June 20, 2005
Well, I can hardly believe this! I've spent years feeling bad about my
long lipped meaty pussy and now at last I can relax and start enjoying
my body. My ex never went down on me and I always felt it was because
he was put off by the appearance of my pussy. I also only had a few
orgasms with him in the 3 years we were together!!!
For six months I've been with my new boyfriend and he is treating my cunt very differently. He tells me how it turns him on. How he loves the smell, the taste and the look. He calls my protruding labia minora my flower and I must agree that a flower comes to my mind too when I pull the skin above my pussy upwards to reveal my throbbing red clit. My inner lips spread and look like the petals of an exotic flower with that pearl of pleasure shining in between.With my new man I have lots of orgasms because he knows what he's doing and I can relax easier.
Anyway, about three years ago(while I was going out with my ex) I started thinking about having labia surgery and became obsessed. I even rang some places but was so embarrased I didn't go through with it. Now I'm really glad I didn't do it. Meeting a guy who can play with my pussy lips so sensually during oral sex and then finding this amazing site has made me feel so much more confident. I'm starting to see my big vulva as something very sexy not a messy,floppy,unsightly, flappy thing I used to feel I had hanging between my legs. Thank you for this site and for helping me to love myself! If possible I will send a photo soon.
You know, I have this feeling that even if you didn't have large lips your ex would still not have gone down on you. Some men—and I'm not talking about homosexuals—just don't like putting their mouth anywhere near a vagina. I never understood how that can be possible, unless these men have some underlying psychological issues with a woman's sexuality, ...or with their own. The fact that you only had a few orgasm during the three years with your ex says a lot about him.
Thankfully your new boyfriend is someone with a healthy sexual attitude, someone who communicates his desire for your big vulva in words and deeds. I sincerely hope you are also such a good match in the other relationship departments!