Your gynocologist will say nothing, because you are perfectly normal!
There is nothing abnormal about having labia that are large.
You should not be having pain during sex, either, so be good to
yourself and get yourself to the gyno. There are a few
conditions (like vulvodynia) that can cause pain during sex.
Find out what is going on; you shouldn't have to live with
pain.
As for the red pubic hair, I think that sounds sexy!
Better than the brown pubic hair that me and most of the
population has!