I really love my pussy! But still....

either those ladies are jeaaaaaaallllooooous. or they dont know how much some men love your labia.
either way, you know they are loved by those who matter.
:-D

Hi Happy27,

I love the fact that you embrace big lips. Personally, if I ever see big or even slightly pertruding lips in a pic or through a bikini I go weak at the knees.

A pussy with a simple slit would make me frown and simply think "not fun...I want big lips to chew on" hehe

Would love to see some pics.

Me and my girlfriend are tringing her lips to hang lower - soooooo much fun - love it...so does she!!!

Email me :)

Regards,

Noodles

Happy, you have come a long way from being embarrassed about your pussy lips, to finding out how much you can enjoy them with your male lovers.  Congratulations to you.  Obviously, the men around you love your luscious lips.  I take it that you have come to love them too, and love the reaction that you get from the men who love you.  As you say, your only continuing problem with them is being too concerned about what your girlfriends might have to say.  You state that you get angry at yourself for tucking them in when in the presence of other women.  That means to me, that you have come to appreciate your pussy and it's beautiful lips, and that you are just continuing your previous reaction of acting as though your lips embarrass you, out of habit, when in fact you are now proud of them.  Stop tucking them in.  After all, who cares what the other women may say behind your back.  Women will always say something, as they are often very critical of other women.  Just show off your beautiful lips and be proud of them.  After all, you are the one who is getting the attention of your lovers, those who love to play with your wonderful hanging lips.  Isn't that what's important?

Hey there!

That was just spot on;-) That's exactly how I feel about it. it's like it's hard for me to stop doing what I've always done in front og other woman. When I was younger I was afraid what a man would say when I revealed my pussylips, but now I've had quite some sexual partners through the years, and I've realized that they really enjoy my lips & has never made any bad remark. Either they tell me that they love them or they just go down on my time after time... Which also means that they love them;-)

Now I can look at them and actually see the beauty in them, something I couldn't do before - So that's a relief! I just wish I could stop tucking them in and be proud of them all the time & not afraid of what people think or say... I've seen all of my friends pussies, and there is "nothing" there. And they always say"I'm not afraid of showing off my whole body" OF-COURSE not, cause it's really nothing special to see other than a "slit". I remember the last time I showered without tucking them in, I was about 9 years(So to all you out there thinking large labias comes from sex - NO! That is just not it) there was a girl in the shower pointing at me, and saying "Why do you look like that?" I just pulled up my schoulders and said "I don't know" and never ever showered there again!  
I have one wish for the previous generations: I hope there will be more education about this. We've been taught that people look different by skin colour - Treat them the same, and we come in all different sizes and look different in many ways, we know that but when it comes to a womans vagina the only one we see and hear about is the one with small/no labia minora.
By the way; I've seen alot of porn with my friends, both guys & girls, and if there is a girl with large lips there the guys never make any remark, but the girls do... So everytime that happens I think to mysel "That's the reason I'm not showing you all of me"

The day I will reveal my pussy in front of my girls will be such a BIG DAY for me! Untill then, I think the most important part is that I enjoy my large lips & that I totally relax in front of guys:-) my sexlife really got better after I started loving my lips!!!!!!

Thanks for the great messages from Brer, Noodles & The Marquis. You are all amazing!
Take care:-)

Happy, you definitely are getting the right idea.  You have discovered how wonderful you labia are.  You, and your lovers make great use of them, and obviously enjoy them tremendously.  Now, all you need to do is to stop worrying about what your girlfriends might think.  Show yourself off proudly, and if any comments are made, simply inform the women how much you love your pussy lips,  how much your men friends love them, and how much deep, thrilling, ecstatic pleasure you receive from them.  They will then be jealous, rather than critical.

 girls are more bitchy and usually have only seen their own so wouldnt be used to anything different.
i bet one or two of your friends are the same, thats probly why they make a point of telling you they are 'soooo glad they dont have them'
i always think the slits remind me of when i was a 5 year old!

kells,  Well said.  I assure you, that most men are far more attracted to women who look like adults, who look as though they are already excited and ready for sex.  After all, do any of us want to be a 5 year old again?

