Finding men who like big lips

I'm sorry for your bad experiences, but not all of them will be like that and you have to know that, not because I'm giving you the there's plenty of fish in the sea speech, but it's just statistically impossible that every man is that way.  
Maybe your guys didn't enjoy going down on you, not because of your genitals, but because some guys just honestly don't enjoy giving oral.  
Did you ever ask?  
And that one prick, forget about. Seriously. I do believe it was Eleanor Roosevelt who said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
Also, I personally don't think it's a great idea to ask your guy what he "prefers" (rather bluntly or subtly) because if he prefers something different than what many of us have- myself included- then he just isn't going to get that, plus if he does happen to prefer something different just imagine what that's going to do for your self-confidence in your "down there" area!  
I would be humiliated and I have a feeling you would be too. When you go into a situation of a sexual nature it is only right to FEEL sexy.  
So your next encounter, know the man, know yourself, and he will love you- but more important than that- you will love you. Love your body, because it's the one you were given, and it's just bad manners to return or not use something that isn't broken :)

Dear Labi,

Once again a letter which supports the idea of a badge or recognision symbol, which would premote all this site supports.

It would probably be the most helpful thing you could do for your followers, and to your own credit.

Respectfully  Mr "S"

Little Miss has the right idea.  Your labia are yours, God gave them to you.  Larger labia are sexier labia, despite the comments of some immature or shallow people.  The more you appreciate yourself, the more sexy you are, no matter how you look.  There simply is no aphrodesiac comparable to a turned on woman.  Enjoy yourself.  Play with yourself, and get to know just what you love best.  When you're with a partner, ask for it.  Relax and be confident.   All will be well.

Dear Ellie,

If that makes you feel better, know that there is plenty of men out there, like me, who love large labia....
You just have to find the right partner who will make you feel good about yourself.
In the meanwhile, be confident and proud of who you are, and proud of what nature gave you.  
You have a great asset....trust me...

Sam

Ellie, your ex-boyfriends were most likely brought up watching pornography showing smaller, air brushed, surgically altered pussies, which is common with most men. It's not until they begin to explore with other woman (or get an ounce of common sense) will they appreciate a larger labia. When I was a virgin I was wishing for those 'smaller' looking vaginas. It wasn't until finding this website, and having sex with females who have larger labias, did I absolutely fall in love with big labias. Your husband needs to look at the ups and downs of them, compared to the vaginas that the porn industry displays, and he should come to his senses. If you do find it in your personal comfort level I would love some pics, and would give you comments to assure you that your large labia is a gift.

-Jake

Another fan of large labia who can't wait for the chance to 'go down' on a meaty pussy! So there you go Ellie, there are plenty of guys who'd love a girl with such a pussy!.

Take care, Tom.