Frank,
I totally agree with you. I like how you figured it out
Frank Lyons
July 26, 2010
Censors only allow pictures to be published of women with small or
airbrushed labia because larger labia are considered too sexually
stimulating.
People then only seeing small labia in the
mainstream media are brainwashed into believing that small labia are
sexy.
Opportunist mutilators of women play on women's (and
girls) insecurities for profit, profit and more profit.
Women/girls have their sexually stimulating vulvas mutilated and
are made into sexless entities.
I am of the opinion that the
mutilated women cope with their loss in one of three ways:
1) They tell everyone that it was the best thing that ever
happened to them and that everything is now great and try to convince
others to get it done. This selfish women wants others to
suffer like they have, because misery loves company and they don't
want to feel like the only fool.
2) They try to rationalize
how it kind of made sense for them to have themselves mutilated into
a sexless entity. These women will have the hardest time of it, since
they aren't deluding themselves that it was great and aren't grasping
the reality of what they have done to themselves. See sad story
below.
3) They realize what they did was foolish, realize
what they have lost and try to warn other women not to fall for the
same con. These women are the unfortunate victims who have the
heroic strength to warn others, move on and make the best of a bad
situation.
The sad story of a woman who falls into category two (one of
the responses At URL:
womensmediacenter.com/blog/2010/02/cosmetic-vaginal-surgeons-clueless/comment-page-1/): Posted May 19, 2010 at 3:20 am
I had labiaplasty with a clitoral hood reduction, I was
19 at the time.
My labia was huge, in my opinion, as it stuck
well below where I thought it should. It hurt to ride a bike, walk in
jeans, cross my legs, my underwear would always slide over to one
side, leaving me uncovered. Not to mention because it stuck out and
was constantly rubbing against my clothes I had to wear a tampon when
I was not on my period or else my underwear would get wet and it was
extremely uncomfortable. It caused sex to be on my mind 24/7 though I
was not sexually active.
Besides this, I felt like it was so ugly
like there was a hump where there shouldn't be. When I would wear
pants I was so self conscious because I assumed that was where
everyone was looking, especially when wearing a bikini.
I could
never concentrate as I was always in pain or uncomfortable.
The
hood also came out so far I felt like a boy. I had never had sex so I
didn't understand how I could get any pleasure from having sex when
it hung so low and far away from my vagina. Instead my mind wandered
towards women (I don't like nor am I attracted to women) but it got
pleasure from friction, which men cannot provide.
I was able to
please myself and the sensation was unbelievable and incredible.
Finally, I went into my dad's room crying because I could not
understand what was wrong with me. I told him I felt like a boy, how
I didn't understand why in my spinning class I was in soo much pain
while all the other women were not.
A long time ago a
female obgyn said some men like larger labia, but i didn't like it so
I pushed my dad to take me to see the dr. who had performed the
surgery on tv.
I had the operation and for months was EXTREMELY
sexually frusterated. It felt bent and like the feeling couldn't go
all the way through. I HATED it. The night before my surgery though I
thought this could be the last time I can make myself feel this good.
And I was right, but at the time I didn't care I just wanted it gone,
cut, flat.
Eventually it stopped feeling bent and loosened a bit.
It hasn't felt the same and will never feel the same. I have a
boyfriend now who I am sexually active with and think how much I wish
I hadn't gotten the surgery because I know he would be able to please
me the way the OBGYN was trying to tell me from the beginning. It
bothers me.
But at the same time, I can wear whatever I want, my
underwear stays intact, I can be at work speaking to customers and
not thinking about how much pain I am in down there because the trim
on my loose fitting slacks are too tight. I don't constantly have to
fix myself. it's nice.
So I don't know.
Yes I
believe the doctors have NO clue about sexual stimulation from a
woman. A clit being open and close to the vagina just gets irritated
during intercourse and feels raw. Though I was told it makes for
better sex. I don't have much sensation in my labia now I don't
really like for it to be touched, it is more painful than
pleasurable. Whereas before it was the complete opposite. For
my sexual life I regret the surgery. For my educational,
professional, and life besides being turned on or horny, I do not.
I am posting this since I don't want any more women falling
into any of these three categories.
Jessica
July 30, 2010
Frank,
I totally agree with you. I like how you figured it out