Katie,
Please do not worry about getting intimate with
someone because of your labia. I was in exactly the same position and
although it didn't stop me having sex, I felt embarrassed about my
meaty pussy and worried about the reaction. However, I have never
once had a boyfriend look down at pussy in disgust, or say anything
mean to me about it. You must act confident (even if you don't feel
it). If you act ashamed, then he will probably think that you have
something to be ashamed of. If you are confident of your body and
show it off to him, then he is going to be so turned on that there is
no way he is backing out of your bedroom! As for telling him
beforehand, don't do it! I would think it weird if a man warned me
before sex that he had a long foreskin, no foreskin, a huge dick, a
tiny dick etc etc. When was the last time you met a man with a
perfectly sized penis???? I haven't, but it doesn't make me any less
turned on by him. Relax, enjoy yourself, and don't let insecurities
rui!
n your chances of happiness. If you want to talk more then
just email me. I am happy to talk more about this. I know from first
hand experience how uncomfortable it feels to have a large labia when
everyone else around you seems to have a "normal" neat little pussy x