shannel
December 7, 2009
It has taken me years to get over my shame, and even insecurity. I did some research on the internet and it is so normal to have big lips or even small lips. They all come in shapes and sizes and there is nothing to worry about. If you hide it for a long time like I did, you will almost not be able to tell or even show what you have. The more you hide it the more you feel ashamed for nothing. IF you keep hiding it you will start to think you are not normal when you are. There are even some who will read this now thinking how did that help and good for you but I say if you keep it hidden then you will start to think of yourself as un-normal because I did that for years. AS a girl gets older she will develop more than she did when she was a little girl. When I was a little girl I compared myself to others but then came to realize later inm life that it is so normal to have a nice labia, so don't be afraid, be fearless!
The Marquis
December 8, 2009
Shannel, You have it absolutely correct in your letter. Congratulations for figuring it all out. So many women fall into the trap which you describe. I congratulate you for finding your way out of the trap. I hope that your letter will inspire others to love their bodies, to become confident and happy, to love themselves, so that they can then love others openly, freely, and without the kind of hesitation, fear, and shame which you describe. Again, congratulations.
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