UglyDuckling
July 20, 2009
I can not believe how much of a relief it is to find this site. I
have not only felt personally ashamed of my own body, but I have
prevented myself from experiencing full sexual pleasure from the guy
I love because I've always been so afraid to see what he'd think- he
always thought of me as beautiful, what if that changed? I couldn't
bear it. I now know that I'm not alone and that there are men out
there who find the way my body looks, attractive.
So thank
you.
The Marquis
July 21, 2009
Your shame at the appearance of your body had kept you from all of the great joys and satisfaction of good sex, plus what pleasure it has cost your boyfriend because you have been shamed and reluctant, trying to hide yourself, etc. Congratulations on your discovery that you are, in fact, quite beautiful and desirable. Celebrate that! Relax, secure in your beauty, and feel the joy!!
Sam
July 24, 2009
Maybe you should change your alias because you are not the ugly
duck....all the contrary.
We have to be happy with what we
have....mother nature gave us a body and we have to make the most out
of it. It is your partner's task to make you feel beautiful and
secure.....Confront him with your body own beauty and see what
happens.
Good luck,
Sam
UglyDuckling
July 25, 2009
Thank-you both for your kind replies :)
Sam, I must tell you
though that you have quite mistaken my alias as something unpleasant.
Really I guess if I were trying to convey how I feel now I would have
put "Swan" as my alias. I was just trying to be clever, guess it
didn't work out how I intended haha.
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