I have been sexually active since the age of 13 but I hope I can help
anyways because I have still been very self concious about my large
labia but is over it now. For me it has definately helped to just
have sex even though I was scared about what my sex partner would say
because now I know from experience that guys either don't care or
really like large labia. Before I found this web site I thought that
they just accepted it and dealed with what I thought could only be
percieved ugly and unlucky but after reading a lot of letters etc.
here I decided to test it. Was it really true that guys actually love
large labia?? At the same time I already got a lot of confidence from
this web site, so when I had sex with new people from this point I
was acting very confident and in the believe that they would like my
labia and I was testing at the same time how they would respond to my
labia and I'm not lying when I say that practically every singe sex
partner I have had since then have said nice things about my
pussy!:-)
My point here is that you have to try what you are
afraid of because if you don't it's to easy for your mind to
reproduce the negative thoughts and you kind of create the problems
in your head but if you try to have sex like you want to you will
find out that those problems doesn't exist (of course I can't promise
that there will never be an asshole in your life but the huge
majority will be cool).
At the same time: believe the
words you hear here and do everything you can to reproduce them in
your head, tell your self over and over that large labia are sexy and
desireble and meet the world like that. If you don't believe it 100
%, act like you do when you try out sex and rest will come
Best wishes, Ann