December 27, 2005
After reading many letters I thought I was okay with myself
having large labia but when I got into bed with my new boyfriend I
was scared and uncomfertable with him putting his hand in my
In previous relationships I never let my sexual partners look or touch my vagina because I didn't want him to freak out.
I met this wonderful virgin and when we got into bed I let him touch me.. He said I was beautiful and he loved being physical with me. The reason why I felt so comfertable with him was because he was a virgin and had never touched a girl's vagina before. He was so cute.
How come I can't come to terms with my body?
I really want to be able to let some guys fool around with me when they aren't virgins, but I can't let myself for some reason.. I'm to scared.
Yes, he might have been a virgin, but that doesn't mean he hasn't seen any pictures of women's private parts. And don't think guys freak out that easily. Most of us are no wimps. Even if a guy hasn't seen labia as big as yours doesn't mean he is going to break down when he looks at them. If anything, he will be intrigued and excited by all that extra sexy flesh to play with. And if he isn't, then you are dealing with a wimp and it might be better to say goodbye to him.