the first time you saw them? help please

I think the first time I saw a woman with truly large lips, my reaction was 'wow, yes please, get those on my face, I could get used to this'  

I wouldn't worry though, a guy that has to be taught to like them doesn't deserve to be in your bed. Simple as that really.

Dear C,
12 guys have seen me down there and gave me oral and I never heard one negative comment and they were very turned on.  
Only 2 of the guys had never seen large labia before and had some questions the first time they saw mine. Remember a genuine questions is not a negative comment and nothing to get nervous about. If anyone should get embarrassed it is the guy because he's the one who doesn't know  about female anatomy. It is exactly what happened in my case after I educated the guy about different forms of female parts. He felt stupid for not knowing that and said he thought it was hot and it was just that he hadn't seen it before.  
If he doesn't mention anything about your labia and you see he is enjoying your pussy then you don't even should ask him if he likes it because he obviously does love it and he should and by saying that you sound like you think there is something weird about it. If you do ask him his opinion don't say "Is that alright?", "Do you thing there is anything wrong with that?" because THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. You can mention your  your labia in a playful way, for example, " Do you enjoy sucking on my yummy labia as much as I do?"  
Remember to be proud of your pussy because you are blessed and show 100% confidence in your labia because if you don't, your lack of confidence will turn him off and DEFINITELY NOT YOUR LABIA!
Since he is inexperienced he might ask you about your labia and there is nothing wrong with genuine curiosity. Educate him about different forms of female parts with CONFIDENCE and he will appreciate it and will love your labia.
Remember to be CONFIDENT with yourself and I will guarantee EVERYONE   WILL LOVE YOUR LABIA!

Hey Jess, you got all that right on the money. My wife has'em & knows how to use'em, that's how we ended up being married.

Last summer my wife & I were at a pool party of one of her best friends along with a couple dozen other people. She dove into the pool and as she was hoisting herself onto the pool ledge, the crotch of her bathing suit slipped to the side exposing half of what she had, and the stranger sitting next to me watching this got so excited that he leaned over & muttered to me, "Look at that, just look at that pussy", talk about a guy getting excited. My wife told me later that the same stranger tried to get her to take off with him for.........well, you know what.  

Hey you well endowed gals, you can pussy whip a lot of us to death without even trying.

Jessica I agree so much with you! After I found this web site and became very confident with my labia almost all the men I have been with has told me that my labia was beautiful and sexy and the few that didn't say that has said some other nice things about my pussy like it tastes or smells good or something. Before I found this site only once in a while my sex partners said sonething nice about it (but many did show it though). I am confident that the change is caused by my confidence. I used to be ashamed and obviously the signals you send out when you are ashamed make people afraid to talk about it no matter how positive their wiew is. Now I am absulutely sure that they can feel my confidence and they thereby feel invited to compliment my pussy and have focus on it.  
To Yes Please: I agree that a guy who dislikes the labia doesn't deserve to be in a bed with a large lipped girl but I disagree that they have to love it from start to be allowed there. I once had a boyfriend who when he saw my pussy said something like "wow those labia are really big!" and I said in an annoyed tone "Jup, that's me". Then he said "no but it is a lot better than if it was your outer labia that was so big". I still felt kind of insulted and wondered why he would say that when my outer labia  are also big. Anyways I slept with him and afterwards all he was talking about was how sexy and hot it looked when my labia would slip in with the cock and out again with the cock when he fucked me. And he loved my pussy so much that he always wanted to take photos of it to keep. When I broke up with him a month later he couldn't leave me alone, he always wanted to have sex with me again. So he was obviously unexperienced and ignorant with large labia before he was with me but he came to love it, and I am actually happy that I could teach him that

Great posts everyone - hopefully they will help C with her concerns - let us know how you get on C

I can't be exactly sure when the firs time I saw a well endowed woman's charms was. Although I do seem to remember an episode from when I was VERY young. I once saw the daughter of a family friend in the bathroom, and although she was very young herself, she was still much older than I was. It took a lot of soul searching to get to that point, but I suspect that it was that first look at a big lipped pussy that planted the seed for me loving labia,(among other things) so much.

I don't actually remember seeing a well endowed woman again for many years, And in the in-between the two episodes I became a victim of the Playboy school of thought about what a pretty pussy looked like. But all it took was one look at that pussy to set me straight. incidentally, she was also the first woman I'd seen with body piercings, Which was very rare in the '80's, But I've been a fan since.

Today I'm very lucky to be married to a beautiful woman, with labia that are not as long as they could be, but are nice and thick, and which swell very nicely when I go down on her, and who squirts when she cums, which she does very easily, very often, and in practically any position. I'm sometimes surprised that she doesn't crumble into dust and blow away when we're done with each other.

I'm sorry I got a little carried away, but as many here know, i am a huge labia fan.

XOXO t_d

Trust me, your first guy will be so excited that you are giving yourself to him it won't matter what you look like. After the first time then you will begin exploring each other. Most guys are brainwashed by the online and print media to believe women only have 'camel toes", i.e. no labia. If you enjoy stretching your labia, playing with them etc. then coach him how to do it. Then ask him how he would like you to handle him. You will find that he will never ask why you may be different than the photos he sees. He will just learn to appreciate your beautiful rose petals.