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It seems to me, that if your husband is telling you to enjoy tanning your pussy at the resort, and other people there do it, then it must be within the norm at the resort, and your husband must be approving doing it, and no doubt loving the beautiful tan that results.  No doubt, he just enjoys staring at you as well.  There is no reason for you to refrain from enjoying this yourself.  Be proud of your body, don't hesitate to show it off.  You obviously enjoy sunning and tanning at home.  Good luck.

I agree that if other people are doing it then it must be accepted practice, otherwise the management would try to prevent it from happening. In addition, if your husband encourages you to do the same, he is obviously approving of the act. In fact it may even give him a thrill to show off the woman he loves in that way. I know I'd be looking.

But in the end, it's your pussy, and if you feel uncomfortable putting your naughty bits on display like that, then it's your decision.

You should... If the people are on a nude resort theyre probably pretty open people. If theyre offended, thats their problem.

Jane.
Most people at the resorts I have been too do not get offended by ladies having their legs wide open ....men do it ...so why not women . To be totally nake try being totally shaven ....the appearance is gorgeous ...and always remember slip - slop - slap....Aussie sun rules .....slap on a hat , slip on clothing if exposed too long (not labias ...longer the better!) and slop on sunsreen.
I have actually seen women (secretly)at clubs stretch their labias before standing up for a walk etc to "show off"!  
The last thing do not become too provocative , too sensual  
Regards
Keith