Tina, I, like Labi Amore, think that you have gone a bit over the top here. Perhaps out of frustration withy your boyfriend. I can't say that I would blame you if that were the case. After all, if doesn't love you, love all of you, then what is he doing with you? To most men, an asymetrical labia is simply a non issue. One commentor on here once said that men simply love pussy, and the only thing that is better than pussy is more pussy. That commentor was quite correct. As you yourself state, there are many, many women who are asymetrical. It is quite a normal thing. So, you are normal, and most men would love to get your lips into their mouth. If your b/f is unsuitable, then get rid of him. Don't blame the website. Your b/f is the problem here. Beyond that, labia are quite maleable, and can be easily stretched. Several methods of doing just that are listed elsewhere in this website. Should you choose to do that, you could fix what you seem to feel is a problem, without surgery or any other extreme measure. Should you choose to keep your body just as it is, as God created it, more power to you. Enjoy it. Love it. You simply have to find the right person to enjoy it with you.