Jessica,
It's interesting that your boyfriend has no preference
in terms of how a woman's genitals appear. I have done some research
concerning this and the results indicate that the men who could care
less about how a woman's genitals appear are interested in just one
thing--to get in and have a quick ejaculation. On the other hand,
those men who really have strong preferences in term of genital
appearance; i.e., long and protruding labia, large clitoris and
clitoral hood, or even just a vaginal cleft--these guys really care
about their women and they also care about being certain their women
achieve erotic orgasms. Based on my research, it appears that your
boyfriend fits the first category and is not particularly interested
in your satisfaction in terms of sharing in sexual intimacy.
Chuck