Veronica, You are absolutely correct. You have discovered the secret. Your big labia is part of what makes you sexy. An important part of it in fact. It is so heartening to read a note from a woman who has discovered this fact, who has learned to love and enjoy their body to the fullest extent, and to become proud of their lovely labia. Congratulations to you. You are miles ahead of all these poor women who are deceived into paying someone to perform a labiaplasty on them, thereby removing perhaps the sexiest part of their body. Best wishes to you.