very self conscious about my large lips

Can you correct your last line my dear to read apreciate my true gift - please

Mr "S"

This makes me sad, boys are so immature. Your ex sounds like a tool, just going to throw that out there. I used to be so shy and frigid because of it. But I am always out there trying to educate people, girls and boys, about girls like us. There is nothing wrong with us! No reason to be shy or insecure. I've even talked to guy friends about it. About what I have. I am 19, and these boys are my age, and they could care less. You would  be extremely surprised with how common a big labia is. I was. I know girls with it!! Some girls you would hardly expect. So I say rest easy and just loosen up. If you really like a guy, take it slow, but let him know you are not an ice princess.

Jenna,

Seek and you will find. Sometimes u have to take chances to find the right person for you.
Long labias are lovely and very sexy. I believe improved by shaving thus highlighting them
best wishes
Keith

I Understand Your Problem

Hello Jenna,

I'm sure that you must realize that you are allowing the statements of one jerk deprive you of the last two years of joy and pleasure in your sexuality.  You are failing to give the new men who have wandered through your life the opportunity to appreciate your lips, and the rest of your body.  You are being deprived of sex, but you are the one who is depriving yourself.  This is a truly tragic situation.  I urge you to take all the letters and comments here to heart.  In particular make notice of the many women who have had the same issues you have experienced, and who have moved on to a successful and satisfying sexual life.  Love your body, take pleasure in it, realize just how beautiful it is to everyone else.  You are hiding the very center of your sexuality from the rest of the world, and thus denying yourself all of the joy and pleasure which it can provide to you.  Please let us know of your progress.  I wish you great success, great pleasure, great fulfillment in your life.

Best Wishes,

The Marquis

Jenna,

It always makes me feel sad that there are still idiots like your ex in this world. But as I've said before. He couldn't have been too put off by your endowments, He continued to fuck you. Stick around here awhile. hopefully we can help you feel better about yourself, and Don't EVER give that delightful pussy to another man who's as disrespectful and unappreciative of a pussy that looks as good as yours again. Eventually you'll find a man who truly appreciates what is staring him in the face and he'll do what it takes to hold on to you.

In the mean time, we'd be very happy to try to help you feelings of inadequacy. We all love a pussy that looks the way you've described yours. and we'd be honored to be able to view yours.

XOXO t_d

First, don't swat their hand away, that gives them the wrong impression (mouse trap down there?). Second, if they find what they like great! If they don't move on until you find some guy who likes what you have (and there are hundreds of millions of men who do).