Happy. . .

Just wanted to let you know, I finally got a chance to check out the pics you sent me!

If anyone gives you shit, send 'em my way.

You have a NICE pussy if I've ever seen one.  And that's the truth.

And I've seen my fair share of pussy, so I know. . .

Definitely lickable, and one of the pics looked like you were wet too (something definitely rose up in my pants when I came across that wet one, I have to admit).

Let me just say this. . .if I wasn't a married man. . .I'd definitely be looking you up, and we'd be creating stories about the multiple things you can do with big pussy lips to put up on this site. *wink* =0)

I sincerely hope that now you feel better about yourself, and really truly deeply know that your pussy is no different from anyone else's -- it's just as sexy, and just as attractive (and wet) as any other woman's pussy.

Hi Happy,  

I was curious.. I've never asked another female on this website this before.. but... would you feel comfortable sending me pics?? Im just really curious as to how mine looks in comparison to others on this website...

hey there happy,
thanks for the thanks.
i am so happy to see you sharing here.
would also be happy to admire your pix if you like.
blessings, -b

Hey K :)
I'm up for that... Maybe we could exchange some if you want to?  
Great idea, and a step in the right direction for us:-)

You can send me an e-mail, and I'll get back to you:-)

totally went thru some of the same issues , all of my girlfriends had normal pussies . when we'd go to the beach - i'd wear shorts , because yea , i have the pussy bulge . but recently after exploring & researching , i realize this is common in most women . we are lucky . my boyfriend grabbed my lips last week , knowin that i'm wicked self-concious about it & told me "dont think that i dont like this , cause i do " . . . feelin great . glad yu are too girl .

Hi dear

I just wanted to thank you for your note.
You know it is only jealeous people who would speak about others.

I understand that you do not want your girl friends to see your beautiful labias if they have spoken in such tune and words, as if they do not appreciate larger inner labias.
I can assure you that this is only of jealousy.  
To a real man, he will always appreciate a woman no matter of size of libias and I am sure most of us appreciate well developed ones.  
And it should be clear that a man prefer beautiful lips which are visible, rather than none existing.
Only today for the first time I saw this website and I was surprised to see so many comments from women who thought it sensitive.

On this website there were many very sensual and beautiful images.
A couple of years ago I saw a US tv program, showing women in their late 20s and mid 30s, who had plastic surgey to reduce their inner labias.

So stupid! They wanted to look like small girls. But what man wants that, only a slightly pervert one.

I like to see a woman, not a small girl. I felt really sad hearing these woman discussing how they wanted to look like virgins.

That was sick, sorry to say. Who wants a 35 year old woman to look like a virgin? Who are they kidding? Themselves!

Thank you again so much for your honest and important comment. I really appreciated!

Hey Happy27,

I am an 18 year old girl and am somewhat in the same situation. I have only been with two guys, both who love me "down there", and I think I am pretty much comfortable with guys seeing me naked. I haven't been put in a lot of situations with guys because the two I have been with I have dated for over a year each. I have only showed a couple of my girlfriends my large lips who were both very supportive a few years ago, but I have never brought it up with any of my current friends :/ I want to show them but I feel scared that they will make fun of me. I am off to college next year and want to have fun with guys and be able to change around girls and not feel insecure. I don't know if I should just do what I want and not care what they say, but I think I will always have that nagging feeling in the back of my head. I think all of us girls with big lips need to just put ourselves out there so the girls with small lips will know it's normal and okay to have different looking pussies. It would be a comfort to me if when you showed your friends you let us know how it goes!

i am a well endowed male and my wife of ten years has a very long set of love lips which feel so soft and juicy all along my shaft while we make love several times a week .cant imagine pushing into a girly gash without that warm wet feel all along my shaft . lovin it always