Dump him! He shouldn't be commenting about your labia with his buddies to start with. He sounds very immature. Mature men, real men love large labia. You're beautiful so relax. He's the one with the problem.
sad
May 27, 2008
I have always thought all
men only want those perfect girls in playboy; everything small but
their breast. Im not that lucky, i have long lips and i hate
them.My husband is uncomfortable with it and i asked what he
thought.HE said that they are ok. i overheard him and his
army buddies talking how ugly girls are that have bigger lips..
Im still really hurt about it and he wonders why i dont like him to
go down on me. I also confronted him on it... he said" they are
ok"... i want my husband to think im beautiful...sadly im
feeling like the ugliest thing that walked this earth.. what do i say
to him? i feel that he will stray because of it, im 22.. i dont want
to leave him over it, but i dont want to get them cut down.. why do i
have to suffer pain of all of that ? i need help.. to get them
cut down or not...
~~confused and hurt
Sailor
May 28, 2008
Dump him! He shouldn't be commenting about your labia with his buddies to start with. He sounds very immature. Mature men, real men love large labia. You're beautiful so relax. He's the one with the problem.
Bambi
May 28, 2008
DO NOT HAVE SURGERY!
Your letter makes me feel so sad,
and I can feel your hurt. Why should you feel so awful about
something that is completely out of your control? Why should you go
through unwanted surgery and pain simply because your husband makes
you feel like that? I am sure he is wonderful in every other way, but
he should be making you feel beautiful and special, not like
something he tolerates! As for him and his buddies saying big lips
are ugly, well I don't imagine for a second that they all have
perfect thick long dicks. If you have to make changes then it is to
how your husband thinks, not to your pussy. I used to want surgery
until I realised that the reason I wanted to change was not for me,
but because of other people's reactions. Please do not go through
surgery when it isn't what you want x
amgbullitt
May 29, 2008
Your husband is wrong. You have the the most beautiful atribute a
woman can have. DO NOT have the surgery. He should not be talking
about you to his buddies.
Find some one who does love you
for who you are and what you have.
feelin better
May 30, 2008
thanks for all that wrote.. your words make me feel so much better...
and more of a women. to all that have doubts and are afraid.... just
come here and your world will change. we need more confident / aware
women in this world and this is where it can start.
thanks
again to all
eric
May 31, 2008
Hey
DUMP you man.. he could be proud of you and your big
pussylips. its the most beutiful think you can have, pussys with no
lips like playboy models are not sexy..YOU ARE SEXY..BE PROUD
kiss nad hugs
Eric
Amanda
June 13, 2008
Show him this site. Problem solved.