Labi Amore has shown yet another young woman the truth of the matter. Her labia are beautiful, sexy, and sexual. She should love them, not struggle over them, nor cry over them. They are a true gift. One has only to love them, and to enjoy them, and to take pleasure from them. It's all so simple once the misconceptions are removed. Congratulations to you, and to your B/F. I also want to commend you for speaking to him plainly about the subject, and about how you feel, how his actions make you feel. Far too many women fail to speak plainly to their men, and thus come up with all kinds of incorrect assumptions. I wish you both much joy and happiness.