made a mistake to me. You don't want sex to ruin it or be the focus but all you're focusing on is your body and his opinion of it. You're kind of letting your self-consciousness in regards to your hooha control you.  
And are you planning on doing anything sexual with him? He might think so. That could actually be the solution to your problem. You don't need to say "Yeah so remember that roast beef convo we had? Surprise!" or anything, you just let the moment come as it does.  
And girl... will power. You don't want to have sex with him yet, so don't. :)
It's going to be fine, you'll see.

K,

I have to say. . .I think you're reading WAY too deep into this.

Sex with this guy is only going to do one of two things:

1) Prove that he's not ready to experience what you have, in which case you'll save yourself the long arduous process of falling in love with him only to find out that he's too immature to handle your sexy pussy.

OR. . .

2) He'll be so blown away by the way you rock his world, that it'll solidify things more between the two of you, and you'll keep having amazing sex, and get closer and more intimate with each other.

What I can tell you is that having this sit in the back of your mind constantly is no way to experience this new relationship.

And again. . .as I said the first time, I don't think this is something you should "tell" him about verbally.

You should whip it out, and SHOW him, and then gauge his reaction, and see how he responds to it.  Telling him about it verbally (at least to me) makes it seem like something is "wrong" with you, or like you're "hiding" something from him.

"Showing" him on the other hand how sexy your pussy is, and then gauging his reaction (which should be an instant boner, and loss of all voluntary motor functionality in ever part of his body except his cock) will be a better way to go, I think.

I do not know how many men would be able to resist a woman who literally whips her pussy out, and says: "Do you think my pussy is sexy?" -- I personally would melt like butter.

Remember what I said before. . .honesty is the best policy.  Right now, all you're doing is causing yourself undue frustration over nothing.

"And I really don't want to do that at this point. . . ."

Why the hell not??  Social stigma??  Did someone plant into your head that you're supposed to "wait" a pre-defined period before having sex with someone where the "chemistry between you is off-the-charts" with (in your own words)??  Or is it because you're ashamed somehow??

K, you need to go with the flow, and stop resisting your urges, and what you know deep-down is natural.  I don't know why you'd come out and tell this guy you don't want to have sex for 6 months.  That is just going to change his (and your) expectations about the relationship you share right now because you defined a time-period.

So in essence, you've told him that no matter HOW good you feel about him, and how he feels about you, sex can't happen until that pre-defined time period has expired.

What you should say to him is the following: "I want to have sex with you when I feel the timing is right."

That doesn't establish ANY time period on it, and instead leaves it up to him and you to let the relationship "flow" on its own.

You said yourself: "I know if I tell him, and he's okay with it, I'm gonna end up having sex with him." -- yet you resist your own urges, and intentionally block the natural "flow" of the relationship.  I've never understood how or why people sabotage their relationships in that way.

I get the feeling that if you continue to be dishonest with him (and yourself), you're gonna ruin this relationship before you even get the chance to experience how joyous and spontaneous it can really be for you.

If you insist on "telling" him verbally, then fine. . .but I still think you owe him (and yourself) the experience of seeing your sexy pussy for himself, and allowing him to make the decision about what he think about your pussy on his own.

If you do it EXACTLY the way I'm telling you, there are only 2 possible outcomes and either one is favorable for you:

1) He'll be shocked to see a pussy like yours that he's never seen before (or maybe he has given his earlier comments), but will be impressed by your level of confidence and the sexiness you exude in just literally whipping your pussy out for him to see/feel/experience.  You'll end up having sex, and then you may not hear from him again, if it was his sole intention to have sex with you, and then not follow-through on the remainder of the relationship.  It'll hurt like hell if this is the case, but you'll be better for it, since you won't have wasted 6 months to find this out later.

2) He'll think your pussy is sexy as hell, and your level of confidence in showing your pussy to him is amazing, and you'll end up having sex.  You'll continue to have sex, and the relationship will get deeper and more intimate, and you'll wonder why you took so long to get to this point when you knew deep down how you felt about him, and how he felt about you.

OR. . .there is a 3rd outcome. . .you can do it your way, and just "tell him" verbally with no demonstration of your pussy at all, leaving him thinking your "deformed" or something is "wrong" with you, when in fact nothing could be further from the truth.  It'll also build up dramatic (and unnecessary) expectations for the first time you actually do have sex with him.  And if the sex turns out to be any different than what you (or he) imagined, it'll make things that much harder to figure out going forward.

Either way, the ball is in your court.  He's the man in the relationship, but the ball is still in your court.  You're holding all the cards at this point, and you need to either play your those "pocket aces" you're holding (your intuition, and your pussy), or fold. =0)

I think you should reply to his comment with: "you know, your a pretty good lover for a man with a small dick and an even smaller brain."

K, why do you even care so much?
some women have hanging tits.
of course men like round ones better.
BUT they do not freaking care.
have you ever heard a man complaining about hanging tits?
well i haven't.
so why would they complain about hanging labia?
and IF he would complain about ANY part of your body.
he isnt fucking worth youre body.
if hes like that, he wont get a better body anyways.

men do not think that much.
they do not care.

if they see tits in any shape, they find them hot.
if they see vaginas in any shape, they find em hot.

of course there are some exeptions
but these exeptions are superficial idiots.

I guess it's a good thing that you found out that he's an ignorant asshole before you gave him the key to your treasure. I know that what he said hurt you, but that will pass. you sound like you have a fairly decent relationship with your pussy, and that your lips have enabled you to have some good sex, so continue to love yourself like we do, dump him and find a better man. And if he asks why, just tell him that he and your big fleshy labia are incompatible. His loss, not yours.