SJD, It's so refreshing to hear from a woman who has loved her lips, and especially to hear from one who has had them pierced. Piercing being one of my many interests, I have always had my lady friends get that done. It's absolutely beautiful. Extremely sexy. Anyone who doesn't find it so, shouldn't be allowed to play with those gorgeous lips of yours. Just keep looking, and you'll find someone who appreciates it all properly, and will put those lips to good use. Please keep us informed. Best wishes.