Stuckandconfused
July 14, 2009
I'm a bisexual teenager and I have these infamous large labia. I am white and my labia is a purplish and it's dangly and long. I don't have a large clit but I'm not stupid to not realize that I have a horrible looking vagina. I'm so embarassed of it. This site is probably the only one that has vaginas like mine. Nowhere in porn or in real life have I seen a vagina like mine. I myself like girls and guys and am attracted to a clean, pink vagina, not a saggy purple, abused-looking one like mine. In fact I find the ones on this site kind of disgusting. It is not something I would ever want in my mouth. I have always hated god for making me this way. Why can't I just be like everyone else? I've considered surgery but that is like giving in. I don't want god to see that I've given in. I want to win against HIM. I know that the majority of guys are not into vaginas like mine, and the few of you that are, such as the ones on this site, are older men. I'm a teenage girl. My ex boyfriend wanted so many blowjobs, and he promised me he'd go down on me but he never did, once he saw me naked. He said he loved me. I did so much for him. All of my girl and guy friends to whom I've confessed this insecurity to, have not comforted me at all. I'm sitting here crying because I don't know what to do. you might tell me, "You'll appreciate your body more when you're older!!" Okay well I'm gonna care about other things when I'm 50 years old! I want to be secure and confident at my current young age, not when I'm 50! Please help me. telling me to stop worrying or that I'm fine the way I am or that huge purple dangly pussy lips are hot is NOTTTTTT going to make me feel any better!!!!
The Marquis
July 14, 2009
Check out some of the websites mentioned in earlier comments on this site, such as pussyxxl, and the private site of meatylips. All are quite lovely, as I'm sure you are. You simply haven't met the right men or women yet. When you do, you will discover the great joys of those lips of yours.
The Marquis
July 14, 2009
One thing that you're absolutely right about is that if you are determined to hate your body, there is nothing anyone can do to force you to change your opinion. If the facts of the comments of some of the women who have learned to love themselves on this site don't move you to rethink your absolutism regarding your labia, then certainly nothing anyone of us can say will change your mind.
long lips lover
July 14, 2009
ok..i met my current girlfriend when i was 18, she also has a large labia like yours. when me and her first met i wasnt aware of the diffrent shapes and sizes. at the time i had prolly 5 sex partners and all had tight smooth lips and small clit. as i began to research a little bit while bored at college i found that there are diffrent labias out there. thats when i came to appreciate what my gf had, and instead of being taken back by her pussy i was then happy that i had found someone so special and unique. im 21 now and wouldnt have her any other way, i LOVE her labia these days and really cant get enough of her.
noodles
July 17, 2009
Hi,
First of all you're not the only one with lips like that
I've seen loads of women with big purple-ish lips. I'm 27 and love
the lips you describe.
Secondly, it's not god who made you
this way it's actually genetics.
Thirdly, you are so very
lucky to have lips like yours. You will one day find a guy or chick
who loves your lips for what they are.
My girlfriend lets me
suck and stretch hers so they get bigger. I love and she loves it.
Remember that you're only a teenager and have a lot of time
for experience and to experiment. If one doesn't like your lips then
its up to you to decide how to move forward...are you a very sexual
person? Do you like having kinky sex? or do you simply want someone
to love all of your bits?
Anyway, don't get depressed or sad
about your lips there are a lot of people who would love to have them
in their mouth - not only me hehe
Take care
Noodles
Blair
August 1, 2009
Stuckandconfused, how old is your boyfriend, because in
my opinion there are some development factors that play into a
specific attraction towards a larger labia. Also, I believe you
should confront him about this and possibly talk to him about the
good qualities of 'long lips', if you're not comfortable talking with
him about a topic like that then I don't think you should be having a
sexual relationship with him.
Another big question
is are you happy with him, or do you feel like he thinks of you as a
free blowjob? Long labias also tend to have wrinkles, depending on
the size... this may be causing him discomfort (he may be assuming
them to be greasy, dirty and, abused)... try having him close his
eyes and dive in! This isn't the most romantic way, but the point of
it is to have him give you lips a shot... I'm 80% sure that
once he tries out your lips he won't be able to get enough!
-Jake
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