Are These Guys Normal?

Hey Girl,
 Actually, and I am speaking for myself, I would say from a man's point of view, ladies with large labia, are more of a preference than ladies with small labia.  I personally love to play with, look at, feel, suck, pull on them, and everything you can imagine, I really really really love to do to them.  Nothing like a plump set of nice juicy lips!!  Mmmmmmmmmmm... mmmmmmmmm.....

Hi Girl,

I think you'll probably find that people's tastes and fetishes change over time. Everyone has a fetish even if they say they don't.

Men loving big labia is just the same as loving bondage or a nice pair breasts.

My girlfriend love the fact that I love playing with her lips and really enjoys it.

At the end of the day we're all fetishists.

Noodles

Hello girl,  The simple answer is that men and women who are attracted to women love pussies, period.  Beyond that, any exageration in size of that most important body part is a sign of sexual arousal, which is even more attractive.  After all, are you more attracted by a larger, harder penis?  Or will a small one, a soft one be just as appealing?  When a pussy is excited it swells, just like a penis does.  The lips become engorged and the pussy opens like a flower, and the juices start to flow.  If your lips are already larger, your pussy appears excited even if it isn't really worked up just yet.  That sign of sexual arousal is arousing to your partner.  There simply is no aphrodesiac as potent as an excited woman.  Therefore, a pussy with extended lips, thicker lips, is seriously attractive to most men, and to most women who are attracted to women.  I hope you will find this helpful.  I also think that you'll find that the answer you will receive most often is "amazing!!!"

I just love your answers Mr Marquis:-) You explain it all so well, so I hope "Girl"  gets the answers she needs. And by the way "Girl" Most of us girls with large lips have gone through some rough paths before we started to enjoy what we now see as a blessing:-)
Guys are rarely giving bad remarks about your pussy, I've never experienced it! Only cruel girls do that;-)  
Good luck & from my point of view there are a WHOLE lot of large pussylips lovers out there.
Have fun, relax & enjoy it!!!!

Happy, You certainly seem to be coming to the right conclusions for your present and future happiness.  As you say, there are lots of people, most in fact, that love larger pussy lips.  If you are putting your pussy lips to good use, and gaining lots of pleasure from them for yourself and for your lovers, who cares what a few jealous, frustrated women might have to say?  You are the one receiving attention and love and pleasure.

I've kind of struggled with that same question... I hate to think that guys might just be attracted to large labia bc of a fetish. Because most fetishes are odd. I agree that people need to be more educated and more aware of the fact that there are all different sizes and shapes of vulvas out there. I mean really.. the only thing that causes us girls so much worry and depression over this is ignorance on behalf of others......

Hey there K!

I totally agree with you that the thing that causes us so much depression is ignorance. People does not know enough about this yet. It's not mentioned in school, books or anything YET. And I think that is CRAZY! It's 2009 and look at us, we are still worried if we are normal, if guys thinks it's disgusting and speaking for myself; What my girlfriends would be thinking when they see me naked. We've been taught to accept everybody for who they are, but when it comes to this we have trouble accepting how we look & what people think of us. I get so frustrated over this. When I was young and super frustrated over this, I had no internet to look this up, so I thought that I was the only freak in the world. I remeber looking up a vagina in a book my mum had about the human body... Oh yeah, you can imagine how I felt after I saw that drawing. it was nothing like my pussy... It was just a slit, and it said in clear words that the "labia minora is hidden behind the labia majora" Well, after years worrying, I saw papers writing of girls taking labia surgery... So I wasn't the only one with large lips then I thought:-) And I'm glad I never took surgery even though it did cross my mind. And I have to say; If a guy does'nt like you because of your pussylips.... Well, then he's probably not that into you anyway, and certainly does NOT deserve you! And remember; Guys like pussy and more pussy is EVEN better;-) My ex boyfriend(7 years since we broke up) I still dreaming about my pussylips:-)

Good luck girls!

