Confused with myself, Feelin kinda shallow about men, and myself. HELP

Shawna, that's the point.  Most men prefer larger, thicker, longer pussy lips.  Everyone is an individual, of course, and you may find someone who prefers the "Playboy" image, a false image, I might add.  You are perfectly entitled to prefer a cut dick.  But far more men prefer pussies with larger, more obvious lips, preferably dripping with juices and excitement.  Trust me.  There is nothing subtle about the thinking or the interests of an excited man.  An excited woman is the best aphrodesiac in existence.  I urge you to rethink getting your lovely lips cut.  You are obviously able to attract the type of men you prefer.  If this one guy you mention isn't available, there are certainly a lot more where he came from.  You can find them anyplace.  The key is to be excited yourself, to be open about your feelings.  After all, you yourself state that you got this guy so excited he blew his load in mere moments.  Perfect.  The benefit of his being so young is that constant repeat performances are easily accomplished at that age.  Have fun.  Just keep looking for others who attract you.  Don't forget to check out women, if you are at all attracted to them.

thanks for sharing your feelings.
i am sad you  like cut.  
i would not wish to shame you and being cut  is a sign of trauma having been inflicted.
i am curious if you could share more about that preference?
have you experienced lovers who did not wash?

in my experience there is a connection between feelings about labia and foreskin.

there are many posts here from many able men who swear that they and many more out here are a vast number of labia lovers out here in the world.
all with nice big hard cocks available for you.  
cant speak for the  length or hardness of non labia loving cock.

hope that helps. blessings, brer

GROW UP


Mr "s"

Welcome to the world of frustration well-endowed pussy-lovers face each and everyday.  It is so sad, I have dated many really wonderful women ( I don't deserve to be so lucky, I'm not that cute ).  And everything is going great and there is chemistry galore and sooner or later we get to the fun and I see the most beautiful little pussies with tiny little everything and I go limp.  And the girl is wondering what the fuck just (didn't) happen.  Fortunately I can kind of make up for it by giving great oral - which I love doing.  But things kind of "peter out after that .

So you see the suffering is not just yours.

It is sites like this ( there  aren't many ) that are on the Vanguard of change.


Ron

Mr Salesmanship its not about growing up, its a preference, which is why i dont really get that offended when guys dont like what i have down there. Its personal choice and I cant be a hypocrit because I UNDERSTAND.  

Uncut is gross to me (im really sorry uncut boys!!), I dont like the way they look only because i LOVE to see the veins pop out of a nice cut dick, and the tip is so nice and smooth. You can feel a cut dick inside you more, feeling the curves and the tip inside you is so much more enjoyable.

Ive had sex with, and given a handjob to an uncut guy once. And while doing so i just couldnt get turned on. Not even the slightest bit. i barely felt him inside me because of his foreskin. and when i was giving the handjob it was the same, I found that if gave off a fowl odor. And got alot more sweaty than when i would give my cut ex boyfriend a handjob. I just cant bear it. Even the feel of it.  

Im really sorry uncut men, I dont want to seem shallow or anything and i know most girls really dont mind. And i know that if i meet someone i like enough it really wouldnt be a big deal to me (i hope). But as it stands right now, I just cant seem to get over it. Maybe it will change in time, but right now i just cant stop it from getting to me.

Shawna,

You, just like all the rest of us, are perfectly entitled to your opinions and to your feelings, as well as to whatever it is that does or does not attract you.  If you don't like an uncut dick, you don't like it.  Pretty simple.  Anyone who fails to accept that will have a hard time getting through life.

Do we have acrossed line her dear...I thought this was,
                           SexyLabia.com

not knobs and pricks anoimouse, of coures you have the right to preferences, just don't put your self down for having them, and if at all possible find a web site deadicated to pricks to do you  
complaining to.


Mr "S"

Message for Shawna. . . see letter number 2345

Mr Salesmanship you didnt have to read this, i wrote it so someone might see it and HELP. Get out of here, this is a problem i have that im trying to ditch out the window. And the only reason i think your even saying anything is because your one of those uncut guys and prolly had a bad experience with a girl like me. Little did you know, that like the inexperienced guys who the girls write about on this site, I too am confused! Im 18, obviously dont really know what i want, i can admit that. Now you need to go screw yourself because obviously this messaged wasnt meant for you to read. It was meant for ppl like Eric here who know where im coming from and can help. thanks for nothing jerk.  


And Eric thank you for the insite. :)

Hey Shawna, for what it's worth I'm with Eric on this topic, but I want to chime in before this becomes a flame war. Your response gets a little hot-headed; understandable because I believe you are genuinely looking for help. Trust me though that your point would have more intensity if it was made without abusive language.

To Mr "S", I think Shawna's earlier comments are not so out of place, although I wouldn't want to see every second letter here being about dicks and foreskins. She mentions it to show how she can relate to those men who feel similarly about large labia, which she has herself. I don't believe she is here to put anyone down and she even wonders if all this makes her a shallow person. It would sound silly perhaps if such pondering came from an older person, but 18 is an age of confusion for many. Growing up is what she is doing.

Well said Labi.

Granted, Labi, How does the song go
" I am glad I'm not young anymore"

All the very Breast !


Mr "S"

Thank you Labi, help is all im looking for. And a bit of insight is what i got. Thank you everyone.

Shawna,

I'm glad I could help babe!

You are learning (as we all are) things as you go along.

At the end of the day, all you can do is what "feels" right to you.

I find that a lot of times we ask ourselves questions, that inside, we already know the answers to.

The more in tune you are with yourself, the better those "internal answers" will become to you.

Ultimately if something doesn't resonate with you, and match your vibration, just let it go; if it does resonate, and does make sense to you, then go with it.

When all is said and done, you are the master (mistress in your case!) of your own life. =0)

If you need anything, or just want anymore advice (not that I'm an expert or anything), you know how to find me. . .

- Eric

Shawna,  

It all comes down to attraction.  If you aren't attracted all the personality in the world won't make a difference.  It s about finding someone who gets excited about the features that you have (large lips) and vice versa (medium sized circumcised unit).  Good luck on your search and realize that one mans meat (beautiful labia) is another mans poison (has same feeling as you about uncircumcised units when it comes to labia).