I'm sorry for your bad experiences, but not all of them will be like
that and you have to know that, not because I'm giving you the
there's plenty of fish in the sea speech, but it's just statistically
impossible that every man is that way.
Maybe your guys
didn't enjoy going down on you, not because of your genitals, but
because some guys just honestly don't enjoy giving oral.
Did you ever ask?
And that one prick, forget
about. Seriously. I do believe it was Eleanor Roosevelt who said, "No
one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
Also, I
personally don't think it's a great idea to ask your guy what he
"prefers" (rather bluntly or subtly) because if he prefers something
different than what many of us have- myself included- then he just
isn't going to get that, plus if he does happen to prefer something
different just imagine what that's going to do for your
self-confidence in your "down there" area!
I would be
humiliated and I have a feeling you would be too. When you go into a
situation of a sexual nature it is only right to FEEL sexy.
So your next encounter, know the man, know yourself, and he
will love you- but more important than that- you will love you. Love
your body, because it's the one you were given, and it's just bad
manners to return or not use something that isn't broken :)