This was absolutely amazing. It's fantastic to know that we are
normal and loved!
Now... to only find that man! :)
Anonymous
July 18, 2009
Before I write anything I would like to express my thanks to the
owner of this web site, for doing something no one else has and for
the help it has and is giving to others. For there is no where else
you can get the truth…….
This is the first time I have
written on this site, and only now because there are still so many
ladies out there who need to adjust their thinking. Who have been
misled by the media, the glamour industry, and the patriarchal
society we now inhabit.
So let me introduce myself as a
widower of sixty one, who first came on this site because I love the
female form and am frankly biased in this direction. Not that I am
seeking anything, and some of the comments from men are distasteful
in the extreme. So any reading this, please note these are people who
for one reason or another are not happy with natures endowment and
this is a direct result of the society we now live in.
I was
married to a wonderful girl for a long, long time, she had
beautifully developed labia minora, I loved both her and her
femininity and, cunilingus with her was a joy, truth be
known.
I recently read an article that a girl had reduction
surgery because her boyfriends comments made her feel abnormal,
needless to say, it was a relationship that didn’t last. But the
really sad part is now she misses her lips, what a tragedy and all
because he wasn’t knowledgeable, and she was insecure.
So you
ladies out there, look at what you are faced with on a daily basis.
Glamour models who have prefect skin, or is it a paint job! And, my
wife had freckles and was beautiful. Magazine photos, which are
airbrushed art, not actually the truth. And, here is one you may not
be aware of, the original top shelf magazines such as Playboy and
Mayfair etc were first published in an era of extreme censorship, as
a direct result of this girls with larger vulva were not included
because it was considered to be too provoking or arousing, a legacy
that still haunts the fashion industry and the catwalks to this day.
Did you get that “TOO AROUSING”, so you girls are not unlucky, you
are truly blessed when compared to a girl who has nothing but an
opening……….
Some time after I lost my wife I went out with a
woman who had a wonderful figure, and some of the biggest hang ups I
have ever come across. She had a bum a twenty year old girl would
have been proud of, but was so embarrassed and thought it huge,
another example of the media and her upbringing. But more to the
point she sadly was not blessed with large labia, she in fact had
been given the short straw by nature and this is so sad, had never
had an orgasm in her life, and believe me I tried to remedy that and
couldn’t, so who is blessed and who isn’t eh……
So what you are
faced with is all too often not something wrong, but something
incredibly right, but you have been hoodwinked into believing you are
an oddity. I also want to add a point here, that it is not just you
ladies that are affected by the media, the adverts etc, the men are
too, hence why some of them don’t realise that labia come in more
generous proportions and have expectations that are quite frankly
incorrect. That shouldn’t be a surprise either, as men only get to
see what the media supports……or their girlfriend.
Another
point to get across is how easy it is to carry with you throughout
life an error, a good example is dogs of which I have had many, one
bad experience can live with a dog for the rest of its days. We
however have enough grey cells to understand and adjust. But who do
you believe, ask a friend “Does my bum look big in this?” and of
course the answer is a big No….. we don’t like to give out negatives
to people we like. Likewise on greeting someone “Hello, how are you,
is normal but tell that person you are far from fine and mostly they
wish they had never asked. Here on this web site apart from the odd
bit of smut from fools, you are getting the truth, you are not
faulty, you are actually lucky.
I hate the Michael Caine
analogy of not many people know this, but. I want to give you girls
something of a flash back in history, and believe me not many of you
will know this. We are all aware of the “empowering women” movement
and the Mis culture, but our ancestors didn’t need it, and by that I
mean the men. You would need to seek out books or the internet to
validate some of this, because you will never see it on TV or in
museums, because ‘they’ consider these things might frighten children
or offend old ladies etc. Take a look at the Celtic era and the Celts
themselves, yes our very own ancestors in the UK. They not only
revered the female form they worshipped it. Look for Sheela Na Gig
just one example of many such well endowed finds around the world,
not pornography, definitely a fertility item, but also a desirable
sexual one.
What follows here is not in print in one place, it
is the result of much research and various books, plus personal
visits. Anyone living in the UK will have heard of Avebury, it is the
largest stone circle in Europe if not the world, it even has a
village inside it. Along with this is West Kennet long barrow, one of
the most complete ones left. Both these sites are easily visited. I
will deal with Avebury first – Although much of it was destroyed by
order of the church, enough remains, and did for one William Stukeley
to sketch it and although not much recognised by the scholars of the
day, look it up, it is in fact the biggest ground representation of
two ovaries and a womb in the world, it culminated with a phallic
dolmen inside the main circle, check it out yourselves. Another is
West Kennet long barrow, this is laid out as a person, it has within
it five chambers, and if you look at it with an open mind, it is a
head chamber, two arm chambers, two leg chambers and the entry is
between the legs. In other words it is a female form. But one thing
hardly anyone notices is that the closing stone in front of it has a
vulva carved into it, some six feet tall. If you read the books they
call it a burial mound, that quite frankly is rubbish.
