One more story to add...I admit being ashamed of myself.
When I was about your age a guy was in our dorm room and I was in
underwear, sitting cross-legged on the floor with my roommate's
friend.
He, shocked, stared at my underwear and said
something like...why is there a buldge? Do you have a dick?
Are you deformed or a transvestite or what?
I was -
embarrassed. I didn't know how to respond to that. But it
was sure obvious to me that he had not seen a lot of snatch in his
life. Perhaps none! And to mistake..large lips for a
penis...come on!
I had THOUGHT about doing it at the
time but was too shy to educate this poor sap about womens' anatomy
101. I should have dropped my underwear and showed him exactly
what girls look like. I should have showed him about lips...and
showed him where and what the clit looks like, etc. I could
have saved a girl or two, no doubt, some grief down the line!
No doubt he went and told several others all about me and
his discovery. Nobody ever mentioned it to but to this day I
still turn red just thinking about it. I was too young and too
shy to bare it all, on the spot, to just educate a...guy who happened
to be in the apartment though. Now that I am over twice that
age I would do it IN A HEART BEAT. It was wrong of me to just
clam up and not educate/correct because he didn't say it out of
meanness. What he saw just didn't agree with his
"expectations". And, obviously, experience level.
Real women don't look like the porn queens? Of course not.
Just like...Jaime Lee Curtis doesn't look the same in a spread
that has not been airbrushed. Tyra Banks, for God's Sake, talks
about having all her shots airbrushed because her calves are "too
thick". Lauren Hutton had big arguments over the space in her
teeth.
Go to a porn store...or check out sites...and
you will also find the "molded" exact replicas of some of these
stars. Some actually DO have large lips! Proof that you
are A-OK as you are!
WHEN you are actually a porn star than
you can worry about having your butt bleached and your lips tucked
and no ingrown hairs or zits on your butt (or anywhere else!).
REALLY, TRULY...you are fine just the way you are.
Even more lovely when you like you. There are plenty of
people out there who will either love it or not give it one thought
what-so-ever.
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