still a little self-conscious

sorry, I forgot to add that I would love to hear some women's experiences with big labia loosing their virginity - like about the reactions the boys made.
did they think that its normal? Did they give you a weird look?
Plaese answer! I'd really love ot hear!

LC,  Enlarged labia, just like other enlarged erotic parts of your body, is an attraction for most males.  Don't worry about it.   If some kid doesn't appreciate them, it's not the fault of your lovely labia.  Look at all the photos on this site, and you will see models displaying their hanging, enlarged labia for all to see.  They are proud of their lips, as you should be.  People are people and have varying tastes, and some, as you mention in your note, simply don't have any experience.  That experience all comes with time, and the personal tastes change and develop as we all go through life.  Some people prefer a woman to have large breasts, for example, or an ass of a particular shape.  Not to worry.  Your labia are quite beautiful, as they ALL are.  Play with them yourself, enjoy them, learn how you best enjoy them being handled, then instruct any future lover about what turns you on the most.  Best of luck to you.  Most important, keep those lovely lips.  You will find them to be valuable.

hi there. I was also a virgin at 15 (now 22), and since then I have had sex with about 6 guys, and some more have fiddled about. out of perhaps 9 guys that have had anything to do down there: 2 seemed to really like my labia and wanted badly to go down on me. 1 seemed grossed out, and all the others didnt care/mind.

one guy after having touched me down there, got really curious and wanted to see. I thought whatever, and let him have a look. I thought if he is grossed out, his loss.. I couldn't really figure out what he thought about it, but I was probably the first girl he had come over with big labia. this was after I found this website, so I actually felt full of selfconfidence and nearly proudly let him have a look.  

I would say that, I really understand your worries, and I have been EXTREMELY selfconscious about it myself (it even got so bad that I went into a serious depression for several years, and I also practiced celibacy for quite a while. the celibacy stopped after I found this website)..  
but in the end, when you have sex with someone you love they will love you for who you are (and that will be a part of the package you come with). perhaps a cliché, but so very true..  

and if you are having a one night stand or something similar, the guy will probably be quite happy with just the fact that you are going to have sex that he might not notice or care.. or better yet, he might be one of those wonderful men out there that get extremely turned on by it.  

after what I heard nearly more than half of all boys/men like big labia. (some of them might just not know it yet)

and yes, girls can be mean, but if they knew that soo many men get soo turned on by it (rather than their babylike pussies), they'd be VERY jealous of what you have that they do not have. :)

so smile and be proud!

hay im 18 and i lost my virginity to my boyfriend when i had just turned 17. i was with him 3 months before i took my clothes off for him and even than my first time i kept my panties on. He never once said anything about it, good or bad. He just didnt seem to care (he is my age), the longer we were together the more comfertable i got with him, the first time we showered together i covered myself, he got mad at that. he hated when i covered myself up, he wanted me to flaunt it, it wasnt until after that that i actually let him down there, and again he really didnt seem to mind he would do it willingly. when i would complain and sometimes cry about it to him, he said it didnt matter to him, and most guys dont really mind. he told me it felt better when we had sex because my lips would rub his shaft which was more stimulating i guess. its been over two years, we are off and on but currently back on, and he stills prefers me to "normal" girls. He just wishes i would stop hiding myself around him. if he had it my way i wouldnt be allowed to wear panties. ever. when i mentioned lybiaplasty he only said if its what i REALLY wanted. Not going to lie, my boyfriend is one of the most immature guys ive ever met. he was also my first real boyfriend. so my advice is to hold out a while. until you know he really cares about you. than, he shouldnt care what its like down there. and you never know, it might grow on him like it did my boyfriend.

Hey, I lost my virginity at 16, I am now 21. I consider that very young and am lucky as the guy that I was with loved them. Although I have never had a negative remark about my labia I do need to odd confidence boost as a lot of men are influence by porn. My advice to you is DO NOT rush into having sex because everyone else is doing it or because of pressure. Whatever age you are make sure you are 100% sure. You will know when you're ready although you may be slightly nervous. Also BE CONFIDENT. No one can beat confidence.

Hey LC!,
I came across this site probably 3 years ago when I was your age (I'm 18 now) and it helped a little bit, but at that time I was still a virgin and was still really worried about what guys would think. I lost my virginity right before I turned 16 to a guy I had been dating for 4 months. I had been naked in front of him before and he had never said anything mean about it. One time he jokingly mentioned that my lips stuck out and i got upset and cried...he had no idea why I would be self conscious about it and told me that none of his friends would care and that he didn't care either. I am with a new guy now who I waited a while with to see me naked because I knew he was really experienced and I was nervous I would be the first girl he'd encounter with big lips. I eventually let my guard down and let him finger me and had sex with him and now we've been together for over six months. He also casually mentioned they stuck out and rudely said "you can get surgery for that". Of course I burst into tears and he felt SO bad. He told me he loved them and that he was just joking around, but I felt horrible. He had no idea I was self conscious before and now always tells me he loves my lips and that they wrap around his dick when we're having sex and it feels extra good. I'm also the first girl he's gone down on and he loves it. These guys both ranged from 15 to 19 when they saw my lips so they're both immature, but neither minded. I've been in love with both of them and both of them have been in love with me, but I like to think my lips are magic and were/are part of the reason why they love fucking me so much and were/are loyal to me haha.

Ya guys look at porn and a lot of girls have small lips but a lot of girls have protruding lips too. My boyfriend now tells me that he can show me a ton of girls with lips like mine in porn. Now that the internet has so many free sites guys see crazy stuff all the time...a lot crazier than big labia. Girls are the ones who probably don't know about vaginas different then theirs, but your friends aren't going to disown you if they see your labia (hopefully lol). If you're confident guys will be attracted to you regardless of your labia size. Plus for me having big lips adds to the sensation during sex and getting eaten out. DONT GET SURGERY AND LOVE YOURSELF.  (sorry this is so long haha)