Whitney,
My wife is a Sexual and Reproductive Health Nurse.
She has seen more pussies than she has had hot dinners.
Believe me when I say that working in that area, she doesn't
bat an eyelid - she's seen it all. Any of the doctors/nurses
and delivery room staff have no doubt seen labia bigger than yours.
Besides, haven't you gone to your gynae before for a pap smear?
If not, your insecurities about your pussy may well kill you.
As to the little balls of paper stuck to you pussy - a well
endowed girlfriend of mine used to refer to that as "clitty litter" -
clever. It's not just women with larger labia that have this
happen.
Whitney, your insecurities are far uglier than your
genitals. As a man I want a confident woman who loves her body
for what it is. Not a woman too embarrassed by something that
is not an issue for most men (mature men, not boys or bitchy
'sista's' - - some support network most women turn out to be!)
Whitney, your body is normal, you probably enjoy great orgasm's
and you have a husband who loves you and your body. Gain the
confidence and learn to love yourself - the only person holding you
back, is you.
Sorry if that's blunt - just the way I see it.
Feel free to chat if you wish.
Rod.