too small too scared

utterly upset

November 2, 2009

Hi I am an 18 year old and am still a virgin. I am scared to lose it because my labia are too small :( I looked all over this site and I see big vuloptuos lips with protuding labia minora. But I don't have that ... is there any way too make them bigger?
HELP ME PLEAAASE

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Ann

November 3, 2009

Don't worry about it. I really think that the majority of guys love all pussy. Wait untill you are ready and when you are I am sure that the guy you have chosen will enjoy your pussy.
Best wishes, Ann

K

November 3, 2009

I dont think you should try to change the way you are.....Yes, some guys prefer big labia.. but i dont think any of them mind small labia... On the same token, there are guys out there who dont like big labia...so.. your odds of finding someone to accept you are better the way you are now than if you were to try to stretch your labia. Just be who are. Dont let this website make you feel bad about your body...

The Marquis

November 3, 2009

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your lips just the way they are.  You must stop judging yourself based on photos of others.  You need to learn to love yourself just as you are.  However, there are numeroous ways to increase the size of your lips,  starting by just pulling on them a bit when it's possible to do so.  Of course, you can also purchase a pussy pump and use it to see just how your vulva and your lips can expand.  Since you are so very young, you can expect some changes in the appearance of your cunt to continue as you mature more.  I hope you will accept my advice, and learn to love it all just as it is, and to watch it carefully, and to enjoy all the changes that come throughout your life.

SimplyJ

November 3, 2009

Utterly upset:
Just stop and relax.
Stop comparing yourself! As this site states, there are women who undergo surgery to try to look like you do!
This site is about large labia, that is true, but that is not to say women without large labia are not desirable.
Personally I think this site is more about getting women to love their 'flowers' no matter what shape or form. It focuses on large labia women because many would opt for having pieces of their flower sliced away!  
What you have is unique and WILL be appreciated utterly by MOST people for its beauty.  
The only thing you NEED to change is your feelings toward your own flower; NOT the flower!
But if you don't want to consider my words and have your heart set on trying to change yourself: I did see a recent post about a woman who does stretching exercises... msg. 2644 in October.

tempest_driver

November 4, 2009

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin until you are ready to lose it, whether that be tonight, or in ten years.

And there is nothing wrong with having small labia. While it is true that this site is full of women with larger labia, and men who love them, we pretty much all agree that small labia are beautiful too.

And if you want to have longer labia, there are two or three  important things to take into consideration.

1. You're 18 years old. you may not be completely through with puberty yet, which means that it is entirely possible that your body will still go through some changes, one of which could be the labia you desire.

2. When you're ready, I mean really ready to have sex, and you get all excited, parts of you, including your labia will swell a bit. Sure they'll shrink up again afterwards, but while you're turned on, they'll be bigger.

3. If that's not enough for you, there are always the stretching techniques mentioned by SimplyJ.

Don't be in a rush, and don't be discouraged, when the time's right it'll happen for you. and your pussy is beautiful just the way it is.

married guy

November 7, 2009

Dear Virgin

You should not worry about the size of your pussy or pussy lips.  

Even my wife too have small inner pussy lips, they not look like pictures we see here, but still i love her pussy just because her pussy lips even smaller but horny like hell, she get wet very well if touched.

If you marry guy who love u, he will not look at ur face or pussy and surely he will enjoy sex with u and u too.

best of luck for your life.

pussyologist

November 22, 2009

Where you are lacking in one place you are exceeding in another.  you have externally what you do not like, but internally may have the greatest gift yet.  If you need help discovering, please reply for assistance.

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