My last not
many people know this, is the River Kennet itself, which had its name
changed from pressures of a religious nature, it was “cunt”, although
might have been spelt with a ‘K’. And there you have it, the waters
left mother earth via an opening in the ground (and still do), this
entire site is one of worship to Mother earth and the female giver of
life. And, the proportions are to say the least GENEROUS IN EVERY
WAY.
So the penultimate line; For centuries the church has
oppressed women, tried to make sexuality something to be ashamed of
and never spoken about. The media has steered away from more
generously proportioned women. Cosmetic companies want to make you
believe in one thing only that you need their products, or you’re not
“worth it”. Surgeons cannot make you well endowed, but are only too
happy to do the opposite for large sums of money. So don’t believe
any of them, or anyone who makes or could make money out of
you.
So girls please don’t think wrong of yourselves, we men
love you. Oh and one last comment from looking back at some letters
regarding discomfort. Yes good advise not to wear underwear, but not
always practical, and can make a girl feel extremely uneasy, try
French knickers, and a dress or skirt, my wife found them to be a
good option. Oh, and French knickers are dead sexy………
If you look
back at fashions compared to todays jeans culture you will find most
women wore skirts and dresses, there were good reasons for this, and
even now it is still a treat to see a lady dressed nicely. If you can
get away with jeans fine, but if it’s giving you trouble why not look
smart and be comfortable as well.
Still having any doubts then
check out the Cameltoe song for an up to date item, and no its not
taking the micky, we love that.
I hope you managed to stick it
through to the end.
Dear Anonymous,
Thanks a lot for your very educational article, with plenty of words of wisdom! It's an elaborate piece and I hope everyone here takes the time to read it. I never knew about the Celts and their worship of the female form and the vulva. It reminds me of the way Hindus revere the vagina (yoni) and see it as their "Sacred Temple."
For the sake of convenience I added a few links to some of the subjects and places you talk about:
Sheela Na Gig, the goddess of fertility with the huge vulva:
at
whitedragon.org.uk
at
Wikipedia
Avebury stone circle with its representation of two ovaries and a
womb:
at
witcombe.sbc.edu
at Wikipedia
West Kennet long barrow, built in the form of a woman:
at
newagetravel.com
at
witcombe.sbc.edu
at
Wikipedia
lily
July 20, 2009
This was absolutely amazing. It's fantastic to know that we are
normal and loved!
Now... to only find that man! :)
S-annon
July 21, 2009
Thank you for your comment on my little essay, and I am glad you
found it "amazing". I have been reading some of the other letters and
it isn't any wonder some of you feel insecure.
I liked the
subtle comment of "boy" friend, because it truly does apply with some
younger men. Or the husband who thought his wife's endowment was
larger because she had had too many previous relationships, oh god,
some mothers do have them.
This is all down to genetics, not
usage.
Another comment was asymmetry, nothing and no
one is, perfection does not exist, even in precision engineering, it
all comes down to how precise we want to be in measuring things. But
mostly this kind of hang up is because we grow up in a world of
taboos and our sexuality is a private thing. Does it bother a cow if
one teat is bigger than the others, or would you see a stallion
hiding behind a bush because his penis steers to the left etc.
Animals don't care, don't realise, it is a human thing, a human
condition.
I am sure you all realise there are differences
between having sex and making love, in the former you would not
expect a great deal of understanding or tenderness. But if you are
having sex because you are in love, then it should be because you
accept the person, love the person and under those circumstances,
having one foot bigger than the other (we all do have) or unequal lip
sizes isn't an issue at all, or should I say it shouldn't be one. If
it is, then I would question that persons definition of the word
"Love". So don't be put off by a comment from a casual relationship.
And, if someone cannot accept you as you are then question just how
shallow are those feelings he or she claims to have .
They say love conquers all things, I lost my wife to cancer, she
was still a youngish woman when she died, yet because of
morphine and her illness she looked positively ancient, but I loved
her and when you do love, you see through all these things to the
person, the personality the soul of the one you love, in my case I
would have done anything to have kept her and still have seen the
beautiful young lady she once was. If someone is too shallow to
accept your bits, then what chance have you if something worse comes
along.
S-annon