Happy,  You have it right here.  Guys, along with girls who like girls, like pussy, and more pussy is even better!  Well said.  After all, if after seven years your ex boyfriend is still dreaming about your pussy, he absolutely proves my point regarding how desirable larger pussy lips are, how many men desire them, how much more sexy they are.  I congratulate all of you who figure that out.

Well,

I chime in every so often, when something catches my interest on this site. . .

This is one of those things. . .

I am a "normal" guy by all accounts (as most of the men on here are I'm sure).

I love ALL pussy, not just pussies with big lips. . .

While for some of the men here, it may be a fetish for me its not. . .I just like pussy period.

I find a certain uniqueness and attractiveness in pussies with big lips, but for me, it's more than just the pussy -- it's the woman.

Her confidence in herself, sexuality, and "swagger" (if women have a "swagger", as I know it's a term generally associated with men.).

The more confidence a woman is in herself, the more of a turn-on it is for me -- no matter what her pussy looks like.

I remember one time going to a strip club down in Miami with a buddy of mine who lives down there (about 2 years ago).

Most of the strippers were really slow dancing, just doing the usual pole dance kinda deal, and then there was this one chick who came out, and she was about "average" in the looks department.  While some of the other strippers there were easily 9's or 10's, this girl was probably a 6 or a 7 -- just your average looking blond -- nothing really "stood out" about her, until she took off her panties.

Immediately, I noticed she had a hanging gash, where her inner lips protruded outside of her outer lips  (which I happen to think is really, really sexy).

Well, needless to say, this chick must of known what I was thinking because she came over to right where I was sitting with my buddy, bent down in front of me, spread her legs and used her finger to spread her lips.

Immediately I was turned on (and I think she knew).. ..I think I emptied my pocket, which is funny because I had just gotten $100 in $1 bills so I could tip the ladies and stuff, and I think I spent about half of it just on her.  I even had a private dance with her later, because I was so blown away.

Ironically, after we talked for a bit, she ended up spending majority of the night with me, my buddy, and a few of the other guys that were with us, and she told me in her own words: "There is always at least 1 guy who reacts the way you did when they see my pussy."

So I guess the long and short of it is, I think it's safe to say that men being attracted to women with large pussy lips, is the same as men being attracted to women with small pussy lips, in that most men are like me, and just don't give a shit about what your pussy looks like, as long as it smells good, you smell good, have a little sexual confidence about yourself, and just overall be just like any other woman who is the same.

Dicks are just as unique. . .I thought I was strange in high school since my cock is bent on an angle.. ..but after I saw a few of my buddies in the shower, I knew I wasn't unique.

The woman who is now my wife loves the fact my cock is bent a bit, since it hits her "spot" when we have sex doggystyle, or her on top.

So the moral of the story I guess is that pussy is pussy is pussy.

Yes, your lips are unique to a degree, but so what?!?

I can think of lots of men (including me, and all the ones on this site) that would love it!

But do we represent the minority??

I don't think so.  Take your own survey and find out!

I'm sure you'll be surprised by the number of men who tell you that they'd lick, suck, and fuck your pussy without prejudice.

I'm one of those. . .I like confident women, but not overly confident. . .I'm not into masochism with being a slave and stuff, I just am super-attracted to women who can say: I want you to fuck me like this, or I want you to eat my pussy like this, and lick my lips.

Otherwise to me, by default, all pussy looks good.  I don't think I've come across one in my 29 years, that I've disliked or thought was ugly -- and I've been around the block (been with about 18-20 women before my wife).

Do pornstars have nicer pussies?  I don't think they do.

I just think that they are performers, and therefore they will make their pussies look as attractive as possible, by shaving them properly, and such.

I've seen pornstars with big pussies, and little pussies.

What's attractive to me is the fact that they take care of their pussies, and shave them, and keep them really nicely groomed, not the size of the pussy in my opinion.

