Confused,
You have no idea how sexy your pussy sounds. The
fact that your labia make a noticeable lump in your bikinis is a HUGE
turn on for me.
It really is a shame that your lone sexual
experience was a drunken grope, but the fact that he went down on you
should let you know that there's nothing wrong with your labia.
On the subject of your discomfort. There has been some discussion
on this subject. In these discussions it has been suggested that a
change in panty materials, or even a decision to wear them may help.
I have even suggested wearing clothing that fits differently against
your pussy, like jeans that aren't so tight. If that fails you could
always forego the clean shave. Being a shaver myself, married to a
shaver, I am a HUGE fan of a smooth pussy, but Iam a bigger fan of a
happy pussy. Body hair is a natural protection of tha body's
sensitive areas, if its removal allows those areas to become chafed,
pinched, or pulled, then perhaps it should be allowed to grow.
I am a bit unusual at this site because I actually
recognize that there are times when labiaplasty are appropriare. But
only for reconstructive purposes, not for appearance or convenience.
Every effort should be made to alleviate the discomfort before
surgery is esen considered as an option. Not only will you
essentially be cutting thi wings off of your butterfly, but Ihave
heard from several women who've gone there and regretted it, but I
haven't heard from one who has been happy with the results. And once
you've gone there, you can't come back.
XOXOt_d