At age 12 or sooner. That was the first time Iooked at it in the mirror.
flicker
January 4, 2010
Ladies: At what age and how did you become aware you were larger?
Jessica
January 5, 2010
At age 12 or sooner. That was the first time Iooked at it in the mirror.
Ann
January 5, 2010
I was 10 or 11 when my labia started growing and when I noticed. It was right before I started growing pubic hair because I remember that I thought it looked weird and was embarresing and that I was hoping to get the hair soon so it would cover it. I think I noticed when I was peeing.
Shawna
January 5, 2010
I remember being fairly young. My cousin is the same age as me and we lived together for many many years. We shared a bedroom a bathroom, clothes, everything. So one day getting out of the shower she walked in and my towel wasnt covering me completely. She looked down and looked really confused. She said mine was way different than hers and thought it was weird. we were 11ish. It confused me but didnt worry me too much until I got older and it got bigger, I remember seeing my first porn magazine after that and noticing how little the girls lips were. I knew then that I was different and I got very insecure. My cousin is kind of a bitch and would bring it up from time to time.. It was not the nicest experience.
flicker
January 5, 2010
Thanks for the responses. I hope a lot more ladies will share their stories.
Anonymous
January 5, 2010
I was around !2-13 when I thought it had got much bigger!
To
Shawna, anytime that bitch bring it up tell her how much guys enjoy
playing with your labia and hers is boring!
tempest_driver
January 5, 2010
Shawna,
you are not different, you're just different
than your cousin.
A few months ago I wrote in about a poll I
found (#2642) that I revisit from time to time. of the people who've
responded to the poll, both men and women, 90% prefer larger labia.
and that has been pretty consistent since I found the poll.
I just thought you might like to see figures like those, maybe
you can throw that in your cousin's face the next time she brings it
up.
XOXO t_d
Jessica
January 6, 2010
To tempest_driver
The other 10% who don't prefer large labia have
never been lucky to try one ;)
Amanda
January 8, 2010
I was only about 8. ( I wasn't an early developer either because I only got my period at 13) I always noticed when getting changed with my friends. I tried to hide my inner lips inside the outer ones!
jessica2
January 10, 2010
I think I was 12 or so. I would take showers and just look at myself. I saw that they were a bit long, but didn't think nothing of it. Then when i had my first small sexual experience, my labia got darker and the lips longer and thicker O_O after that I was sooo scared, and couldn't tell anyone. But after that they pretty much stayed the same.
tempest_driver
January 11, 2010
I agree Jessica, it must be that. To me, a nice voluptuous pair or
labia is so beautiful that it must be able to turn a gay
man...well...at least bi.
XOXO t_d
Eric
January 13, 2010
Tempest,
You mean with all this beautiful pussy there is a
such thing as a "gay" man??
Well hell. . .I thought that was
folklore!
I mean I knew there were lesbian women (I mean
everybody loves pussy right?), but gay men?
(For those of
you who don't get it -- it's a joke!)
- Eric
grateful
January 13, 2010
I am always surprised about other women discovering their larger labias so late. As far as I can remember, I have always been conscious of it and finding "it" very unattractive. Very early on I realised that in no work of art (sculptures, paintings and the like) were large labias depicted. Thus, I always figured that there was something wrong with me, even before I would discover what other girls looked like in real life. My labias have always been large, even before puberty which is why I have felt very uncomfortable (considering surgery) until discovering this website.
lolita
January 15, 2010
Probably around the time I first started masturbating (which was middle school). I remember when I was younger, they used to be nice & tucked inside the outer labia. I thought for the longest time I accidentally "stretched" out my labia from masturbating, but after doing some research I've found that this apparently isn't the case-however, I did sort of physically stretch the outer part out while in the act, but I don't see how this would have affected the inner ones. In any case, I always thought it looked ugly, & one side has always been a little longer than the other, which is really frustrating to me. I noticed too that I seem to look different from my sister & my best friend. At any case, I am now 20 years old & still a virgin. I have a bad feeling the new year isn't going to change that, unfortunately, seeing as the boys around where I am don't seem very accepting.
tempest_driver
January 16, 2010
Lolita,
Where are you that all of the men are so backwards
so as not to recognize how truly beautiful a woman is regardless of
her endowment?
I'm almost certain that there are several men
here who'd love to get to "know" a woman as wonderfully endowed as
yourself right here.
XOXO t_d
Cerise
January 17, 2010
I've only been aware of it since around age 17 when I noticed they were larger than what was normally depicted in porn/pictures etc. Mostly, that was around the time I experimented extensively with masturbation and they seemed to grow alot (also maybe due to starting birth control) but I think they must have been pretty negligeable before that. Although, I never showered with other girls so I had absolutely no reference, it could be they were already prominent at that time, I really can't remember.