Big pussy or little pussy -- just take care of your pussy, and make sure it always is neat and nicely groomed.

I think that will do two things. . .one it will show your potential sex partner that you give a shit about the way your pussy looks (big or small is irrelevant), and two it'll probably give you a MAJOR confidence boost knowing that your pussy looks good whether your lips are small or large! =0)

Just my 3 cents for all you ladies with sexy pussies who don't yet realize that your pussy is sexy no matter what it looks like! =0)

- Eric

Yea, I have had the exact same experience. Thought i was the only one like this and hated my body. Saw the anatomy books and felt like a freak. Looked it up online and only found surgeries for it, even had a phone consult and everything with a plastic surgeon. I started saving up money when i was like 14 so i could eventually have the surgery. Until luckily, i came across this website. It helps  my self esteem alot, but it can only go so far. Like you, and someone else recently said on here, its still my natural reaction to get insecure and want to hide it as soon as someone comes around while im naked. Having to worry about it in almost everything I wear, particularly now that its bathing suit season. I dont know how we're supposed to get the word out there that it is normal.. I even wrote an email to Oprah hoping that she would have Dr. Berman, the sex doctor talk openly about it, for more than 5 seconds like she did before.Other than that... how do we get the word out?

K:

So you have written Oprah? And did you get a response? If I try to write her as well, and gives her the link to this site she might bother to read some of the letters written by frustrated girls around the world with large lips. i think it wolud be awesome to actually get it out through Oprah cause she is such a respected person and with her doctor talking about it too that would've been a great way to get more focus on it... People need to know more about this for sure!!!
I've been thinking about writing to some magazines about it too. But I feel that if they Do make a article about it, it has to be really good. Not just the normal "bla bla bla...we are all the same but some might have fuller inner lips than others" stuff. But I would give it a try with Oprah too.

I think you told it very good Eric. And I agree with you cause I have the same experience; men/boys don't care how a pussy looks... But for some men it's an extra plus with larger lips:-) The guys I've had sex with has either not cared much about my lips being large, but some go all crazy about them... None of them has ever said a bad word about them. And most of the guys I've had sex with several times, which means that they come back for more... So they like it:-)

Don't be afraid to show your pussylips off to the guys... They either like it or LOVE it :-)

And K: We'll try to get this out... Let m know if you hear anything from the Oprah show, or if you come to think of some other way to get it out. I actually think they should use it at school when they teach the pupils about bodies & sexuality.
How old are you K?

Talk to you guys soon:-)

Ladies, you are absolutely normal.  There is a whole range of sizes of labia, length, thickness, puffiness, and every other attribute.  Pussy's are wonderful things to behold.  The more of them that is there, the better it is.  You have all been blessed.  Your longer, thicker labia exude sexuality.  I'm sure that you check out the crotch of men that you meet, to see if his cock appears to be larger in his pants than normal.  Men are the same, while looking at women.  If any of you are concerned about the appearance of your pussy, you are welcome to send photos.  I promise a truthful response.  The simple fact is that the more confident you become about your sexuality, the more sexy you become.  Once you become confident of yourself, and get beyond worrying about what others might think, you will immediately become more attractive to others.

Hi there Girl,
Interesting letter to say the least,havn't read the replies as yet,but i can assure you,we large labia lovers are not a minority.A fettish yes but that doesn't translate into a minority.There are all types of fettishes,we all fall into one or many of these,sexual or whatever.
I am a lover of the female form and all of it's variations,but happen to really like large labia.As you can  see from this site there are many followers ,if they didn't like it or them it would have not got past first base (sexy labia).
All those ladies who have large labia,be proud of what you have been blessed,you have many many admirers.
Take care
Torsguy

Do I like large lips/clits?  Yep!  My first two girlfriends were generously endowed, the next woman I went out with had a pussy like a prepubescent - I thought she was weird!

