My clitoral hood is very big too. Wide, and thick. I still shave though. What is it about your hood that makes you not be able to shave? Is it just that you prefer it be covered so its not as visible? And if you dont mind my asking... are your lips long too? For me, i think the reason my vulva is so prominent is bc my hood is so wide and so long. If it werent for the hood, my labia would be mostly inside of my labia majora and probably wouldnt stick that far out.. The one good thing about having a big/long hood though, is that your boyfriend (or girlfriend) can actually suck it.. almost like you would a dick. For some reason, it really turns me on to watch my boyfriends head go up and down while hes eating my pussy, as if he were sucking a dick.. Sounds odd but.. for whatever reason i like it. Its also a good way to get your pussy wet before penetration and a good way to stimulate your clit without direct contact which can me extremely annoying and sometimes painful. Anyway... I wouldnt stress too much over it.. Lucky for you, most girls arent as degrading about other pussy types as guys. Has she eatin u out yet? Cus if she has, hair or no hair, chances are.. she noticed your hood.. And if she hasnt said anything about it. its probly cus its not a big deal to her. Glad you found this website. It can be really helpful when you need a confidence boost or have a sex-body related question and want some real, straight-forward answers from real, straight-forward people....