Yoni Girl
January 22, 2010
I have large lush inner lips. I have had them since my puberty since I was 11 years old it was right before I started growing pubic hair. My clitoral hood is also big... I think is genetic and also a different experience in life.
Sunshine
March 6, 2010
I noticed mine were large and hangy when I was around 15. I was so self conscious and thought I was deformed. At my first gyn appointment when I was 18, I asked the doctor if I was deformed, and she laughed and told me that everyone looks different down there. Boy was I relieved. I am now 41 and in a new relationship, and have to admit that I have been self conscious about them. But after finding this website, I am not going to be self conscious anymore, and will flaunt them in my boyfriend's face!
labiagirl
May 18, 2010
labiagirl
I was around 17 when I first realized that mine
was large and hanging. I to thought that I was deformed and use to
cry and ask
god why, and to make matters worse one time I
was peeing and my sister saw it and was startled and ask why mine is
so big and not tucked in. But thanks to my man and this site I love
my big wet and juicy labia. By the way I would love to suck on a big
juicy labia, anyone interested let the party begin!!!!!
Lucy
October 3, 2010
I was about 14 (now 24).....Getting changed with a female friend who commented. Since then I have been slightly insecure, but finding this website has made me feel a lot more confident. x
Love-it-or-leave-it
November 28, 2010
When my douchebag first boyfriend told 17-year-old me that I had
"unusually large lips." I thought he meant the ones on my face,
but he corrected me.
This made me highly uncomfortable with
my own body until I discovered this website. I now dump guys
who don't legitimately enjoy every part of my body.
K
November 29, 2010
My earliest memory of talking about my labia and how i didnt like
them was when i was about 8 yrs old. I was in the bathroom and asked
my mom why it looked like that. I remember saying that it reminded me
of a dogs face- like a pug or something, because of the wrinkles. My
mom just told me it was my clitoris and that some women have larger
ones than others. I later learned that it was my labia, not my
clitoris, that i was referring to (Although my clitoris is also big).
It wasnt until i was around 13 or 14 that i realized there was
surgery for it and i thought i had found the answer! I couldnt wait
to turn 18 so i could have it done. I since have become more
accepting of my pussy, and at times, am glad its the way it is.
On another topic, since i mentioned my mom calling my
labia my clitoris.... Why is it that so many people are so ignorant
about the female body?? Even females! Whenever i hear a guy talking
badly about big lips, they almost always refer to clits, not labia.
Even when i can tell by the context of their conversation that
they're referring mostly to lips... Ah, when will people learn??? Its
sad really...
g.love
December 8, 2010
I found out when I started watching porn so about the age of 15. I was so scared that something was wrong with me and even stopped masturbating because I though that was the cause of my long lips. Its funny because now that I see a fuller labia on a woman it makes me want to masturbate its so sexy to me now!! I hope one day all men will appreciate it as much as I do! :)
Erika
December 13, 2010
Around the same age I started getting my period, 10 years old. I've had large one since birth but it never occurred till me till then that I was different.
31
March 7, 2011
I was about 17 when the guy I was sleeping with said there was a bit hanging out that needed to be tucked back in! I wasn't too worried then, only when a girl at uni told everyone I had a flabby fanny. WIth friends like that who needs enemas?
23yrOldVirgin
March 20, 2011
At the age of 12 is when I first noticed them getting bigger.
Lovemylabia
March 27, 2011
About the age of 10 or 11. I was horse riding one weekend and they
must have been starting to grow bigger, as it felt different when I
was rising to the trot. It didn't really concern me then until I was
reading the sealed section in a womens magazine about vaginas. The
picture was of a vagina that only had a line, no visible lips at
all!! The article also mentioned that the majority of women look like
the pic shown...I hope that magazine has now done it's research...
I now love my labia, I've been told it's much more of a turn
on...and girls we all know how much guys are turned on visually ;)
happynow
August 22, 2011
I first noticed mine when I was in the bathtub with a friend spending the night. I'm guessing we were about 8 or 9...maybe second or third grade. I just noticed that she was all tucked in, and I was all sticking out. I tried to tuck mine in, but they just didn't stay that way. They didn't bother me a whole lot until recently. I've been in long term relationship and so it was no big deal. My partner liked my pussy. But now being single again at 45, whew...so much insecurity!!! And how to handle the whole pubic hair situation...always just used to trim, now all I see are naked vulvas!! I am so grateful for this site. I feel much more confident now.