That said ladies I married a girl with a perfectly average pussy because I loved the woman, not just her genitals - it would have been a bonus if she were generously endowed, but I'm perfectly happy with my lady.  You are so much more than your genitals, be confidant, be proud and be happy.

Happy,  

I have not heard back from the Oprah show. and that was probably  2 months ago or so that i wrote that. Although i did regret afterwards that i kind of wrote the email fast and didnt put as much effort and thought into as i should have. I did mention the website in the email as well. Hopefully i will hear back but i think if i havent yet, then i probably wont. Maybe if i wrote a letter, it would have a more personal effect.. Maybe i should do that? I was just so worried about putting too much personal information like my name and what not on there bc i didnt want them to ask me to come on the show.. I would be mortified to show my face on international television discussing that topic.. i also didnt want them posting my letter on television with my name on it..  BTW, im 22.

Nope. No one has ever accused me of being normal.

Ron

Dear K and all other interested ones
Thanks god you did not do a unnecessary and expensive operation. I get so upsat that when a medical doctor, try to convince a beautiful woman to make an operation of her genitals. He, usually it is a he, if narciccistik, only cares about himself, to make money, not about you. Yes, of course there are some wonderful genuine medical doctors, but these would tell you that it is completely normal to have medium, small or large size labias. All is fine and you should be proud of it, enjoy it. If, I say very IF, a man would have the slightest negative comment about you, your breast, cute face, labia or anything else, He IS NOT THE RIGHT MAN to spend any time with.
People should only interact with those who really appreciate them for who they are, how they are, no matter of details.

When I was 12/14 or so, having a rather large detail, I used to push in inbetween my legs and sit on it, so no one would see if it became erected. It made it become bent like a banana. Later I understood that this was the reason and for a coupld of years I had it go straight up instead, in the beginning pushing my pants way way out and I needed to wear a big sweater at all times, in case I would be aroused.
Anyway now it is strainght, slightly bent down. But the change is also from beeing aroused it was at first beding down, now standing straight out or a little upwards. Who cares, but when I was 14 I cared. So booth men and women of course think about such things. Most women I met only commented that I was unusually well develeoped and they became extra aroused even just seeing me, and wanting to touch me immediately and wanting me deep very quickly.
But I love touching, kissing a womans entire body, making her completely ild before I even touch more sensitive regions.
One time I was in Germany and met some girsl at a restaurant. We had great fun all evening. It ended with that we went home to one of them, here parents beeing out, we continued in the garden and this one girl who was crazy about me just seeing my face, finally went inside with me.
I touched her body and kissed her, she spread wode open for me and came just as I began to touch her... gee. She told me no man had ever made her come without penetration.
She just got so extremely excited by my touching and seeing me, well she was looking and touching my details , but in fact most of the time we looked in each others eyes.
Her lips were well developed and I did become very very excited just seeing how excited she was. She was completely surprised and out of energy so we went out to sit in the garden again with the others. I saw her tell two friends hos incredible it had been. Then a year later I saw her in her home city which was 4 hours drive away. I was with a girl I had just met but meeting her walking down the street made me so hot and I could see her the same.
I really wanted to see her so badly, but I just could not leave this girl having met her just an hour ago and she was so interestde in me. I realized that I was not so much interestd in this new acquaintance as I started to get excited about the one I re met. Perhaps one day I will again meet her (I do not know her family name and the city is BIG). Hope it is not too long.
Thank you for reading my thoughts. I appreciated very much finding many interesting notes here, my first day on this site!
Thank you! And please, do WRITE LETTERS TO OPRAH!!!
It is needed to support all women and men who think they are different because of size, shape or whatever.

K:
How long are your lips?
mine are about an inch and when i wear a bathing suit one can just see a tiny little bulb.
thats it, so it doesnt really  bother me.
noone looks at my pussy when its hidden,
everyone would check out thebody in the bikini, right?