Dear Labi Amore

Interesting. I always thought Labi Amore was a man, but after reading this I get the impression it's a women. Not that it matters.

K: Just wanted to say I think your wonderful. One of the comments you made really hit me. It was about the opinion other women have regarding full lips. Funny, I always assumed the body image issues women have was more to do with the way they thought men looked at them. In other words, what men thought about larger labia. You have put a new perspective on the issue. From that standpoint I think you make a very important contribution to women by being supportive.  

It is gratifying to hear that by simply reading some of the material here some women actually change their minds and decide not to go through with mutilating their genitals. The word mutilation is appropriate here because when ever you alter something that is perfectly normal to something that is not. It's mutilation. Ok, it might be self inflicted. But we have to ask ourselves what has driven this person to such extremes? There is not question we are our own worst critics.  

So ladies, if you want to change something about yourself. Consider loosing the extra five pounds or changing your hair colour, what ever. But don't get breast implants or have you genitals cut. Real men will love you for what and who you are. If you have dangly bits, smile you're one of the lucky one's ;)

Hi Sailor
Your first impression was the right one, I am a man.

Hey, it was good hearing from you again! Um, i have not tried the vaseline thing yet, because thankfully the irritation has been minimal lately. Ive been going without panties  a lot more lately. Luckily my job allows for me to wear loose fitting pants so  Ive been going without panties to work. So theres an extra 40 hrs a week of less rubbing. And as i said before, as soon as i get home i put comfortable pants on. What i also noticed helps with irritation is to keep your legs shaved and as smooth as possible as often as you can. Stubble  rubbing against or poking into your lips is not a good feeling, and obviously its worse without panties. BTW, dont ever feel redundant by repeating any comments that you have made in the past. Im sure, or at least i hope that there are new girls on this site every day who are reading these things for the first time. And reading something that was written that day versus a couple years ago would be a lot more impactful. These women want and need to know that there are men out there RIGHT NOW that desire their body type. Anyway, again it was good hearing from you. P.S. You're girlfriend/wife is a lucky lucky woman! :)

K, It sounds like things are getting better for you and your problems with irritation of your labia.  Congratulations!  Keeping shaved more often sounds like a good contribution to the solution to your former problems.  I'll remember that for the future.  I'm very glad that it all seems to be getting better for you.  Are you starting to feel different about your body, going without panties most of the time?

I'm starting to feel better about my body, but i dont know if going without panties is contributing to it or not. I think its probably a mixture of this website and me getting older and learning to accept myself more....

Hello K
Greetings. I visit this site often, reading most of the letters, including yours. Am gratified to know that visiting this site has helped you to feel much better about yourself, and inspired you with new-found confidence. You may have noticed that I usually encourage women on this site to write to me. Don't know what your perceptions are about me. It is not that I am trying to "hit" on every woman on the site, but I do have a bit of a problem. You see, even though I don't discriminate against small labia, I have a distinct oral and sexual preference for large labia. Problem is that I am not fortunate enough to meet women who are blessed with large labia. I have read many letters about negative experiences woman have had with immature men who had made callous remarks about their large labia. I have read about insecure women dreading to expose themselves to men for fear of negative reactions. One of my main reasons for involving myself with this site, was in the hope that I might have been able to establish contact with, or even interact socially with, women who themselves would be happy to meet men, like myself, who luv to lick and suck large labia.
I am cognisant of the fact that there is much more to a relationship than the size of one's labia, but at the same time we can't under- estimate the bonding role that sexual intimacy plays. It is indeed an important component. I would appreciate replies/suggestions from any one who reads this letter. For those who wish to reply privately, feel free to use my e-mail address

Hi Barry,  
I totally understand where you're coming from. But I'm an honest person and I always say what I'm thinking. I'm saying this because I hope it helps you in your search to find the woman of your dreams  so... I think you're approach is all wrong. While the men might be on this website for sexual purposes, most of the women are not. They are looking for a sense of pride in themselves and their body. And although it IS a good feeling to know that the very thing that makes you sexually insecure is something that makes you sexually desirable to someone else, I dont think any woman wants to feel sexually objectified by anybody on here. Personally, the reason i didnt respond the times that you extended your email address to me on here was because for one; ive seen you offer it to almost every other female on here too! And for two; i knew you were probably going to try to persuade me into sending you a picture of my labia. I mean, you're intentions seem purely sexual.Maybe those ARE your only intentions, i really dont know.  To be honest, it kinda comes off as you trying to benefit from the insecurities of women on here .However, i will give you some credit.The post above this as well as the post i just read a few mins ago that pretty much said the same thing is a step in the right direction. It doesnt come across as....... perverted i guess.

Now again, i dont know if you're just looking for a sexual encounter or for a long term relationship with a woman with large labia, but i will say this... If you're looking for a relationship... I dont think the internet is the place to look. Particularly an international website like this. The odds of you finding someone who lives by you is slim to none. And hopefully, no girl on here is dumb enough to hop on a plane and come visit a complete stranger just so she can feel accepted. If its meant to be, you will find someone when and where you're not even looking. Large labia is really not that uncommon. It is possible to meet someone with large labia unexpectedly and be pleasantly surprised. And THEN you can show her your appreciation for them. I think the key is to not try so hard. And not let everything be about sex. Now, if you ARE looking for just a sexual encounter... well.. i dont really have advice for that because i personally dont condone meeting up with someone you met on the internet for sexual purposes. So anyway... Im not trying to judge you, or insult you, or anything like that. Im just telling you how your approach comes off to me because thats probably the same way it comes across to the other women on here. You seem to be a very nice, intelligent man and seem like a very unselfish lover, which is always a good thing. I wish you good luck in your search. And hopefully ive said something that will be of some help to you.