Asymmetrical labia majora

Tina, I, like Labi Amore, think that you have gone a bit over the top here.  Perhaps out of frustration withy your boyfriend.  I can't say that I would blame you if that were the case.  After all, if doesn't love you, love all of you, then what is he doing with you?  To most men, an asymetrical labia is simply a non issue.  One commentor on here once said that men simply love pussy, and the only thing that is better than pussy is more pussy.  That commentor was quite correct.  As you yourself state, there are many, many women who are asymetrical.  It is quite a normal thing.  So, you are normal, and most men would love to get your lips into their mouth.  If your b/f is unsuitable, then get rid of him.  Don't blame the website.  Your b/f is the problem here.  Beyond that, labia are quite maleable, and can be easily stretched.  Several methods of doing just that are listed elsewhere in this website.  Should you choose to do that, you could fix what you seem to feel is a problem, without surgery or any other extreme measure.  Should you choose to keep your body just as it is, as God created it, more power to you.  Enjoy it.  Love it.  You simply have to find the right person to enjoy it with you.

Hello Tina
I can do no better than endorse Labi's response IN ITS ENTIRETY. While you are certainly entitled to your point of view, I am really not comfortable with your attack on this website which, for the most part has done, and continues to do, a tremendously commendable job of empowering women with large labia, to free themselves of the shackles of shame, inferiority and abnormaility.
Of course, some letters on this site have causesd me to question the level of intelligence of its writers, but we will never agree with everybody's point of view anyway.
Further, if you were to subject most of the letters on this site to more intense scrutiny, you will realise that MANY men, myself included, are not only orally and sexually, but also VISUALLY attracted to pussy in ALL its manifestations, including asymmetry.
Many women have one breast which hangs slightly lower than the other, and this in no way detracts from their beauty. Yours truly has one testicle which hangs lower than the other  --- and this is also not rare. Beauty, my dear, is in the eye of the beholder.
With respect to your boyfriend, you should heed the advice of Labi and kick him out. If he does not enjoy eating you, then you DON'T have a problem. There are MANY men on this site, including yours truly, who will go down on you faster than the speed of light.
Wanna bet? All you, and others in your situation have to do, is to reach out to us. You have my e-mail address.
Cheers
Gerry

Ok now I feel bad.  My intent was not to attack the website at all.  I apologize for coming off that way.  You are right I'm extremely frustrated with my boyfriend.  After re-reading my own letter I can see that I was a little vicious and I apologize.  I also apologize for the incorrect title. I did mean labia minora, thank you.  
Also, thank you for your feedback! That was my intent was to get an outside opinion on this matter.  Friends  opinions are great but that aren't always the most insightful.  I agree that beauty is in the eye in the beholder!  This website definitely helped me open my eyes.    Although, I'm not sure that humans prefer symmetrical things.  Some of the greatest things in life are asymmetric.  Your heart is an asymmetric organ and a pretty important one.  Would it work if it was symmetrical? And you only have one heart which is not even in the center of your body. So all human bodies are asymmetrical!  
Just to clarify, I really do love your website!  I'm a straight, traditional girl and even I can't take my eyes away from these beautiful women!  Plus the cute articles on tanning or trimming your parts are very informing and eye-catching.  So I apologize if I have offended you. That's not what I wanted to do.  Please keep up the good work; I look forward to reading more articles and looking at more gorgeous pictures!
Thank you!

Hey Tina, don't worry about it. I'm glad you aren't as angry as it appeared. And I'm sure also that you didn't mean it when you called yourself the ugliest vagina. Probably just letting some steam off!

Nice comment about the heart BTW.

Tina,  Beauty is beauty, whether it is symetrical or not.  That is part of what I was trying to convey to you in my remarks above.  The key thing is that your labia are you, are important parts of your body, just as they are.  If your boyfriend doesn't appreciate your pussy, you simply have the wrong boyfriend.  Naturally, the commentors on here each have their own opinions on various matters and express those opinions freely.  That's the point isn't it?  I'm very glad that you got over your pique and are feeling better about things.

Hello Tina
Was really classy of you to apologise and to clarify your position. My humble advice to you would be to try and adopt the right mental attitude which entails, among other things, being positive, up-beat, optimistic. There's no room for self-pity. When you view yourself in the mirror, be comfortable with what you see.
Hopefully by now you would have taken our advice and dumped your "boy" friend. There's no room for boys in your life. You need a man, with a mature outlook, one who will accept you and care for you AS YOU ARE, and who will consider it an honour and pleasure to bury his face between your legs, and lick and suck your beautiful labia and clit.  
Cheers
Gerry

I want to come to the defense of the website AND Tina.  This is my first time here and I have been really refreshed by what I found.  It is wonderful to see so much open discussion and imagery.  I consider myself a confident and liberated person in general but I have fought, and continue to fight, an ongoing battle with my vaginal self image.  I have never had a boyfriend who was bothered by mine or disinclined to give oral.  It has only been my self-perception and my perception of society's perception.  Years ago, one of my boyfriends gave me a copy of "Femalia" and that was a big help but I still haven't really slain the dragon of doubt!  I recently became single and, facing the daunting idea of heading out into the dating scene, I found myself considering that ridiculous surgery.  This is laughable because I don't have that kind of money or health insurance and I really don't believe in it.  But I still found that thought running in my head from time to time.  So I began a quest to remind myself about what is 'normal' and I googled "labia" and went exploring.  This lead me to this fantastic site.  I really think i could feel my blood pressure going down just looking at the images and reading the posts. Because part of my image issue is to do with asymmetry, I was aware, as I was looking around, that I had found very little mention or appreciation of it and that some of the commentary on the photos extolled the virtue of their symmetry.  This is not as a complaint against people finding that beautiful.  It is indeed beautiful.  It is more as a partial explanation of how those of us who are fighting that demon may read things, see things differently.  I kept hoping someone could throw us vaginally akimbo chicks a bone and swoon about an uneven one!  I was delighted to find this post because I had finally found someone who I really related to.  It is crazy how much pain/image/self/energy can be caught up in all this.   This site has helped remind me of the beauty of the flesh - in all it's crinkly, small, puffy,
short, long, dangling, open, closed, un-airbrushed variations!  I am going to continue on my quest to love myself in every way and for every part.  Thank you all so much!!
Tina:  I thank you so much for sharing your pain and reaching out.  Tell that unenlightened boyfriend of yours that oral sex is an honor and privilege and that if he can't see it that way, you will find someone who will!  If you haven't worked up to actually ending it, definitely make sure you aren't giving him what he's not giving you!!  Good luck!!

Hi Tina,

Oh my god, do NOT worry about your labia being asymmetrical! I know that's easier said than done sometimes, but trust me. Any guy worth his salt LOVES pussy and is not going to care whether your lips are symmetrical, asymmetrical, pink, purple, brown or plaid! In fact, he might especially love asymmetrical ones because they're interesting and unique (not that it's uncommon - most of us are asymmetrical in some ways. For example, most people have one slightly larger foot or one slightly larger breast.)

Anyway, I love this site, but I agree - why not try to find some pictures of beautiful asymmetrical labia and add them to the gallery? There are plenty out there, and they will help boost the self-image of women like Tina.  

And by the way, Tina - LOSE the boyfriend! He sounds like a real jerk! You can do better.
 
PS That comment about "well, of course symmetrical is better" was way off. I know lots of people who prefer their partners to be a little left-of-center, just a little different-looking. Remember that Marilyn Monroe and Cindy Crawford were known for their beauty marks -- moles that only appear on one side of the face.