BIG CLIT

I can only talk out of my own experience but I think that people are wrong when they say that young guys won't appreciate large labia and clits. I have large labia my self, I'm 27 now and when I was 16 I had slept with 10 different guys, half of them I recieved oral sex from and none of them said anything negative about my pussy, actually I had my first compliment from a 15 year old guy. I don't think that young guys in general have any problems with large labia/clit, they appreciate all pussy. Instead I think that it depends which crew the guy hangs out in. That is what I would think more about if I was you because if all his friends talk degrading about girls with eachother he might be doing the same. So they say that stuff because their friends do and not nessesarily because they mean it, while more mature guys are strong enough to make up their own mind about it.
I am absolutely sure that the reason that the two guys you have been with didn't say anything is because thay don't find anything wrong with you. Even if they haven't looked they still know that you have large labia and clit when they have touched it.

Well this isnt what you want to hear but if you're 15 or 16, you probably shouldnt be having sex in the first place. Chances are, some immature boy is going to ruin your self esteem bc he's too inexperienced to know that the female body comes in variations.... To answer your question, it seems to me that younger men dont see beauty in women's bodies the way some older guys do.. I think having sex at your age can only lead to bad things... Please put a lotta lotta lotta lotta thought into it before giving that much of urself to anyone..

Georgie,  

From what I have observed here, and being the father of a teenage boy, "boys" in that age group tend towards thoughtlessness and maybe even a little cruelty. couple that with the the source of pussy that they're likely to have seen so far, (Playboy) and the responses you're likely to be getting from them is probably not going to be a very good one if you have a large clit and labia, which I suspect is the case.

I would advise you to go for older men, but since I also suspect that you are the same age as the boys you are asking about, I will advise against it. Something like that can literally ruin a man's entire life, so stay away from 18+ men until you turn 18 yourself.

I will instead  suggest that you not be in a rush to have sex, and to stay away from boys that try to rush you, wait until you're comfortable with him, and if you feel like you may want to be with someone, find away to see how he feels about women built like you. Perhaps you could arrange for him to "accidentally" see an image of a woman with large lips and clit and judge his reaction. If he reacts favorably he gets the prize. If he acts put off by her pussy, then he doesn't deserve to get into your pants anyway.

lots of luck Georgie  t_d

Georgie,  What the boys think really doesn't matter.  It's your own attitude toward your body that counts.  I agree with others here that you should not be in such a hurry, since you are probably even a bit younger than the 15/16 year old boys you are asking about.  Guys at that age simply don't know, any more than you do, what it's all about, what's normal, and what isn't.  They may claim to be experienced while still being a virgin.  True of all men and boys is the line that says that the only thing better than pussy is more pussy.  They will always be after you to let them play with yours.  Choose carefully.

My first 2 girlfriends were both very well endowed, so I got the shock of my life when my third girlfriend turned out to have a very pre- pubescent looking one!

At the time I first got into m's pants (my first) I was just excited to be allowed that close, and worried what she would think of me and the slight twist I have in my penis, and whether what I was doing was 'right'.  Mind you, that was in pre porn days, but I'd say whichever bloke you are with is going to be worried about his own issues too.

Mind you, the one really weird thing is this strange idea that larger labia (and clits I suppose) = a more 'used' pussy.  Can't work that out- both my first and second girlfriends were virgins - so I KNOW its a developmental thing (and amen to that!).

Be proud of your pussy and your clit - I'll bet you have no problem at all with orgasming - many women are not that fortunate.

Good hunting!

Rusty

Rusty, you are right.. we need to get the notion out of men's minds that large labia=large vaginas... Just tonight i had a conversation with a couple of guys friends who were talking about how unnattractive large lips are. One of them was saying that it means the girl has slept around and doesnt have a tight pussy. I tried telling them theres no correlation between labia size and tightness/looseness and one of em goes "You mean to tell me some chicks are just born like that??? How... unfortunate.. That sucks for them. I'm glad ive never encountered that."  Made me feel realll great as you can imagine.. just another situation where its like1 step forward 2 steps back in terms of gaining confidence in my pussy.. I wish people were more open minded and accepting.. By the way Georgie, these guys were 26 yrs old.. and have had pretty good amount of experience.. I think in order for a guy to change their mind about large labia they have to actually fall in love with a woman who has them.. I know my boyfriend didnt like them before me but i think his opinion is changing bc of our relationship. Either that, or he's just making an acception for me cus he really likes everything else about me...

K,

I guess that experience and actual knowledge and appreciation of anything are completely unrelated. It's such a shame that guys like that are still able to find women willing to give them any, I thought the ladies information network was way more efficient than that.

both you and Georgie just need to remember that for every guy like that, there are several who like women built like you are, and many more who love pussy, just because it's pussy.

XOXO t_d

Ditto on what Tempest said!

Might as well start calling Tempest my PR guy. . .

He seems to always know what I'm gonna say before I say it.

- Eric

Haha, yea you would think the ladies information network was more efficient than that, but you gotta consider the fact that most girls dont even talk to their friends about their labia bc they dont know what they'll think about it or say about it...

/yeah, I understand that, but I'd figure that if the guy was obviously stupid as far as pleasing a woman, or was knows to run his mouth, the word would be out on him. I mean, if he was the kind of guy that would show his ass like that, I'd figure that all the ladies would want to know.