To answer your question concerning fellatio, I would start by saying
if your are going to do it the most important thing is to do it with
enthusiasm. I don't enjoy it if the lady is not enjoying it.
I would assume it is the same for women--you don't want me down
there licking your labia and making faces like they're covered in
lemon juice. I don't want you looking like I just stuck a dirty
gym sock in your mouth. If you don't wanna do it, don't fake
interest and we're moving on to the main event anyway.
So to
those who are down with going down, try this. Put just the head
in your mouth and suck on it alone. Many girls focus to much on
deep throating and trying to swallow the whole length. Don't
get me wrong, I appreciate the effort and it feels great. But
the place that gets most men excited is the back of the head (brim of
the helmet). If you watch a dude masterbate, its the
touching/bumping of this area that finishes him off. So try to
just suck the head. The bonus move here would be to add some
tounge on the hole while sucking. The grand slam would be to
let him finish in your mouth while sucking. Contrary to what
the porn industry would have you believe, many guys would rather cum
in your mouth and have you swallow without ever actually seeing the
product.
I have plenty more to share if anyone is
interested. I'm looking for a dirty pen-pal or two just for fun.