There is no need for insecurity, Karen. I assure you that it is all a very good thing. The more you play with those lips, the more you will come to understand the benefits deriving from them. The more you encounter lovers who enjoy your lovely lips, the more and more you will appreciate the value of them. You have only to read the many comments on this site, and to look at the beautiful photos of the many women with long, hanging lips, or thick engorged lips, to validate what I'm saying. Just relax, be confident, and enjoy them to the fullest.