Bikini wax and age group of men questions....

I happen to be 22. I found this site the way that you would probably expect... looking at porn ;). The reason I'm here, honestly, is because the pictures turn me on and I like the dirty talk. That the internet... hah. You can take some of the talk as a nice esteem boost though- I'm sure a lot of it is well meant :]

Thank you jake!!! That right there was a confidence boost :D

Stop seeing your self as a freak. I can understand your insecurities since I have had it my self. But please don't think that you can't go have bikini wax because of the way you look! Your insicurities are yours and not a reflection of the real world, because in the real world you are normal. If you search the net for pics of pussys you will find that they all come in so many shapes and so many of them have large labia. And those with large labia are very different from each other as well as those with almost no labia and again as well as those in between. So why should there be anything wrong with yours??? Of course they bikini wax large labia pussys. It's a pussy, not a tumor!!!  
If you stop letting your self being dictated by those insecurities, you will get over your insecurities easyer.  
To answer your question: yes I have had my hair removed three times and nobody said anything or acted wierd or anything. By the way those people have seen all types of pussys, this is actually a place where you can go feel normal.  
I have had many insecurities but it has never held me from doing things like getting my pussyhair removed, going to the gynecologist, having sex etc. because even though I have felt like a freak I have never accepted to be one and live as one. And the result is that I now have so many good experiences or at least just normal experiences so I know from experience that large labia is considered just as normal as no labia and anything in between in the real world.  
Best wishes, Ann

Hi Dear Shawna,

I am 28, I am not so active on this site, but, you can find a few post of mine, some month ago.  

I checked your pervious posts, and to be honest your comment on uncut boys was a bit hurtful. But you were right, if there are dislikes behind our preferences, and not  more   like  then all our judgments project back on us.  

Of course me and my friends we all have our different preferences too. Some of my friends preferred peach-pussies in their teenage years. And they were talking about large labia in a funny   but not rude   way, because we didn't know what to do with our new discoveries. But till nowadays they all learnt to love the advantages of big pussy-lips, and they can tall about it in an intimate way to.  

1. So that is all about you previous post and I am glad that you feel better now, I mean if are ready for waxing, and you don't want to hide anymore. I am sure that the waxer assistant won't say any negative comment, they can see as many types as only the gyno can. And even more, they can notice if there is a "camel-toe" styl or a bigger bulge if you have your panties on, cause waxing or legs, or so. If I could realize, they can for sure. But anyway this is their job, to do it right, and not hurting the clients!  

But if you are still curios about he whole issue check out:   Perfect vagina channel4  that is a British documentary, and it starts with a waxing scene, (you can download it via torrents).

2. So back to you question, I am closing to 30 but believe me, my large-labia- adornment dates back to my ages of 17   and It is a bit related to porn, when I bought the first print-magazines, (in fine and quality edition). As soon as I was faced with the variety of pussy-shapes, I felt in love with large labia for ever !  

Best wishes:  

Don_R

Ann,

Well said -- I love your posts!

And Shawna, I happen to be 30 on the button. =0)

My wife is 27 though. . .so I think I can say without a doubt that it's sexy, and seeing as how I fall into the age group you mentioned, that should be a major confidence boost for you!

- Eric

I've just recently got mine done for the first time (I've got quite large lips and clit) and the lady didn't say anything at all. (oh I'm 18 btw). It was actually a bit thrilling to get my pussy out there. Mulitple time she has to push them aside haha, poor thing - but it was fine. It's her job.  I recommend it, It's nice being smooth.
Let us know how it goes.

I happen to be 50 and yes I am married, but it was my wife that showed me this site. She happens to have a large labia and knows how much I like it. She liked the pictures here. And yes like Jake at the top of these comments, I get turned on by the pictures and letters. But just because  am older doesn't mean I am looking for younger, my wife and I have been married almost 30 years and her labia works just fine for me. I still like the pictures, but then so does she!!

One of my biggest fears about getting waxed is the fact I am in a fairly small town and there are few places around here to get waxed in the first place. So Im afraid that the smaller population may make the bikini waxers a little less aware?  

Ive talked to guys that liked it, guys that didnt mind it, guys that hated it and guys who just didnt care. Its basically hit and miss, and I realize that. My boyfriend is helping me open up alot more and it feels so good to have someone appreciate and love my body. I mentioned before that he would never touch/go down on me. That has changed and I feel overwhelmed with how good he makes me feel. At one point while me and him were getting intimate (in the middle of him kkissing me from head to toe) he stopped and looked at me and told me to never let anyone tell me I am not sexy. It was probably the best confidence booster Ive ever had.

I'm one of those DOM's  50+ and married, but for what it is worth large lips have been a major turn on for me since the first discovered them in my late teens.

I'm thinking maybe I should offer a free waxing service.  I could specialize serving  ladies with large lips (it's ok to fanticize isn't it?  lol).

Shawna,

If you're worried about the whole "small town" issue, and you're within comfortable travel distance from a larger town, that may be an option for you.

As far as the whole judgment thing, cosmetologists are trained to retain their professionalism. If you go in for the wax and the cosmetologist makes some remark or a rude comment about your labia, Do women everywhere a favor and pitch a fit with her boss. Obviously she's not satisfied enough with her job to keep her mouth shut.

XOXO t_d

I still think that the best thing to do is to go get the bikini wax that you obviously want to but which makes you nervous. If you go to another city to do it or if you don't do it at all you confirm your self that there is something wrong with you -that you are a freak that can't do what "normal" girls do. That kind of behaviour keeps your insicurities alive because you confirm them to your self, so you kind of do to your self what you are afraid other people will do to you.  
By the way, if they have seen fewer big lipped pussys because it is a small city they must also have seen fewer small lipped pussys because the percentage is probably the same where you come from as anywhere else.  
This is just my opinion, of course you should do what you feel most comfortable with, I'm just trying to point out what I think will do you best in the long run.

I was 23 when i got my first Brazilian wax. I was a bit shy because of my lips, but thought to myself... well I've had a pap smear before! So I just keep't that thought in my head. beside the lady was soooo sweet and kind! She made me feel comfortable to the fullest, and was wonderful at the waxing! I was done in 10mins! Just take a deep breath... and GO! you'll feel good after, your vag will be soft and the thought you survived! haha empowering!

I'm 39 so at first glance that makes me a little bit out of the age group for your question to the men. However, my age isn't as important as the age I was when I became infatuated with voluptuous labia.

I was 19 years old and went to a strip club with some friends. I could get in because they didn't serve alcohol, which also meant that full nudity was allowed. One of the dancers had pierced nipples, a shaved pussy, and labia that protruded at least 1/2 inch past her outer lips. I had seen all three in magazines, but this was the first time I had seen any of these on a real live woman, the piercings and the shave make her even more memorable since they were pretty hard to find in the '80s. From the moment I first saw this dancer I've been smitten with all three since.  

If I were to be completely honest, The full lipped ladies I'd seen in magazines really didn't do anything good for me, But seeing it there in the flesh was the sexiest, most feminine, and the most alluring pussy that I'd seen up to that point. Could it be that photographing a pussy is a skill, or an art all to itself?  

By the way, The photographers who took the pictures for this site did an amazing job, just my opinion.

XOXO t_d