Some Help

Anonymous

July 18, 2009

Before I write anything I would like to express my thanks to the owner of this web site, for doing something no one else has and for the help it has and is giving to others. For there is no where else you can get the truth…….

This is the first time I have written on this site, and only now because there are still so many ladies out there who need to adjust their thinking. Who have been misled by the media, the glamour industry, and the patriarchal society we now inhabit.

So let me introduce myself as a widower of sixty one, who first came on this site because I love the female form and am frankly biased in this direction. Not that I am seeking anything, and some of the comments from men are distasteful in the extreme. So any reading this, please note these are people who for one reason or another are not happy with natures endowment and this is a direct result of the society we now live in.

I was married to a wonderful girl for a long, long time, she had beautifully developed labia minora, I loved both her and her femininity and, cunilingus with her was a joy, truth be known.

I recently read an article that a girl had reduction surgery because her boyfriends comments made her feel abnormal, needless to say, it was a relationship that didn’t last. But the really sad part is now she misses her lips, what a tragedy and all because he wasn’t knowledgeable, and she was insecure.

So you ladies out there, look at what you are faced with on a daily basis. Glamour models who have prefect skin, or is it a paint job! And, my wife had freckles and was beautiful. Magazine photos, which are airbrushed art, not actually the truth. And, here is one you may not be aware of, the original top shelf magazines such as Playboy and Mayfair etc were first published in an era of extreme censorship, as a direct result of this girls with larger vulva were not included because it was considered to be too provoking or arousing, a legacy that still haunts the fashion industry and the catwalks to this day. Did you get that “TOO AROUSING”, so you girls are not unlucky, you are truly blessed when compared to a girl who has nothing but an opening……….

Some time after I lost my wife I went out with a woman who had a wonderful figure, and some of the biggest hang ups I have ever come across. She had a bum a twenty year old girl would have been proud of, but was so embarrassed and thought it huge, another example of the media and her upbringing. But more to the point she sadly was not blessed with large labia, she in fact had been given the short straw by nature and this is so sad, had never had an orgasm in her life, and believe me I tried to remedy that and couldn’t, so who is blessed and who isn’t eh……

So what you are faced with is all too often not something wrong, but something incredibly right, but you have been hoodwinked into believing you are an oddity. I also want to add a point here, that it is not just you ladies that are affected by the media, the adverts etc, the men are too, hence why some of them don’t realise that labia come in more generous proportions and have expectations that are quite frankly incorrect. That shouldn’t be a surprise either, as men only get to see what the media supports……or their girlfriend.

Another point to get across is how easy it is to carry with you throughout life an error, a good example is dogs of which I have had many, one bad experience can live with a dog for the rest of its days. We however have enough grey cells to understand and adjust. But who do you believe, ask a friend “Does my bum look big in this?” and of course the answer is a big No….. we don’t like to give out negatives to people we like. Likewise on greeting someone “Hello, how are you, is normal but tell that person you are far from fine and mostly they wish they had never asked. Here on this web site apart from the odd bit of smut from fools, you are getting the truth, you are not faulty, you are actually lucky.

I hate the Michael Caine analogy of not many people know this, but. I want to give you girls something of a flash back in history, and believe me not many of you will know this. We are all aware of the “empowering women” movement and the Mis culture, but our ancestors didn’t need it, and by that I mean the men. You would need to seek out books or the internet to validate some of this, because you will never see it on TV or in museums, because ‘they’ consider these things might frighten children or offend old ladies etc. Take a look at the Celtic era and the Celts themselves, yes our very own ancestors in the UK. They not only revered the female form they worshipped it. Look for Sheela Na Gig just one example of many such well endowed finds around the world, not pornography, definitely a fertility item, but also a desirable sexual one.

What follows here is not in print in one place, it is the result of much research and various books, plus personal visits. Anyone living in the UK will have heard of Avebury, it is the largest stone circle in Europe if not the world, it even has a village inside it. Along with this is West Kennet long barrow, one of the most complete ones left. Both these sites are easily visited. I will deal with Avebury first – Although much of it was destroyed by order of the church, enough remains, and did for one William Stukeley to sketch it and although not much recognised by the scholars of the day, look it up, it is in fact the biggest ground representation of two ovaries and a womb in the world, it culminated with a phallic dolmen inside the main circle, check it out yourselves. Another is West Kennet long barrow, this is laid out as a person, it has within it five chambers, and if you look at it with an open mind, it is a head chamber, two arm chambers, two leg chambers and the entry is between the legs. In other words it is a female form. But one thing hardly anyone notices is that the closing stone in front of it has a vulva carved into it, some six feet tall. If you read the books they call it a burial mound, that quite frankly is rubbish.
My last not many people know this, is the River Kennet itself, which had its name changed from pressures of a religious nature, it was “cunt”, although might have been spelt with a ‘K’. And there you have it, the waters left mother earth via an opening in the ground (and still do), this entire site is one of worship to Mother earth and the female giver of life. And, the proportions are to say the least GENEROUS IN EVERY WAY.

So the penultimate line; For centuries the church has oppressed women, tried to make sexuality something to be ashamed of and never spoken about. The media has steered away from more generously proportioned women. Cosmetic companies want to make you believe in one thing only that you need their products, or you’re not “worth it”. Surgeons cannot make you well endowed, but are only too happy to do the opposite for large sums of money. So don’t believe any of them, or anyone who makes or could make money out of you.

So girls please don’t think wrong of yourselves, we men love you. Oh and one last comment from looking back at some letters regarding discomfort. Yes good advise not to wear underwear, but not always practical, and can make a girl feel extremely uneasy, try French knickers, and a dress or skirt, my wife found them to be a good option. Oh, and French knickers are dead sexy………
If you look back at fashions compared to todays jeans culture you will find most women wore skirts and dresses, there were good reasons for this, and even now it is still a treat to see a lady dressed nicely. If you can get away with jeans fine, but if it’s giving you trouble why not look smart and be comfortable as well.

Still having any doubts then check out the Cameltoe song for an up to date item, and no its not taking the micky, we love that.

I hope you managed to stick it through to the end.

 

Dear Anonymous,

Thanks a lot for your very educational article, with plenty of words of wisdom! It's an elaborate piece and I hope everyone here takes the time to read it. I never knew about the Celts and their worship of the female form and the vulva. It reminds me of the way Hindus revere the vagina (yoni) and see it as their "Sacred Temple."

For the sake of convenience I added a few links to some of the subjects and places you talk about:

Sheela Na Gig, the goddess of fertility with the huge vulva:
at whitedragon.org.uk
at Wikipedia

Avebury stone circle with its representation of two ovaries and a womb:
at witcombe.sbc.edu
at Wikipedia

West Kennet long barrow, built in the form of a woman:
at newagetravel.com
at witcombe.sbc.edu
at Wikipedia

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