Question for the ladies...

The best solution I have found for my pets over the years has been to insist that they not wear any underwear, and that they wear skirts or dresses whenever possible.  Several of these women have had the exact problem you mention in your note.  They found that by following my instructions, they were relieved of the discomfort, while enjoying a great feeling of sexiness and freedom.  Nothing pulling on your tender bits.  No seams of pants digging into them uncomfortably, nothing rubbing on them causing rashes and other even more serious irritation.  Check some of the previous letters here and you will see the reaction from some other women to what I propose for you.  Give it a try.  Be sure to let me know how it works for you.

Well i often dont wear underwear. The first thing i do when i get home from work is change into loose comfortable sweat pants with no underwear and even then, when i sit down, the seam of the pants dig and rub on me. I wear only \ t-shirts to bed. Its just when im out of the house and i wear jeans and a thong that it really bothers me. Wearing jeans with no underwear would only make the problem worse. I dont know, i'll probly just have to deal with this for life.

By the way, thanks for your reply.

K

i can't really give you an objective answer to your issue with your painful problem as I am a man.

All I can tell you is that I sometimes get chaffing where the line down the centre of my balls gets rubbed between my underwear and legs (especially when playing rugby/football).

I find that regular vaseline pertoleum jelly works every time. Furthermore it only takes a few applications and the symptoms dissapear for long spells. When it returns I simply repeat the procedure.

Vaseline is inert and safe to use on tender areas so won't cause further irritation.

I find this problem occurs more frequently in summer when temperatures are higher and I perspire more (so keep a tub of vaseline handy during summer!)

Hope this helps

D

Hm, sounds like its worth a try. Thanks

K, From your response, it seems that you are only following half of my recommendation.  I believe that is why you are continuing to be so uncomfortable with those large, lovely labia of yours.  Goind without underwear is only half of the solution.  When you're home alone in the evenings, instead of sweatpants, try wearing just an oversize T shirt, or something of that nature. As long as you insist on wearing pants, even the sweatpants which you talk about, the seams will irritate you.   The jeans, of course, present the same problem.  The seam which will irritate your tender labia.  Again, I can only suggest that you make the effort to try going without underwear altogether, to try wearing skirts and dresses when out of the house, and to try wearing the kind of loose, large T shirts that you use for bedtime around the house instead of the sweats.  For your skirts, you can get longer ones, even those made out of jean material, if that's what makes you comfortable.  Just wear nothing that closes between your legs, or anything with seams in places where they will irritate your tender labia when you sit.  Do give it a try, and then please let me know how it works out for you.  Your labia should bring you only pleasure, only a feeling of a deep inborn sexiness, not pain or irritation.

Hey Marquis,
You do have a point about wearing sweat pants around the  house, however, wearing dresses and skirts really isnt my style. And even if i did wear them, i wouldnt feel comfortable not wearing a thong underneath bc i wouldnt want to flash myself to anybody.

K, I certainly understand your feelings.  I suggest these measures since those I know who have given them a sincere try have found them to be very liberating, very sexy, and to eliminate the problems of pinching and irritation which you talk about.  The problem of accidental flashing is why I suggested trying longer skirts, at least at the begining, to give you more confidence.  I meant no desire for you to embarrass yourself.  Of course, if you simply must wear some type of pants or jeans that is another matter entirely.  In any event, I wish you well in solving the issues you describe, and in truly enjoying your lovely larger labia.  You are very fortunate to be so blessed.

If I wear sexy, silky, thin underwear with jeans, I can be in agony by the afternoon. I have to go to the loo to adjust things! I usually just wear cotton underwear and that works wonders for me. But the Marquis is right, no underwear and no pants is by far the best. As I walk my lips rub against each other and this feels so incredibly sexy, it's awesome. I turn myself on!