Heather
December 9, 2009
Hey Labi,
Amazing Site.
So encouraging and SO sexy and so NOT
pornographic! Clean sexiness...really cool stuff! Makes me want to
start my own site...in SA (for Neville and all the others here who
want to see some true class).
Yep...I got dem big un's... I was
ashamed of them for many years until I thought....bugger that...I'm
ok and no one is perfect (or what they think PERFECTION is)
Only
comment that was made was that I should never change! (This after I
mentioned I wanted surgery)
I've got two kiddies, one five years
and one five months. After my first I didn't orgasm for more
than a year. I realise now that it was more to do with my
abnormal relationship than with my genitalia or with me (or him
honestly). After the second I had (and have had) wonderful orgasms
every second or third time we shag. Fleshy labs and prominent clits
ARE sexy but they aren't the only things that keep long term
partnerships on the roll. I really think it's about give and
take and appreciating the other persons assets as well as downplaying
their 'shortfalls'. I like big dicks, my current and long term
partner's size is 'average', but his knowledge, his voice, his
competivness, his stamina, his devotion, his friendship and probably
most of all, his dedication speaks directly to my soul. He uses what
he has excellently and is more than likely the best example to
follow. I (we all) have what was given to me (us), it's how I (we)
present it and how I (we) share it that makes me (us) feel sexy
(appreciated/attractive).
That said...I perved over your site in
the biggest manner possible!
Dear Heather,
Thanks for your praise, and for some very wise comments about long term relationships!
tempest_driver
December 10, 2009
Amazing letter Heather!
I just wish they were all like that.
Congratulations on having a good man, it sounds like the two of you
are destined for a long and gratifying future together.
best of luck, keep perving, and if you do start a website make
sure you''re the star, and come back to invite us for a peek at it.
XOXO t_d
Rusty
December 10, 2009
Spot on. I obviously have a penchant for large labia and clits
to be here on this site. My first two girlfriends were well
endowed, a few after that weren't, and I realised what I was
missing...
BUT I have been married for 11 years to one lady,
and her pussy is totally unremarkable. Why did I marry and
decide to start a family with her? Because when you fall in
love with a person, its the personality that matters and the
connection between two people, not whether they have a certain
physical characteristic (or not).
All the young posters who
fret about whether they will find a man to 'tolerate' them because of
their 'deformity' (and I can't believe they think of their own bodies
that way) - keep that in mind. If you do come across anybody
who is so superficial to judge you on the size of your boobs, the
length of your labia, whether you have 'hail damage' (cellulite) on
your thighs drop the immature twat like a hot scone and look for a
bloke/partner who will appreciate you for being you.
I have
often read "why is it that older men seem to be more accepting" or
"why don't young guys appreciate large labia"? Young blokes
probably haven't seem many vulva's, they are heavily influenced (as
are young women) by group behaviour (so if one giggles about 'beef
curtains' they all will despite the fact that there may be quite a
few who find that thought highly erotic). As young people grow
older (both sexes, but particularly young blokes who are slower to
mature) we become less concerned about conformity, and less worried
about what others will think of you. We also become more
confident, less concerned about superficial things and more
interested in the person behind the exterior.
Anyway, here
endeth the preaching from a 40 year old with quite a bit of
experience of ladies of all sorts and past and present love.
Rusty.
Eric
December 10, 2009
Heather. . .
WELL SAID!!
I couldn't have put it any
better myself. . .
You go with your sexy "bits" (as you
brits say)! =0)
- Eric
The Marquis
December 11, 2009
Heather, I agree with labi that your comments show great wisdom regarding long term relationships. Congratulations to you for figuring it all out. So few are able to do so. As you say, the key is to appreciate what you have, and what your partner has, then put it to good use. Well done!! Much happiness to you both.
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