Well,
I chime in every so often, when something catches my
interest on this site. . .
This is one of those things. . .
I am a "normal" guy by all accounts (as most of the men on
here are I'm sure).
I love ALL pussy, not just pussies with
big lips. . .
While for some of the men here, it may be a
fetish for me its not. . .I just like pussy period.
I find a
certain uniqueness and attractiveness in pussies with big lips, but
for me, it's more than just the pussy -- it's the woman.
Her
confidence in herself, sexuality, and "swagger" (if women have a
"swagger", as I know it's a term generally associated with men.).
The more confidence a woman is in herself, the more of a
turn-on it is for me -- no matter what her pussy looks like.
I remember one time going to a strip club down in Miami with a
buddy of mine who lives down there (about 2 years ago).
Most
of the strippers were really slow dancing, just doing the usual pole
dance kinda deal, and then there was this one chick who came out, and
she was about "average" in the looks department. While some of
the other strippers there were easily 9's or 10's, this girl was
probably a 6 or a 7 -- just your average looking blond -- nothing
really "stood out" about her, until she took off her panties.
Immediately, I noticed she had a hanging gash, where her inner
lips protruded outside of her outer lips (which I happen to
think is really, really sexy).
Well, needless to say, this
chick must of known what I was thinking because she came over to
right where I was sitting with my buddy, bent down in front of me,
spread her legs and used her finger to spread her lips.
Immediately I was turned on (and I think she knew).. ..I think I
emptied my pocket, which is funny because I had just gotten $100 in
$1 bills so I could tip the ladies and stuff, and I think I spent
about half of it just on her. I even had a private dance with
her later, because I was so blown away.
Ironically, after we
talked for a bit, she ended up spending majority of the night with
me, my buddy, and a few of the other guys that were with us, and she
told me in her own words: "There is always at least 1 guy who reacts
the way you did when they see my pussy."
So I guess the long
and short of it is, I think it's safe to say that men being attracted
to women with large pussy lips, is the same as men being attracted to
women with small pussy lips, in that most men are like me, and just
don't give a shit about what your pussy looks like, as long as it
smells good, you smell good, have a little sexual confidence about
yourself, and just overall be just like any other woman who is the
same.
Dicks are just as unique. . .I thought I was strange
in high school since my cock is bent on an angle.. ..but after I saw
a few of my buddies in the shower, I knew I wasn't unique.
The woman who is now my wife loves the fact my cock is bent a
bit, since it hits her "spot" when we have sex doggystyle, or her on
top.
So the moral of the story I guess is that pussy is
pussy is pussy.
Yes, your lips are unique to a degree, but
so what?!?
I can think of lots of men (including me, and all
the ones on this site) that would love it!
But do we
represent the minority??
I don't think so. Take your
own survey and find out!
I'm sure you'll be surprised by the
number of men who tell you that they'd lick, suck, and fuck your
pussy without prejudice.
I'm one of those. . .I like
confident women, but not overly confident. . .I'm not into masochism
with being a slave and stuff, I just am super-attracted to women who
can say: I want you to fuck me like this, or I want you to eat my
pussy like this, and lick my lips.
Otherwise to me, by
default, all pussy looks good. I don't think I've come across
one in my 29 years, that I've disliked or thought was ugly -- and
I've been around the block (been with about 18-20 women before my
wife).
Do pornstars have nicer pussies? I don't think
they do.
I just think that they are performers, and
therefore they will make their pussies look as attractive as
possible, by shaving them properly, and such.
I've seen
pornstars with big pussies, and little pussies.
What's
attractive to me is the fact that they take care of their pussies,
and shave them, and keep them really nicely groomed, not the size of
the pussy in my opinion.
Big pussy or little pussy -- just
take care of your pussy, and make sure it always is neat and nicely
groomed.
I think that will do two things. . .one it will
show your potential sex partner that you give a shit about the way
your pussy looks (big or small is irrelevant), and two it'll probably
give you a MAJOR confidence boost knowing that your pussy looks good
whether your lips are small or large! =0)
Just my 3 cents
for all you ladies with sexy pussies who don't yet realize that your
pussy is sexy no matter what it looks like! =0)
- Eric